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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.
Secret Benefits Reviews Summary
Secret Benefits has a rating of 3 stars from 443 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 652nd among Dating sites.
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I signed up to Secret Benefits just over a week ago. I like it. Just sent in a video to get verified and the customer support approved me pretty fast. Lots of talkative guys. Seems like a lot of active profiles. Hopefully can find someone worth my time here. Fingers crossed.
If you've tried online dating sites as much as I have you quickly realize how much of a competitive sausagefest most of these sites are. Secretbenefits.com has done alright by me. I would say out of every 10 ladies I contact 7 write me back and about half agree to meeting. Not all of those I meet are home runs but you could say I'm satisfied with my odds here.
That's great to hear Dave, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. Sounds like the odds are playing in your favor.
Just feel the need to share that I recently took my profile down on Secretbenefits.com. After a lot of searching I finally met my match. She's more than I could have dreamed of. This site worked. Sometimes discouraged but perseverance paid off.
That's great to hear Ronald. Thanks for persevering and giving the site a good test drive. Sometimes things don't work out immediately so I'm glad you stuck with it.
I met up with a super sweet guy (Ted) on Saturday. He was just who I was wanting to meet! We are meeting up again for dinner on Friday and I'm really looking forward to it! This is the first guy I've met in like a year that makes me feel really giddy inside!
That's great to hear Lucy, I'm glad to hear you've met someone who makes you happy.
I had to give credit to secret benefits.com. I met the most adorable loving woman a few months ago from this site that has made me the happiest man in the world. I asked her on new year's eve to move in with me and she said yes! I never believed I could be with a woman like her. They have a very happy customer here! Many thanks!
Wow, excellent to hear! It's wonderful to know that the site has helped you find someone who makes you happy. Thanks for taking the time to share that with us.
Had a very pleasant interaction with Kira from the secretbenefits customer service today. Her response was quick, thoughtful, and professional. Idk, guess it really stands out to me when the customer service from sites like this one really take the time and training of their staff to convey that they really care. Makes me feel like I'm in good hands.
That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with our Customer Service. They'll be happy to hear the compliments.
I joined after my friend recommended. I was on Tinder and found it almost impossible to find a decent guy that would follow through with a real live date. Still encounter an occasional perv but the overall higher caliber of men on SB is night and day. Meeting real men that treat me nice is a nice change.
That's great to hear, I'm glad you've been able to find some classy dates thanks to SB. Thanks for sharing.
Quick shout out to Secret Benefits! My wonderful new husband and I met here 1 year ago. Couldn't be happier! Finding true love is definitely possible here! So thankful! Mwah!
Wonderful news, congratulations! Thanks for taking the time to share your exciting news.
Feel for those having a tough time. Online dating can be rough sometimes.
Since signing up on Secret Benefits a couple years ago, I've been ghosted twice, dumped once, and I think catfished at least once but I cut those lines once I get that feeling.
On the other hand, also have dated some of the most diverse and beautiful women I've ever met off of one dating site.
Main thing is you play your cards right, write a nice profile, be upfront, load some good photos showing off the best of you, and be polite. Don't be trying to get in her pants or trade nudes right off the bat. If you wouldn't do it in person, don't do it online.
Not everyone will be a match, and not every hot chick you got your eyes on is going to respond to you. Gotta imagine how many dudes are hitting them up. But I think as long as you are not a creep, you can score here. Peace.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and great advice.
Was in an LTR for 7 months with a guy I met on this site. Recently parted ways.
Jumped back on and surprised at how many more guys are on the site within my city.
Chatting with a couple nice guys now. Haven't gone out with anyone yet, but might see one of them this weekend. Would like an option to request guys verify their profile photos. Some have pics that are really tough to make out what they really look like.
Well, as a guy you do get messages from potential sugar babies. But that's where it gets strange. About 90% write a 5-10 word phrase (or less) that shows very little imagination and you as a male subscriber have to pay to open each message. Then you reply with a nicely worded reply--sometimes within an hour or so--and never hear back from the potential sugar baby. At first it seemed unusual and as time goes by I never became comfortable that the process is legitimate. I can't figure out why you as a sugar baby send a message and don't reply. Perhaps there's some reason that explains that behavior. But it makes the users seem very shallow. Some people may be but SB makes it look like it's 90% of the user base.
OH YES. Liking I am A LOT. After trying a lotta 'top' SD sites out there, I've managed to find one that actually works! My love life is finally looking up for me! Woohoo!
Excellent to hear, I'm glad SB is working for you, good luck!
