Seeking ArrangementsReviews 391

I've been on the site for close to a year, and while I have met some legitimate SBs and had a couple long term arrangements that went well, 98% of interactions will end up a waste of time or worse. I've heard some HORROR stories from women as well, everything from attempted rape, attempted blackmail, to lots of the classic BS liars about having money, etc. For me, everything from ghosting right before meetups, to no shows at dinners, to catfishing, to those that agree to how the arrangement will go but try to ask for the moon and then some once you meet. This will likely be my last month on the site.

Unless you are willing to have sex for money on this site your chances of finding a guy to financially support you are slim. Not to mention most men on here are looking for a woman who looks like a victorias secret model which is so unrealistic because a woman that attractive will be successful in her own and you will not find on some sleezy website. The men are all just looking for a call girl on the regular, to put it simply. Never have I ever talked to so many douchebags who have an inflated sense of self just because they have money. However, the owner of this site laughs all the way to the bank so he could careless that he's making money off a prostitution site

I have been a premium member with background verified for 5 months. 80% of the interaction i had been positive. Like any endeavor the more one put into something, better the outcome.
What do i mean putting in time? I have 6 photos and used full allocated space to detail my profile. Took me couple of days to finish writing profile.

My Rules: 1) I provide my latest STD report and expect the same. It eliminates majority of the fakers.

2) I meet for coffee at a public place and if there is chemistry, i show them my ID ( just real name) and expect the same.

3) I block if any one ask money for gas, money for meeting - so called a good faith token.

4) I let women choose netting place which is convenient and comfortable for them. The first meeting is ONLY to meet and greet. I pay for lunch/dinner/coffee. I do not fret about charges.

5) I have blocked around 60 women. It doe snot bother me. It takes one click.

In the end i believe you get what you are looking for. SA is the best.

The Seeking Arrangements website and owner Brandon Wade are a complete scam. Don't waste your money because you will lose it and not be able to get a refund. They will take your money and then suspend your membership because "reports" come in. These "reports" can be from women who are upset because you won't give them money or because they are angry at you. Even if you are offline, your phone's personal and private "text" messages can be used against you! The Support Team of "Sarah" and "Thomas" will continually feed you excuses for why your account is suspended and why they can't stop it from happening due to how the website is programmed. Don't lose your money and find yourself in the process of having to file for a chargeback on your credit card. I hope this helps new members before they find themselves ripped off.

I hate this site with a passion. I swear every "golddigger"/scammer site I use I always end up with fake accounts trying to set me up. I know how to reverse phone look up and look up photos. I also have a friend who can send stuff to his cousin to see if that person is legit. I can't stand "Nigerian scammers, Foreign scammers nor fake US people" pretending to be someone they are not for the sole purpose to abuse women in a physically torturing way.
I appreciate honesty, but I can't stand picky SD who mainly want Whites and Latinas and assume that all Black women are trouble or have attitudes. You don't want to be liked sole based off of your looks and money yet because your in the position with the money you feel the need to be prejudice.
I also can't stand being in fear that I could be talking to law enforcement. I understand some of them are trying to help prevent harm by an fake SD, but I am also not in the mood to go to jail because i'm tired of the government sticking their greedy hands in my pocket.
I also cannot understand why a these men who are engaged or anything serious like marriage cheat. Just ask and be fair about it to your partner. I prefer single, divorced or widowed men, but we all can't get what we want. Since it's a law that their wives can sue for all the money spent on a SB and possibly be thrown in jail, I already know a majority of the fake "man" will do anything and everything to save their own $#*! so their wives won't take all of their money.
To sum it up, this site along with many others is bull $#*! when it comes to helping an SB's. They cater too much to people in general with money and don't care about your well being until something bad happens so their precious little set doesn't get a bad review or shut down.

I'm a man and I've been on SA for about 3 years. It takes a lot of work to finally get to a real woman who looks like her pictures. I'm talking about many hours of weeding through people to find one who is the woman in the pics and wants to meet. The next problem is the money. There are articles all over the place saying sugar babies get huge amounts of money. I make $150K a year. I'm in the top 5%. After Federal and state tax I have about $95,000 left. I pay alimony and child support. Probably not much different than most guys on SA. I have kids college I pay for as well. I can free up about $12,000 a year, $1,000 a month for a sugar baby. The expectation of a lot of women is much more than that. There seriously can't be many men out there who can afford what SA calls Practical ($3,000) or Moderate ($5,000). But there are all these article from women talking about trips and cars and big allowances. I think most of those articles are fakes put out by the SA staff to encourage more women to sign up to the site. That drives more men to the site and keeps that $80 a month fee flowing.

I am a women on this site and I find this with many of the men. I am serious about seeking an arrangement and I am not a pay to play girl. And that is what I see now. Strippers, Asian women and really more of a prostitution thing.
And the men say they want an arrangement because I make it clear I am not a one night stand girl. So we make and discuss what each others needs are in an arrangement and we are intimate. He gifts me saying in a couple weeks we will go on a month allowance. Then guess what,( you have probable already guessed), he disappears. And I am left feeling very filthy. Filthy because I feel like a prostitute even though I made it very clear I only was with the man I was in an arrangement with and I had to have a connection as I could not be with someone I did not like or have a connection to.

I joined this website last year and I haven't had a single man offer to be my sugar daddy. In fact, I was told that I needed to alter my profile page to talk about what I don't want in a relationship. Of course after looking up how to create an attractive profile, it stated that I had to talk about myself( I. E. Personality, hobbies etc.)
I decided one evening to message men myself and sound flirtatious. So I messaged over 20 men that I found attractive and I got them to view my profile. But I got no response. I only got at least four replies. One says that I was too far. Another was like thanking me for the message but he already found what he was looking for here. I don't know why you just don't ignore the message if you already have a sugar baby. You are supposed to deactivate your account. I found one guy who wanted a friends with benefit arrangement and he had his specifics on what sexual activity he wanted from me. Then, I had another guy say I'm too young. Now, I'm almost twenty five years old in about a few months. How old does he want his sugar baby? A friend got an email describing her as too pale and too skinny for me. That is just plain rude! She cried so hard. I don't get why girls even put themselves out there on this website. You don't get what you paid for! And I also find this odd that a bunch of millionaires and billionaires in my area can portray themselves as the men with the most money and then I'm hearing that they can't afford dates! Also, I think they need to look at how to write an attractive profile too. I mean why would you put white women only. Why not put I prefer white women. Overall, this website doesn't work at all.

I don't know is it me or them
I've met some people
Some are really bad Some are okay but none of them is rich
What they've offered me is lower than my salary so this relationship is just like a side income
My last sd that i had before i join SA gave me 5 figures allowance
While in here they only offered from 1 to 4k with a lot of T&C
I have to do this and that
Can't do this & that
It's too tiring for me to take care of them with those unattractive offers
I only can have 1 sd because i don't like to sleep around but It's not worth it
It's been a year i'm in SA
Still waiting for a better arrangement