Secret Benefits

Step up from my last attempt at online dating. Clearly more direct and the men here are much more set on getting offline as soon as possible and meeting in person. It's a breath of fresh of air from the lookielou time wasters I had run into most my life.

First of all %80 of users on the site are men so think about that. Second it is one of the most expensive sites out there. You have to pay at a minimum $3.00 per person to message. Strangely enough tons of women message you but you can't read the messages or respond until you pay. After you pay and respond to the messages you never get a response back again. It's obviously a scam to get you to pay more money. For the price of 10 messages you can pay a flat monthly fee on another site which gives you unlimited messaging. Also the search and filter functions are better on other sites. Don't waste your money.

My initial worry was it was going to be lame with an imbalance of women to men, but I have been actually having a great time meeting successful and mature men.
The site itself operates flawlessly and tons of profiles to flirt with. Many funny and clever responses and I've vetted several to meet for regular dates. Not a dull weekend, haha.

I've tried out SA and SugarDaddieMeet, and so far, I feel like SB is overall the best sugar daddy dating websites. My experience has been this site has less creepy guys that seem more genuine, from the ones I've met at least. I have a hunch that there are a good handful of married men on here, but they are on every site. I'm not stoked on the lack of wealth verification for the guys because it makes it really hard to tell if these guys are legit sugar daddies. I'm a single mom, yet I don't reveal that on my profile, so who I'm looking for is kind of specific. I've had several nice dates so far, and I think a couple of them are really good contenders. I recommend giving this site a try if you are considering it.

You will receive short, ambiguous, bot generated messages from fake users. You must pay to open the messages.
When you pay and respond you don't get a reply.
Sucked into a waste of money...
Don't be fooled.

So, first I would say that out of the sites I've tried to meet a TRUE gentleman that will treat me with respect and enjoys taking care of me, this site has delivered. There are guys to choose from, and SB seems to attract a slightly different crowd. In case you are new to sugar dating just keep in mind, I would say 99% of the sugar daddies on the site are not looking for a "forever ever after." I was regularly seeing a guy I met on SB for like almost 6 months, and just like that, he was gone. If you are used to bad breakups or sweet goodbyes you might be surprised. Most of these guys are too busy for the standard relationship. Anyways, I jumped back on the site last week, sent a few messages, and I'm right back in the game. I would recommend to those looking for a straight-up sugar daddy dating site where you might stand out in a smaller crowd compared to some of the older crowded sites.

Don't be mistaken, this is a totally legit dating website. The guy's are looking for a desirable lady and gals like me are looking for someone that enjoys making a woman smile. I made the decision to really spend some time on my profile and it's made all the difference with the quality of guys contacting me, so from my experience, Secret Benefits has provided the platform, but it's really been what I've made of it to work in my favor. It's really encouraging to me that I can be up front with what I desire and need from a relationship.

I've had my account for a little while now with no issues and all of a sudden my pictures will not show on my profile. I contacted support about four times and no reply, this issues lowers my chance to actually meet someone. I tried to deactivate and reactivate my profile in hopes my pictures would show and nothing. I now have a disclaimer in my bio, how cute. There are too many people complaining about support not responding, someone needs to address this.

They charged me and then blocked my account saying it was disputed. I talked to my bank and their payment processor, segpay. Segpay said that neither they nor my bank disputed the charge and it was secret benefits that was causing the issue. Secret benefits has horrible customer service and will hard to talk to. They still have my money as I have not been refunded like they said.

Str8 up best site among a few of these sites I tried in the past 2 years. I can usually open a chat with a cute babe and get something out of it worth my time 6 out of 10. My trick is going for the 7's and 8's, much easier that way.
I also tried SD and SA with some luck as well. I prefer to avoid the monthly charges.

I had to go through a lot of chats and dates. Some became friends and others were duds.

It can at times be discouraging, but I the motivation to no be alone kept me going and after about 6 months of being on Secret Benefits as well as a couple of other dating apps, I met someone really special on this site and we have been going strong for 3 months now.

I would say to others about this site that it does work and there are plenty of options at least for me in a fairly populated area. I wouldn't lower my standards but I did have to learn to be flexible and more open minded with what people wanted. All in all a great site as long as you have patience and a good amount of social skills.