• VioletDates

VioletDates

Overview

VioletDates has a rating of 1.67 stars from 12 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. VioletDates ranks 372nd among Dating sites.

  • Service
    4
  • Value
    4
  • Quality
    4

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Top Positive Review

“I liked VioletDates right away”

Richard M.
10/7/21

I liked VioletDates right away. Registration does not require extensive computer knowledge, pleasant communication, no annoying advertising. I've been on the platform for a few months now, found a lot of interesting people to correspond with.

Top Critical Review

“Scam to pump you for money!”

John A P.
11/21/23

Just notice, when your chat credits run out, there will be no more "likes" or interest in you… I took my time about chatting with anyone for a few days, one girl stated: "you don't respond to anyone on this site, why are you here?" She never did respond when I asked, "How do you know?" It's a scam…

Reviews (12)

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Thumbnail of user johnap7
1 review
0 helpful votes
November 21st, 2023

Just notice, when your chat credits run out, there will be no more "likes" or interest in you…
I took my time about chatting with anyone for a few days, one girl stated: "you don't respond to anyone on this site, why are you here?"
She never did respond when I asked, "How do you know?"
It's a scam…

Thumbnail of user mikloss1
1 review
2 helpful votes
March 7th, 2022

My contact with support: Me: Hey, don't you think it is appropriate that there is no credits "costs" communicating with the women who are in Ukraine? For some, we here are the only they can "talk" to. Some are sitting in a bunker and scared to death!
Support: Hey there! We are pleased to welcome you to our website. My name is Bella, if you have any questions, I'm here to help
I can see how you feel
From our side, we constantly stay in touch with our members from Ukraine right now.
Me: Cmon, don't be cynical.
The contact I have, is totally alone
Apart from me
She expressed that herself
Support: There is no technical option to make communication with Ukraine women free for users
Me: Yes, you have
It is very easy
Support: I am going to pass your feedback in regards to this feature to this appropriate department.
Is there anything else I may help you with?
Me: Hey, shall I tell the girl your response?
Support: It's up to you
Me: You are leaving them to die alone?
Support: From our side, we constantly stay in touch with our members from Ukraine right now.
Me: Nonsense, my contact wrote that I am the only one who are writing to her
You are lying
Business as usual
Support: If you want to support any users on the platform in this difficult situation, you can chat with them as usual
Maybe there's something else I could assist you with?
Me: Yes, BUSINESS AS USUAL, suck money of those who wants to help them
Support: I can see how you feel. To be honest, some of our other members felt that our prices are too high. Indeed there are many websites out there, our communication platform though has a number of advantages, such as strict adherence to the terms of legislation, including the Federal IMBRA law, which guarantees the users' safety from inadequate individuals. In addition to these serious measures, we always provide high-quality support service for our members. Every query is carefully reviewed by our Moderation, Financial or Technical departments. This means that we have to go to certain expenses to maintain the same level of diligence for all our customers, and thus we set our prices.
Me: I hope they will blow whole this cynical business
You $#*!ing don't care
Support: I'm sorry, but I'm going to end this chat. You are welcome to contact us back at some other time.
NOTE: This is the whole discussion, nothing excluded, nothing else included
Supporters name was Bella as you can see on screen shot

Tip for consumers:
This is a site taking huge amount of money for just chatting. Pay mer message/mail/seeing pictures et cetera. Sending a mail frankly cost USD15 each. Also they censor all kind of information that can lead to contact outside their platform. That means you as a user, cannot verify any of these women. Don't trust this system, it is like buying a pig in a sack. If you want to chat, there are better options, so don't be a fool.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Miklos,

Thank you for such a detailed review and the screenshots attached!

We do appreciate your time taking into this matter and would like to inform you that we do get in touch with some of the members from Ukraine since they may expect the gift deliveries or some clarifications regarding their verification.

While contacting the members within the working process they may be asked about their being and supported.

However, I would like to draw your attention to the fact that we may not get in touch with all of the members since some of them may be cut off from the Internet connection or simply not get in touch due to different reasons considering the current situation in the country.

Nevertheless, as the company, we constantly provide financial support to Ukraine people and their army. Our employees are doing their part in this war, helping in many fields.

Thank you for your understanding! Stay safe!

Best regards,
Violetdates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user richardm2929
1 review
0 helpful votes
October 7th, 2021

I liked VioletDates right away. Registration does not require extensive computer knowledge, pleasant communication, no annoying advertising. I've been on the platform for a few months now, found a lot of interesting people to correspond with.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Richard,

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and feedback with us!

We will be glad to assist you in case of any additional questions. Please contact us via support@violetdates.com if any assistance is needed.

