VioletDates has a rating of 3.7 stars from 17 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. VioletDates ranks 76th among Dating sites.
I've always been drawn to foreign women, their cultures, and their lifestyles. Here, I found a way to not only meet them but also learn how people live thousands of miles away from me.
At first, I thought this was just another platform for superficial conversations. But it turned out to be completely different. The site is designed in a way that makes it easy to see who's genuine and who's not. That's how I met the girl who became my life partner.
Hi Nathan,
What an amazing story—thank you for sharing! It’s wonderful to hear how the platform helped you find someone so special. Wishing you both all the happiness in your journey together!
Warm regards,
Claire from VioletDates
The very first person I started talking to turned out to be incredibly interesting, and our conversations quickly became the highlight of my day.
Hi Fred,
That’s amazing to hear! It’s so special when a connection makes such a big impact. Wishing you more highlights and great conversations to come!
Cheers,
Claire from VioletDates
Who would have thought I'd meet someone here who makes me feel like a teenager again? We've been chatting for three months, and they've been the best three months I've had in a long time.
Hi Carlos,
Your story is so uplifting! It’s incredible to hear how much this connection has brightened your life. Here’s to many more amazing months ahead!
Warm regards,
Claire from VioletDates
I'm writing to address some concerns I have about the dating sites Orchidromance, Violetdates, Latinfeels, Bravodates, and Rondevo. After using these platforms extensively in search of meaningful connections, I've realized they all seem to operate similarly, using tactics that waste both time and money for users like myself.
It appears these sites promise men the chance to form genuine relationships, but in reality, many female members seem to benefit financially without engaging meaningfully. Despite investing significant resources into these platforms, users often receive minimal, if any, returns.
The high costs associated with using these sites, along with the lack of consideration for users, make matters worse. For instance, the pricing for viewing pictures and videos is exorbitant, with users charged excessive amounts for brief interactions that often offer little value. Additionally, attempts to establish communication outside the platform are systematically obstructed, hindering genuine connections.
Furthermore, the perpetual online presence of female members, despite claims of professional careers, raises doubts about profile authenticity. It seems these sites are designed to exploit and deceive unsuspecting men, which is deeply concerning.
Despite attempting to resolve issues through customer service channels, I've encountered significant obstacles and received no meaningful assistance. The reluctance to address user concerns, combined with coercive tactics to retain users and extract additional funds, underscores the predatory nature of these sites.
In a recent conversation with a support representative, it was revealed that sharing contact information is intentionally restricted for "security purposes" and only unlocked after significant monetary expenditure. Such practices are indefensible and perpetuate exploitation.
Given these practices, I urge others to exercise caution and avoid becoming victims of these sites. It's crucial that we collectively take action to expose and report fraudulent activities to prevent further harm.
Thank you for your attention to this matter.
Just notice, when your chat credits run out, there will be no more "likes" or interest in you…
I took my time about chatting with anyone for a few days, one girl stated: "you don't respond to anyone on this site, why are you here?"
She never did respond when I asked, "How do you know?"
It's a scam…
Never video chat, fake profiles and always have excuses, to avoid giving personal information, always cost credits, you can spend thousands chatting and never get any where, even with the same girl for months, it always costs extra to see their sexy pictures, what a scam,
100% fake profiles and AI communication, zero user--created profiles, you are talking to AI designed to waste your time and money, and you will never ever be able to get an off-site contact from the AI. Make as stupid offensive of a name as you can possibly think of and make the worst profile ever and you'll still be constantly spammed with overly positive messages from the AI chatbots. Also all the profiles you make will never show up on the site as there are ZERO use-created profiles to interact with on the site. Try filtering to show male profiles on this site or it's sister sites and you'll barely see any male profiles, which is very unrealistic.
Dear Fringe,
We’re really sorry to hear about the occurred situation. Nevertheless, every person leaves review about their experience at will and everyone decides for themselves whether they are willing to share their opinion regarding our service. However, we, as a platform, have no influence on the feedback submitted by our clients.
