MelanieToniaEvans

Melanie is a gift to the world. Her healing, her generosity, compassion and kindness is limitless. She is the real deal.

After 13 years and 4 relationships with different types of narcissistic people (both overt and covert types) I was again left suddenly while we were planning a future and trying to have a baby. I was devastated because, this time I believed that this was another kind of relationship, different than all the other aggressive ones. In fact, the only difference was he was a covert/shy narcissist, therefore, even though I thought I was very careful with the signs, I could not see this happening. After suffering like someone I love died, I came across Melanie's website and there it was. Someone who tells me about all the pain I have gone through, all the time I lost. This was not a time lost only for relationships but also, because I rarely had no energy and mindset to take care of myself, my career and other aspects of my life, I've always felt I could have done better if I had better personal relationships.
Melanie enlightened me about my inner wounds and how I should take care of myself and heal myself instead of feeling like a victim and keep being obsessed about how my abuser thought or felt.
This was the time to think about myself, something I could never do before. All the readings I have done from Melanie's work made me have a hope again about taking my life's pieces together, getting up, taking care of myself and my own career and happiness. I have been taking classic therapy for two years however those never worked this way because on conscious level I already thought I was lovable but I could not believe it deep inside and no classic therapy could ever solve it. I will start the NARP program very soon and I strongly believe that it will completely change my life where I could never use my resources completely and spent months even years with panic attacks, deep fears and nightmares. They will all be gone soon and I will keep reviewing during the program too.
Melanie and her staff, thank you so much for being the ones who can understand my problems for real for the first time.

I started out using NARP when I was abused by a co-worker and the only thing that helped me through that time and made me able to leave was NARP. After having left my job and abusive co-worker I continued to heal with the NARP modules which took some time but was really worth it.

I had a desire to heal other parts of myself as well and I have therefore used NARP for a wide variety of situations and painful emotions. Since I am currently going through a Spiritual Awakening process and get triggered by a variety of situations I use NARP for everything that feels painful in my life. I work with NARP on a daily basis to grow and work through negative emotions that arise. Some of the areas where I have used NARP is the following;

-Feeling stressed in every day life
-Being triggered and angry at my 3-year old twins
- Feeling hurt by other people
- Feeling angry at people in my life

I am so happy that I have found a tool that I can use on my own on everything that needs healing in my life and I am so grateful that life shows me where I am out of alignment with myself so I can use NARP to heal it. NARP is a wonderful tool that really works in different situations and not only in regards to being narcissistic abused. NARP is my greatest salvation during the path of spiritual growth and it has given me the opportunity to finally starting to feel inner peace.

Thank you and all the best,
Sara

Melanie ToniaEvans is a true healer! She is a world expert in the truly horrifying reality of narcissistic personality disorder abuse and has dedicated her life to helping people like myself to understand this disorder and how to recover and thrive like never before after experiencing devastating trauma and ptsd as a result of being abused by a pathological narcissist. Her programs have already helped me change from depression and ptsd to the hope and possibility of a life happier than I have ever experienced, which is hard for me to believe or even imagine six months ago. I was truly devastated, and now am working on beginning her Thriver and NARP member programs after having absorbed a wealth of videos, articles, and her webinar all offered free to people all over the World because she is so dedicated and experienced in this field of abuse recovery. Meeting Melanie has truly turned my life around from a place I could not cope at all to where I am today feeling the possibility of total joy and happiness. Thank you, Melanie, I would highly recommend her NARP program to anyone suffering from narcissistic abuse.