Tons of dating sites. Been on a few. Takes a lot of effort to find someone decent that I am really attracted to. Things really turned around for me once I verified my video with the secretbenefits support peeps. Getting more men chatting me than ever before. Really happy with this site!
That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with others.
I'm sharing this review because there are many similar types of sugardaddy websites out there. I had only tried another one once before and was very disappointed, overall. I signed up for SecreBenefits mainly because I read lots of positive reviews such as the ones on this (TrustPilot) site. After only about 2 weeks on the site, today I met the sweetest, and sexiest sugar baby of my dreams! She is super hot and we connected very well on our dinner date. I am super excited to meet with her again in a few days. I am so thrilled with the results of SecretBenefits and wanted other men, like me, who are looking for that connection to have the opportunity I had!
Thanks for sharing your positive experience with Secret Benefits. I'm really glad to hear you've enjoyed yourself and wish you the best.
The support staff are very responsive and helpful. Some of the ladies actually do respond just set your expectations accordingly... you may or may not get responses
Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. People can take awhile to respond sometimes and I hope that you get more and more responses in the coming days.
After the site gave me 200 credits, I decided to keep on trying and see what happens. As normal with this site, a lot of women here are 1 timers. They make a profile, use it for a week then disappear, they may have found someone or decided being a SB is not for them, who knows. Most of my messages under "new members" go unanswered, with some never showing to be read. Again, seems like a lot of girls get on this site, and move on. So my next plan was to only contact women who were "online recently", I actually did have 4 girls contact me back. So there's a start. Unfortunately, 2 of them never came back online. So, after 2 months and almost all the credits gone, I have yet to meet anyone, and have 2 girls that just want to text. SB is a real hit and miss, at-least in my area, maybe it will get better with time, one thing I would like to see as far as sending messages - if they go unread don't charge me for them. That would actually give me back about 100 credits.
This is getting wide spread here, I find it to be girls 24 and under so far. They message you, wanting to be a Sugar Baby. But infact they don't even want to meet, they just want your money a very little in return. Some want to chat, others want to sell pics. They are on the wronge site. Here is a short list so far to saty away from.
Felicia_098 wants to private cam for money
Kyrsten_210 Wants to text or chat for allowance - no meet up.
SweetBabyGirl45 wants to chat - no meet up
I gave this site a try a couple years ago. Ended up getting serious with someone until recently.
Single again and happy they kept my profile. Jumped back on the horse and blown away by how many more ladies are on the site since I last looked.
Got a bunch of favorites and having a great time chatting a few right now. Got a hot date lined up this weekend at a new restaurant nearby. Pumped about the prospects here. Gotta be one of the best dating sites I've tried.
Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I'm glad you decided to come back and that you like what you've seen!
Very happy with Secret Benefits. Didn't know what to expect, but I knew the type of woman I wanted. Signing up and searching is free so no commitment until I found the one that made my heart pound. Didn't mess around. Bought some credits, messaged her, next morning I got a nice message back from her. After our first date it has been pure magic. So happy words can't explain. Feeling reborn! Thank you Secret Benefits!
That's great to hear. It's nice to know that your date was magic and I hope future ones are just as good.
Not too sure why a few here give this site a bad rating. I feel it's really one of the better date sites I've tried mostly because I'm actually meeting legit men here. I mean, we're all here for the same reason, right? I rarely feel I'm wasting my time and most of the men I have a good chat and connection with online follow through and meet in person. Seeing 2 men regularly but also going out every once in a while with someone new. Don't listen to the haters. It works if you give it an honest go and have some smarts regarding online dating.
I'm glad to hear you are enjoying your experience with Secret Benefits and appreciate you taking the time to write about it.
Cmon guys really?
Every email says the girl viewed my profile then sent me a message. So EVERY girl who views my profile sends me a message and none responds back? Really?
Ima sucker guys dont get fooled this company has every appearance of not being honest.
This review is my opinion based on real transactions that I did with this company, Secret Benefits. It is my intention to give an honest review in contrast with this companies business model.
To secret benefits... I will not apologize for being honest. You have no business taking someones money based on lies.
I am happy to hear this review is negatively impacting your business and I hope it encourages you to make more honest policy changes to legitimize your business model. It is a good idea but dishonesty ruins it. Show some respect for your clients.
Finally stop complaining about this review and start figuring out how to not take what you haven't legitimately earned.
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That's great to hear Terri. Video verification is a great way of showing guys that you are serious and I'm glad you found the process straightforward.