Please be informed that we always strive to provide our users with a secure space for communication. For this purpose, we carefully approve validated members to be registered on the website and they undergo multiple verification checks that confirm their identity before their profiles appear active. Our affiliate partners make sure that there are no bogus profiles, and that the user you look at in the profile pictures is the person you are corresponding with. This, of course, makes it much harder for unscrupulous people to create fake accounts.
At this point, we kindly ask you to contact us via support@violetdates.com as soon as possible and we will be happy to assist you with the difficulties that you have experienced.
Best Wishes,
Violetdates Customer Support
From a girl who worked there: What I have already told you about such sites is not all that I know, sites that are in your country cooperate with Ukrainian companies that hire people here who correspond with you and many others instead of girls. And the girls are just models who sell their materials, get a percentage of the gifts, and those people who correspond with men get a percentage based on how much money a man has spent on the site. Some girls cooperate with the site, so one of them sends you a photo with your name on it to gain your trust, they get orders for what they need to do for a particular man and they do it. You have a logical question, how would I know that, don't you? One of my friends was working in a similar company, she was corresponding with men for money, as I described above, but she did it for a short time, she was just cheated, when she applied for a job she was told that all the girls are real and just do not know English, but when she started working she realized that it was all a lie and found out many interesting things. She told me this and I decided to come to a similar site and see how everything works, honestly, I do not remember what was in your profile, my goal was just to save at least someone from there and tell the truth, they gave me mail to some men, support site, I do not know why they agreed, but it worked, but only you answered.
Dear Frank,
Thanks for finding time to submit this review. At the same time, we’re truly saddened to hear about the inconveniences you went through.
Please be informed that we always strive to provide our users with a secure space for communication. For this purpose, we carefully approve validated members to be registered on the website and they undergo multiple verification checks that confirm their identity before their profiles appear active. Our affiliate partners make sure that there are no bogus profiles, and that the user you look at in the profile pictures is the person you are corresponding with. This, of course, makes it much harder for unscrupulous people to create fake accounts.
We do not pay the validated members for communication and prohibit our affiliate partners from doing so. We always take measures in case we notice any violations of the terms of our website. In any case, if you notice something suspicious in the behavior of a specific member, please contact our support team and let us know the member ID and the specific facts that give rise to concern. We will investigate the matter and let you know the results.
It is true that you need to be a paid member to use some of the services, however, you only pay for the services you are provided with. You get to choose the services that are of your interest and control your spendings on those. From our end, we always provide high-quality support services for our members. Every query is carefully reviewed by our moderation, financial or technical departments. Our customer support team is ready to help you with any questions 24/7. This means that we have to go to certain expenses to maintain the same level of diligence for all our customers, and thus we set our prices.
At this point, we kindly ask you to contact us via support@violetdates.com as soon as possible and we will be happy to assist you with the difficulties that you have experienced.
Kind Wishes,
Violetdates Customer Support
Quite simply 90% of the girls and their photos are fake all you have to do is ask one of the girls to send a photo of them holding a sign saying your name and the days date 90% of them will not and cannot do it
Dear Craig,
We’re really sorry to hear about the occurred situation. Nevertheless, every person leaves review about their experience at will and everyone decides for themselves whether they are willing to share their opinion regarding our service. However, we, as a platform, have no influence on the feedback submitted by our clients.
Please be informed that we always strive to provide our users with a secure space for communication. For this purpose, we carefully approve validated members to be registered on the website and they undergo multiple verification checks that confirm their identity before their profiles appear active. Our affiliate partners make sure that there are no bogus profiles, and that the user you look at in the profile pictures is the person you are corresponding with. This, of course, makes it much harder for unscrupulous people to create fake accounts.
