i have been on the site for several years, the verification of my profile was thorough and if the verification of the ladies is similar then i am confident the site is legitimate. i have chatted, mailed, and phoned several women who were attractive to me or initiated communications through the admirer mail or chatting process. i am now in contact with my chosen lady who has stated she wishes to marry in the summer of 2016. FAIL. i am not sure if this is going to work, the lady seems totally disconnected from my communications and either is ignoring my simple requests to verify herself or is just leading me on for some reason. it seems like either the translators are not doing their job or are fraudulent in their communications. i must now confirm the communications is fraught with abuse of trust. the translators and member agencies seem to collude in their actions to elicit the use of credits and either hijack ladies communications or their profiles for their own profit. the chnlove office refuses to acknowledge these abuses so i suspect they are in full knowledge of these fraudulent activities, i have read many reviews of this site and even though there is an occaisional success story, overall i do not recommend the qpid network as most of the site is devoted to getting more money from wealthy male clients.