Overview
Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.
Yes, Secret Benefits is an out of the ordinary site to meet men compared to a site like Tinder or Bumble, but what I personally have found here are men who seriously want to meet and are eager to impress. They may not all be super handsome or young but they make up for it with charm and class.
A lot of girls sent me messages, once opened, they are just junks, basically I wasted my credits to see the messages. I sent out quite a few messages after they pinged me, no response anymore. This is just my experience.
It's been fun for me. I'm on Secret Benefits almost every day. I am chatting with a couple of really attractive guys. I also get new messages often. I'm not going out as much because of the coronavirus but I'm thinking about meeting with one of these guys that lives nearby me for lunch this week. The 3 best things about this site is that it's free, active, and has worked well every time I go on the site.
I just wanted to say that not all the SD's on this site have money. The last guy I went out with from this site wanted to eat at Red Lobster! I was like, uh, for reals!? There are some real deal sugar daddies on here, but you have to sniff them out.
There are a few things I really like this dating site for:
It's free for me to use! An obvious reason to like anything.
It's fast and easy to use. It's a no-nonsense service.
They seem to be getting lots of new profiles every time I look, so I'm not getting bored yet.
I'm meeting cool guys. They have, for the most part, been who they say they are and have treated me very well.
There are a couple of things I'm not crazy about:
They don't have a mobile app. I heard it's coming, so hopefully that happens soon.
Guys have told me they have to pay to open a conversation with me, so I think that's why several guys that I've been interested in haven't written me back. Although, that might also mean they're cheapos, and dutch treat ain't my thing.
All around a great dating website worth the time in checking out!
Thanks for the thoughtful review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad you are enjoying the site and hope you continue to do so.
Super happy having recently found a great guy that has ticked off most of my boxes. Kind, handsome, generous and fun to be around.
Thanks and a big hug to SB for providing a great date site for singles!
Hi, my name is Sommer. I'm loving on the Secret Benefits website. I'm getting lots of attention and met a few really good guys. It's kind of shocking that it's completely free... I guess the guys pay, which is how it should be, hahahaha
After going through the possibilities of men I was willing to date from this website, I can report that I have committed to a very special man. The timing couldn't be better with everything going on. It's so nice to have someone that cares about me and that I can rely on. Thank you SB for restoring my faith in online dating!
That's wonderful to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and good luck with that "special man".
This is definitely a scam site. My guess is that the girls get paid a commission to up charge you. Example: They send you an email. You pay to read it and respond. They don't respond to your email. Instead they share their additional photos which you need to pay to see. But they never respond to the email.
So far so good seems like it's going somewhere and I'm actually going to find myself a sugar daddy. The men seem really kind and genuine and seemed pretty honest about what they're looking for summer absolutely not on there to be a sugar daddy but so far everyone I talk to you has been completely honest about their relationship status what they're looking for
That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to submit your review.
I like that it's free and easy to use, I don't usually write reviews but I had a great experience with their customer service and I think it's good to recognize stuff like that. Online dating can be a bit scary and it's good to know they take safety and security very seriously. I won't go into details but definitely recommend checking out the site.
Thanks for taking the time to submit a review. I'm glad customer service was able to help and I will pass on the kind words to them.
My friend told me about Secret Benefits a few months ago and I would like to share that my personal experience in the the past 2 months using the website has been fantastic!
The only things I would add is an app in the apple store and the ability to video chat. Everything else about the site is perfect including the price, free!
Shout out to the secretbenefits.com support! I had a bunch of silly questions and some difficulty getting my profile rolling to the point of feeling confident I could go live and dive into finding my match. The lady that helped me from the start was very kind and patient with me. I feel really bad that I didn't get her name. Really great support though. I can tell this site cares.
That's great to hear. I'm glad to hear that customer support was able to help you get things rolling.
Bottom line: it costs a minimum of $59.00 to respond to or send any communication with a prospective SB, and you will be relentlessly e-mailed by these bots that "have left you a message".
Now ask yourself if you are a dumb$#*! or sucker enough to throw away $59 to have your lack of intelligence verified.
Sorry you didn't enjoy your experience on SecretBenefits. As a sugar daddy, you do need to pay in order to message the sugar babies which seems to be where your frustration stems from. There are no bots on the site, just real men and women looking for mutually beneficial relationships.
I do agree with several other reviewers that SB is a pretty darn solid site for arrangement dating.
I been getting solid action on the dating scene with few disappointments.
Site is solid all the way around.
Yeah, you got to use credits to message and not all will respond but from my experience, not a lot of funny business with the women as most seem eager to carry on a convo and meet up.
There are a few similar dating sites like Secret Benefits. So far, I've tried Seeking, Established Men, and Secret Benefits. My feelings on them are kinda mixed. EM was ok but not much to choose from in my area, SA was definitely busier but it seemed like a lot of bots and old profiles, SB has been a happy medium for me. Not as many profiles as SA but more recent signups and responses to my messages. The men I've met in person have been nice to me and for the most part look like their pics. I hope this comparison helps those looking.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience on Secret Benefits and other sites as well. I'm glad Secret Benefits comes out on top!
I'm enjoying SB. I work at home, so I have virtually no social life making this site one of my "go tos" if I'm bored. I feel SB is a good site to use if you are not looking for something super serious. Although, I have been in contact with a couple of guys that were clearly looking for an LTR. Also, if you have issues with married guys there might be a few here and there.
Thanks for sharing your experience. Members of Secret Benefits run the gamut in terms of the types of relationships they are seeking making it a great place to find a perfect dating match.
I like it a lot. It is the first site that really works and has only genuine verified profiles. I gudge from men`s side but I believe for women it should be same comfortable. I read in previous reviews that video verification took too much time for somebody... For me it was less then one day and I think it is not long time to wait.
After a long stint of being single and stumbling through the odd world of modern dating I finally found who I think is perfect for me. Great chemistry, shared values and still very attractive as a silver fox, hahaha.
We are very happy as a couple and are both very grateful to have found each other on the Secret Benefits website.
I recently put up a profile on secretbenefits.com, and I wanted to say that everything checks out so far.
It was easy to create an account and I was taken straight to searching for women in my city.
I live on a boat, so it's not easy finding someone to date a guy like me especially since I like to sail to different locations and be out on the water for extended amounts of time. I'm pleased to have already met a couple of women that seem very receptive to this type of lifestyle. I appreciate being able to view videos of these ladies and be able to decide on messaging someone before there's any talk of using my paid credits. Very reasonable website.
That's great to hear, I'm glad you've been able to find women who are receptive to your atypical lifestyle. Thanks for sharing and good luck on your next date.
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Oh no, sorry to hear that, there's not much we can do about people's poor taste in restaurants but we always suggest you get to know the person a bit before meeting up so that there are no surprises like that. Hopefully the next one will know what wining and dining should be all about.