My transformation, or awakening, started a few years back, after I had tried to end my abusive relationship, but had yet again failed. I knew I needed to find out why I kept accepting this abusive person back into my life. After nearly three years of searching, learning, and awakening, I was finally able to leave him after 18 years together. In my search for the truth, I'd come across the term Narcissist, knew he was one, and knew things would never, ever change.
Once I left him my journey to recovery started in earnest. I was able to find an amazing naturopath to help with all my health issues I was suffering from because of the abuse. He then recommended a great psychologist, who was the next link in the chain of my recovery and transformation, finally someone to listen to me, and understanding my pain.
I then found an online course that helped me dive even deeper into healing my narcissistic abuse. I leaned about breaking free of the addiction, healing the trauma bonds, cutting the psychic ties that made me still want to go back, and finally understanding the need to go no contact.
Then I came across Melanie, and her work, and I thought YES! This is what I have been looking for, that final link to my healing, my recovery, my complete transformation into the person I've always wanted to be - ME! I find Melanie's insights absolutely spot on, you can really feel that Melanie has been through the worst of it too, totally understands the pain, but has found a way through it, and most importantly, has found a way beyond all the pain.
I'm so excited to undertake this part of my transformation with Melanie and I feel like I'm in good hands to succeed by doing the work required, and being open to the possibility of a good and happy life.

I found Melanie Tonia Evans website soon after I realized after my 2nd discard from my narcistist boyfriend of almost 4 years and was in deep withdrawal pain emotionally and psychically. This was just about 6 weeks ago and I immediately signed up for her daily emails and webinars and am in the process of working through the NARP Program to heal further and completely from this abuse! I am so grateful to have found Melaine because she has an outstanding program that's touches me and made me realize I can break free from this pattern of falling for narcistist who hurt me over and over again. I am exactly the person she explains which attracts narcistist, full of love and empathy. I took him back over and over and always felt awful after being with him. I could not understand why I kept going back for More! I'm learning it runs deeper than any convential therapy or suppor I've tried to obtain to deal with this. I am also learning from her information it's not about him at all! I love how Melaine and her staff are so open with information and assistance to help us thrive, not just survive! Thank you Melaine and I know I have found the tools to heal my inner self to truly become the woman, partner, and mother I have always wanted to be! The journey is not over but I feel I am on the healing path that will help me never look back!
With gratitude,
Mary - NY USA

Melanie Tonia Evan´s NARP program first came to my attention flipping through Youtube channels in search of information on codependency/narcissists.
I found her explanations very thorough and easy to understand and relate to. I also felt embraced because she was very personal and grounded, she understood!
She strikes me as a deeply caring woman who through her own journey feels compelled to reach out and help. Melanie is, very importantly to me, a Thriver, which is what I was looking for. Someone who knows a way out and into a better state of being, a better life free of unhealthy emotional attachments!
I first received Melanie´s New Life newsletter by mail everyday for 2 weeks, which was such a soothing support for me, I attended the free Facebook workshop, which I really liked, being able to connect in real-time, and really knowing that I was not alone meeting others and Melanie´s sweet staff!
I have begun the NARP mp3s/Journaling and I feel very safe and taken care of healing my most vulnerable inner self. I am able to relax and feel hope. And what is most wonderful is, that the deep deep inner healing... is done by oneself... that is such a sovereign and empowering feeling! Yaiii!
Much love K

Mel is a leading edge insightful being that shares her gift's lovingly and truthfully.
Eternally indebted to you

Like many of the negative reviews, I have also noticed Melanie has a very obnoxious, cruel side. I signed up for her services long before she blew up and had a few direct interactions with her (nowadays you can't even get her one-on-one unless you pay out your $#*!) so I know this of her directly. Cruel, petty comments. She's the most important person in the room, better not challenge her. If she's so "strong" from healing, she should put up with a little questioning. What she wants for herself, she doesn't even want for her clients. For example, if she's happy she's not afraid of speaking up anymore, shouldn't she want that for her clients? Except they ALL get gagged if she perceives them puttiing her down. It's too bad - Her ego seems to have gotten in her way. I even got an older negative review removed from here by them, God knows how. They're manipulative and don't like people speaking their truth about them if they aren't squeaky clean, which they aren't. I think she's gotten too big for her britches too. At the end of the day, I look at a person and how they treat me and others. And when I look at that, I don't see Melanie Tonia Evans as healed. I see that her unresolved trauma makes her think everyone who critisizes her (even constructively) is a narc and her unresolved trauma makes her mean. So I don't think she's worked it all out. At all. AAANd now her little mignions will be after me *sigh*

If you need help with Narcissistic Abuse, she is the one to go too. Could not find a better program than hers!