From our side, we review each complaint individually and do our best to resolve the problem in a satisfactory way. Also, we do not tolerate the scam or deception. We always do our best to make sure that every user follows the terms of our platform and take measures if we find any signs of violations. At the same time, if you faced the situation that made you feel suspicious, please don’t hesitate to contact us via support@violetdates.com, your inquiry will be carefully reviewed and investigated by relevant departments.
Best Wishes,
Violetdates Customer Support
What are all the same cool users on VioletDates. It is difficult to compare this site with other communication sites, it seems that on other platforms everyone is not so interesting and sociable, you have to pull it out by word. And here I just found two friends.
Dear Andrew,
Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback with us and for your positive experience on our platform. We are glad to hear that you found what you were looking for and made two new friends through our site.
At VioletDates, we strive to create a community of users who are interesting, sociable, and open to making new connections. We are pleased to hear that our platform has provided you with a positive experience, and we appreciate your kind words.
We are always looking for ways to improve our platform, and your feedback is invaluable in this regard. If there is anything we can do to enhance your experience further, please don't hesitate to reach out to our customer support team.
Thank you again for your feedback and for being a part of the VioletDates community.
Sincerely,
VioletDates Customer Support
I usually come home late from work, and I don't want to do anything at all, especially to communicate with people. But virtual communication on VioletDates is a completely different matter. All conditions for comfortable interaction have been created here!
Dear Lynn,
We appreciate you leaving the feedback regarding our website!
We are truly glad to hear that our communication platform helps you relax after a work time. We wish you a great and pleasant time communicating with your penfriends!
Please contact us at any time if any questions take place. We will be happy to assist!
Best regards,
VioletDates Customer Support
I liked VioletDates right away. Registration does not require extensive computer knowledge, pleasant communication, no annoying advertising. I've been on the platform for a few months now, found a lot of interesting people to correspond with.
Dear Richard,
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and feedback with us!
We will be glad to assist you in case of any additional questions. Please contact us via support@violetdates.com if any assistance is needed.
Best regards,
VioletDates Customer Support
I like VioletDates for its atmosphere, stability, and simplicity. It's really addictive, and you don't regret it at all. In the time I've spent here, I've found a lot of pleasant interlocutors.
Dear Connie!
Thank you for your great review of Violetdates!
We did this platform for you and for your comfort. It is a pleasure to hear that you enjoy these benefits!
Have a lovely one!
Best regards,
Violetdates Customer Support
I found out about VioletDates by chance from an advertisement on some website. Went to register, decided to give it a try. And stayed here for more than a year. During this time I have made a lot of nice, interesting conversations and friends.
Dear Helen,
Thank you for posting your review. We value your time spent on our platform!
We wish you a pleasant stay on our website!
In case you have other feedback to us, please reach out to us via support@violetdates.com.
Kind regards,
VioletDates Customer Support
Answer: Dear Charles, Thank you for your question. You need credits to access certain services on our platform, such as sending virtual gifts, media or email exchange. You can choose the services that interest you the most and control your spending. If you have specific questions about our service or need help, don't hesitate to contact us at support@violetdates.com. We'll be happy to help you. Best regards, VioletDates Customer Support
Answer: Dear Danny, Hello and thank you for writing in! Please note that contact exchange usually takes up to 7 calendar days, but it may be longer as we request contacts from our partners. We'll pass your request to the validated member's regional partner, so they will confirm it with the member. Once we receive a reply from your friend and them, contact information will become available on the website. We are doing our best to speed up this process as much as possible. Please feel free to contact us via Support@VioletDates.com and we will be happy to assist you with any difficulties you might experience on the website. Kind regards, VioletDates Customer Support
Answer: Users may be online whenever they want or can, sometimes they may leave their computer on with the open website, that's why they are shown online, but they are away from the computer.
Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally.
Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time.
Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life.
Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
Hi Martin,
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s wonderful to hear that our platform has allowed you to connect with people from different cultures and learn more about their lifestyles. We’re glad you’re enjoying the journey!
Warm regards,
Claire from VioletDates