Best regards,
VioletDates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user kylemcquil
1 review
3 helpful votes
May 17th, 2023
Verified purchase

From a girl who worked there: What I have already told you about such sites is not all that I know, sites that are in your country cooperate with Ukrainian companies that hire people here who correspond with you and many others instead of girls. And the girls are just models who sell their materials, get a percentage of the gifts, and those people who correspond with men get a percentage based on how much money a man has spent on the site. Some girls cooperate with the site, so one of them sends you a photo with your name on it to gain your trust, they get orders for what they need to do for a particular man and they do it. You have a logical question, how would I know that, don't you? One of my friends was working in a similar company, she was corresponding with men for money, as I described above, but she did it for a short time, she was just cheated, when she applied for a job she was told that all the girls are real and just do not know English, but when she started working she realized that it was all a lie and found out many interesting things. She told me this and I decided to come to a similar site and see how everything works, honestly, I do not remember what was in your profile, my goal was just to save at least someone from there and tell the truth, they gave me mail to some men, support site, I do not know why they agreed, but it worked, but only you answered.

Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your time and money. If you wish to support Ukraine, find another venue. If you wish to meet women, find another venue.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Frank,

Thanks for finding time to submit this review. At the same time, we’re truly saddened to hear about the inconveniences you went through.

Please be informed that we always strive to provide our users with a secure space for communication. For this purpose, we carefully approve validated members to be registered on the website and they undergo multiple verification checks that confirm their identity before their profiles appear active. Our affiliate partners make sure that there are no bogus profiles, and that the user you look at in the profile pictures is the person you are corresponding with. This, of course, makes it much harder for unscrupulous people to create fake accounts.

We do not pay the validated members for communication and prohibit our affiliate partners from doing so. We always take measures in case we notice any violations of the terms of our website. In any case, if you notice something suspicious in the behavior of a specific member, please contact our support team and let us know the member ID and the specific facts that give rise to concern. We will investigate the matter and let you know the results.

It is true that you need to be a paid member to use some of the services, however, you only pay for the services you are provided with. You get to choose the services that are of your interest and control your spendings on those. From our end, we always provide high-quality support services for our members. Every query is carefully reviewed by our moderation, financial or technical departments. Our customer support team is ready to help you with any questions 24/7. This means that we have to go to certain expenses to maintain the same level of diligence for all our customers, and thus we set our prices.

At this point, we kindly ask you to contact us via support@violetdates.com as soon as possible and we will be happy to assist you with the difficulties that you have experienced.

Kind Wishes,
Violetdates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user caryy10
1 review
4 helpful votes
August 14th, 2023

Never video chat, fake profiles and always have excuses, to avoid giving personal information, always cost credits, you can spend thousands chatting and never get any where, even with the same girl for months, it always costs extra to see their sexy pictures, what a scam,

Tip for consumers:
Don’t waste your money , don’t be stupid like I was

Thumbnail of user fringemagick
1 review
2 helpful votes
May 21st, 2023

100% fake profiles and AI communication, zero user--created profiles, you are talking to AI designed to waste your time and money, and you will never ever be able to get an off-site contact from the AI. Make as stupid offensive of a name as you can possibly think of and make the worst profile ever and you'll still be constantly spammed with overly positive messages from the AI chatbots. Also all the profiles you make will never show up on the site as there are ZERO use-created profiles to interact with on the site. Try filtering to show male profiles on this site or it's sister sites and you'll barely see any male profiles, which is very unrealistic.

Tip for consumers:
It's a scam 100%. Avoid it unless you like wasting money on talking to AI.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Fringe,

We’re really sorry to hear about the occurred situation. Nevertheless, every person leaves review about their experience at will and everyone decides for themselves whether they are willing to share their opinion regarding our service. However, we, as a platform, have no influence on the feedback submitted by our clients.

Please be informed that we always strive to provide our users with a secure space for communication. For this purpose, we carefully approve validated members to be registered on the website and they undergo multiple verification checks that confirm their identity before their profiles appear active. Our affiliate partners make sure that there are no bogus profiles, and that the user you look at in the profile pictures is the person you are corresponding with. This, of course, makes it much harder for unscrupulous people to create fake accounts.

At this point, we kindly ask you to contact us via support@violetdates.com as soon as possible and we will be happy to assist you with the difficulties that you have experienced.

Best Wishes,
Violetdates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user lynnj202
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
November 14th, 2021

I usually come home late from work, and I don't want to do anything at all, especially to communicate with people. But virtual communication on VioletDates is a completely different matter. All conditions for comfortable interaction have been created here!

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Lynn,

We appreciate you leaving the feedback regarding our website!

We are truly glad to hear that our communication platform helps you relax after a work time. We wish you a great and pleasant time communicating with your penfriends!

Please contact us at any time if any questions take place. We will be happy to assist!