Until I came across Melanie there was literally NO help for Narcissistic abuse recovery, I went from therapist to therapist, spiritual healers, alternative therapy the list goes on and on, I helped myself research learn and understand what had happened to me but no matter how much I learnt I couldn't get well, I'm now at the beginning of this journey to wellness and restoring myself to the person I was before I met my narcissistic ex and no I've found the answer with Melanie's NARP program, already the few things I've participated in have awaken me more to the answers to the core underlying issues, I live in the UK and there's absolutely nothing around that helps with recovery from this type of abuse which is quite alarming seeing as narcissists seem to be everywhere! I highly recommended using Melanie's NARP recovery program especially as Melanie has experienced and recovered herself so she totally knows what we have experienced and suffered with, there's no better person to help than someone who's experienced it first hand! Its given me faith I will get back who I've lost but a stronger wiser improved version of myself. Thank Goodness I found her and I hope many more people find her too :)

I left a narcissist in 2007 in that I lost 3 beautiful children, I met someone new shortly afterwards, began to have a life and did lots of inner healing... so I thought. I left my second partner in 2014 because I knew I had not lived a life that was me yet. In 2016 I decided to get back into dating, I felt confident and happy within myself and looked forward to this next chapter. Enter Narcissist number 2. This time around I was very aware of the energy in my body and I observed the patterns and recognised how i was behaving. It triggered so much around rejection, not being good enough and abandonment. I was confused, I had done so much work and yet this had such a strong hold on me it was driving me crazy. I went back into all my old behaviours, smoking, drinking, eating lots of sugar, all these addictions re-entering my daily life and I was feeling out of control and hating myself for it. I am so grateful that I could do this programme, within days I was aware of the energy being released, it has opened Pandora's box but I am grateful. I have been feeling it all, the intense pain from childhood, the brokenness, hopelessness, anger, fear and feeling not good enough, as I began to release I no longer felt the need to reach for the outside pacifiers... it was so interesting to watch what was going on on the inside and then how I was behaving on the outside, the agitation has left my body and I am feeling calmer... I had buried this so deep within And U realise now layers and layers were there and it was still running me. I understand the power of our energy and this course resonated with me on so many levels and I am grateful for myself and others that we are now beginning to heal completely THANK YOU

I did Melanie's free programme and, despite it being rather 'woo' - and I'm definitely not a 'woo' person - I did find it quite helpful. The very basic concept seems to be a recognition that, after you have been damaged by a relationship with a narcissist, the best thing you can do is to work on and 'energise' yourself. Her reasoning seems to be that the past, however painful, can't be changed and neither can the narcissist themselves (they're notoriously resistant to improvement, even in the hands of trained professionals) so you should try to take your attention or 'energy' away from these things (which she acknowledges as very hard) and instead focus your attention on helping and healing yourself. She uses the idea of being more than a 'Survivor' of abuse and aiming to become a 'Thriver' which I quite liked and have taken on board.
But - and it's a big and personal one - I didn't warm to Melanie herself and found her style rather preachy. Her videos, though free on Youtube, contain some good ideas but are very 'wordy'. I also have hearing problems and found her voice both grating and hard to hear - but that's very just me.
My honest advice would be - try her free programme and see how you feel about it. I won't be buying the further CD's and books but that's because I don't think they'll help me personally. Although I can see a 'golden nugget' in her ideas, the packaging that that nugget comes in won't work for me. It might for you. Really, if there's anything that might reduce the pain, trauma and obsessional rehashing of events that mark the aftermath of a brush with a narcissist and would strengthen us against them worming their way into our lives again, it is worth at least considering - or sieving for its best parts.

Thank you Melanie for your wonderfully healing videos. I can't even imagine where I would be right now without them. I've gone through, and still going through such a horrendous roller coaster of suffering unlike anything I've ever experienced in my life. Your videos have helped me through many stages of identifying that I was in fact dealing with a person with full blown narcissistic personality disorder. The videos also helped me by validating my experience. They showed me that I wasn't crazy and definitely wasn't alone in this seemingly scripted pathological nightmare. I've been suffering with the worst PTSD, waking up in the middle of the night and early in the morning with terror in my heart and such adrenal fatigue that I often feel like shattered glass coursing through my veins. Some mornings when this is particularly bad, I plug my headphones into the phone and listen to one of your inspirational videos... The soothing words and holding container of the video provides a relief that allows me to sometimes drift back to sleep for just a little longer. It may seem like a small thing in that moment, but I promise you that that relief feels enormous. I'm so grateful for your work and to my friend who sent me that initial first video. If she had never sent me that video, I'm sure I would have fallen into this trap again. This is the first time in my life I can now see it. The pattern. I have so much gratitude and appreciation for your work. It has been saving my life day by day by day. I'm ready to find out what the "Thriver" program is. I don't want to feel this suffering anymore. It's just so brutal.

One day sitting alone in my house that I paid for and after the NARC had just let me have the brunt of a terrible tantrum, I googled: "How to get a narcissist to go away". And Google to me to this link: https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-make-the-narcissist-powerless-to-affect-your-life/

This was in January of this year. I read this blog with wonder. I bought the NARC Abuse Recovery program and began to shift. I basically moved into my bedroom and began No Contact with the NARC in my own house. I had to work out a Separation Agreement with him but I am pleased to say that on June 13th he left me and went back to his middle eastern home. There was no smear campaign, limited nastiness and while I lost money - it could have been so much worse. Melanie's Program is to thank for this. IT COULD HAVE BEEN SO VERY, VERY MUCH WORSE.
I do not think for a second that had I not found Melanie's program this success would have happened. I would probably have lost everything. I had to give him a significant amount of money but I still have my house and I have my career and possessions and my two beloved dogs.
Please tell Melanie that I love her and I pray for her daily. This was, without a doubt, the worst experience of my life but Melanie has given me hope too that I can now create with the source of all power and I want to create great things the way Melanie has.

Dear all,
I would like to write a review based on my experiences of Melanie Tonia Evan's website and all the information she shares for people looking to heal after abuse. I experienced abuse and neglect through my childhood, then due to my boundaries being violated and my damaged self worth and belief system, I continued this pattern and ended up in an abusive marriage for 17 years experiencing physical, psychological, emotional, financial and sexual abuse. I am now a single mother of 42 with 2 beautiful children. I have Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and for the past 3 years have been struggling to come to terms and process what has happened to me as well as manage the ongoing severe symptoms of the Complex PTSD and difficult family and financial circumstances. I have found that the emotional pain has been so overwhelming, and the constant re-traumatising and re-triggering of the original childhood wounds has been so intense that I have kept looking for anything to distract me from feeling and healing this original pain. When I came across Melanie's work, for the first time I felt a sense of being understood for the enormity of what I am living with and facing every day. I felt not only validated, which in itself came as an enormous relief, but Melanie has offered specific explanations and guidelines as to what must be done in order to heal. I have found that her work makes great sense to me: until I heal my original childhood trauma, I will continue with the damaged and distorted belief system I currently have and will continue to attract situations and people who mirror back to me what is lacking in myself. I fully recommend Melanie's work to anyone who has experienced trauma in childhood and particularly if you have experienced being in an abusive relationship. I truly have not found her insight and in depth understanding of the enormity of dealing with this kind of trauma, anywhere else.
Wishing you all the best, with best wishes, Penelope Lawrie