Best regards,
VioletDates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user fr71
1 review
0 helpful votes
March 22nd, 2024

I'm writing to address some concerns I have about the dating sites Orchidromance, Violetdates, Latinfeels, Bravodates, and Rondevo. After using these platforms extensively in search of meaningful connections, I've realized they all seem to operate similarly, using tactics that waste both time and money for users like myself.

It appears these sites promise men the chance to form genuine relationships, but in reality, many female members seem to benefit financially without engaging meaningfully. Despite investing significant resources into these platforms, users often receive minimal, if any, returns.

The high costs associated with using these sites, along with the lack of consideration for users, make matters worse. For instance, the pricing for viewing pictures and videos is exorbitant, with users charged excessive amounts for brief interactions that often offer little value. Additionally, attempts to establish communication outside the platform are systematically obstructed, hindering genuine connections.

Furthermore, the perpetual online presence of female members, despite claims of professional careers, raises doubts about profile authenticity. It seems these sites are designed to exploit and deceive unsuspecting men, which is deeply concerning.

Despite attempting to resolve issues through customer service channels, I've encountered significant obstacles and received no meaningful assistance. The reluctance to address user concerns, combined with coercive tactics to retain users and extract additional funds, underscores the predatory nature of these sites.

In a recent conversation with a support representative, it was revealed that sharing contact information is intentionally restricted for "security purposes" and only unlocked after significant monetary expenditure. Such practices are indefensible and perpetuate exploitation.

Given these practices, I urge others to exercise caution and avoid becoming victims of these sites. It's crucial that we collectively take action to expose and report fraudulent activities to prevent further harm.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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Thumbnail of user conniew413
1 review
0 helpful votes
October 7th, 2021

I like VioletDates for its atmosphere, stability, and simplicity. It's really addictive, and you don't regret it at all. In the time I've spent here, I've found a lot of pleasant interlocutors.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Connie!

Thank you for your great review of Violetdates!

We did this platform for you and for your comfort. It is a pleasure to hear that you enjoy these benefits!

Have a lovely one!

Best regards,
Violetdates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user andreww1390
1 review
0 helpful votes
November 14th, 2021

What are all the same cool users on VioletDates. It is difficult to compare this site with other communication sites, it seems that on other platforms everyone is not so interesting and sociable, you have to pull it out by word. And here I just found two friends.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Andrew,

Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback with us and for your positive experience on our platform. We are glad to hear that you found what you were looking for and made two new friends through our site.

At VioletDates, we strive to create a community of users who are interesting, sociable, and open to making new connections. We are pleased to hear that our platform has provided you with a positive experience, and we appreciate your kind words.

We are always looking for ways to improve our platform, and your feedback is invaluable in this regard. If there is anything we can do to enhance your experience further, please don't hesitate to reach out to our customer support team.

Thank you again for your feedback and for being a part of the VioletDates community.

Sincerely,
VioletDates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user craigm1108
1 review
2 helpful votes
April 3rd, 2023

Quite simply 90% of the girls and their photos are fake all you have to do is ask one of the girls to send a photo of them holding a sign saying your name and the days date 90% of them will not and cannot do it

Tip for consumers:
If you at all don’t believe what I say just ask the girls for photo holding a sign with your name and today’s date and 90% will not and cannot do it

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Craig,

We’re really sorry to hear about the occurred situation. Nevertheless, every person leaves review about their experience at will and everyone decides for themselves whether they are willing to share their opinion regarding our service. However, we, as a platform, have no influence on the feedback submitted by our clients.

Please be informed that we always strive to provide our users with a secure space for communication. For this purpose, we carefully approve validated members to be registered on the website and they undergo multiple verification checks that confirm their identity before their profiles appear active. Our affiliate partners make sure that there are no bogus profiles, and that the user you look at in the profile pictures is the person you are corresponding with. This, of course, makes it much harder for unscrupulous people to create fake accounts.

From our side, we review each complaint individually and do our best to resolve the problem in a satisfactory way. Also, we do not tolerate the scam or deception. We always do our best to make sure that every user follows the terms of our platform and take measures if we find any signs of violations. At the same time, if you faced the situation that made you feel suspicious, please don’t hesitate to contact us via support@violetdates.com, your inquiry will be carefully reviewed and investigated by relevant departments.

Best Wishes,
Violetdates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user helens1012
1 review
0 helpful votes
October 6th, 2021

I found out about VioletDates by chance from an advertisement on some website. Went to register, decided to give it a try. And stayed here for more than a year. During this time I have made a lot of nice, interesting conversations and friends.

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SupportTeam V. – VioletDates Rep

Dear Helen,

Thank you for posting your review. We value your time spent on our platform!

We wish you a pleasant stay on our website!

In case you have other feedback to us, please reach out to us via support@violetdates.com.

Kind regards,
VioletDates Customer Support

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