MelanieToniaEvans

I was diagnosed with CPTSD over 10 years ago... and began learning to "manage my symptoms," I was told that this condition was incurable. I've only been working on Melanie's program for a few weeks now, and I already am noticing huge changes in the way I am dealing with situations that previously would have brought me crashing into a heap. I've learned to muscle test ( with kinesiology) to pinpoint the issue that I'm currently working on, to deal with the emotion while I'm feeling it... instead of distracting myself... or becoming so overwhelmed that I freeze. For the first time in my life, I'm no longer terrified of my emotions! I'm even looking forward to the next triggering experience, so I can practice releasing the core issues attached. This course is already giving me better results than I got from years of counselling... and I can put in the time when It suits me, as many times a week as I can manage. Even my dreams are becoming more positive... Thank you Melanie, your program is an answer to my prayers!

Had I not found the program, read the eBooks, read the blogs, listened to the countless hours of podcasts from Melanie, the immense support from the forum and Facebook members and staff, watched the Youtube videos, with most recently the video on dealing with narcissists at Christmas time which brought me back into myself after the narc did exactly what was identified in the video, and last, but no where least the modules, I hate to think what downward spiral I'd be living. I would strongly suggest anyone that think otherwise think twice before publicly stating it as I would not want someone like myself to not have the chance to heal because of being swayed away from maybe the only thing that they'll ever be exposed to that could save them.

The videos, blogs, radio and other material that Melanie does is very honest, loving and caring. If you feel threatened, misunderstood or attacked by ANY of it, be sure to take a deep breath- and listen to all those feelings knowing that all of that is not who you truly are.

Mental growth is pretty scary and hard- many, many, many lessons you come across are THOUGH as hell and it might take a day or two (in worst case you just won't get it...) befor you are able to see and know in your heart what's really true. These feelings of anger, resentment or blame- that's the "ego" trying to keep you small, hurt, sad, scared, blaming and judging. It just won't get you anywhere...

True healing can only- ONLY- come from inside, if you aren't ready, your just not ready! When you are- you will find your path.

Mine began with Melanie and she's really really authentic, loving, fun and clear.

Do look her videos up, if you in any way feel defensive- give it a break, let it sink in and ask yourself- where in my life could this actually be true? Doesn't matter if it's just 1%, OWN your life, your choices and take responsibility and leadership!
You can do it!
Infinite peace and love

I came across Melanie on google, i was looking for narcissitic abuse information so i could better understand what i was dealing with and also better understand myself, i signed up to her 16 day email subscriptions which had a 3 hour webinar: 3 ways to thrive after narcissitic abuse, i had experience self partnering for the first time ever in my life as part of that webinar and instantly it created a shift, made me understand my inner child wounds and what was essentially making my inner chid suffer. THANK YOU MELANIE for beng there when i needed it the most xx

For 2 years now, I have followed Melanie on all her social platforms and have used all of her information and tools! For me everything I've learned about Narcissists, abuse, recovery and healing from her has been a true lifesaver!

She has helped me through my toughest times, when I thought I was not going to make it! Her compassion, empathy and sympathy kept me coming back for help. As she shared her personal experience concerning narcissists she became a person that I looked to for the path to recovery. She is a true consistent coach and leader that can help anyone out of these abusive situations! Then, onto recovery and healing the most effective way, with her Quantum Freeing Healing program. I recommend her to anyone who wants their life back to thrive again after narcissist abuse!
She is an Angel sent from God!

I thank you Melanie for paving the way, by giving back to help others like myself break free from this horrific nightmare, and to learn how to smile and thrive again, cause there is nothing else to do! God bless you abundantly!

I was on my 14th day of the ex girlfriend initiated silent treatment and could find no relief from "being in my head". Somehow, and I believe it was God sent, Awhile searching the web looking fir some kind of relief, I cane across an article by Melanie Tonia Evans. Finally someone who knew exactly my feelings of abandonment, rejection, unworthiness, and total devastation. I read more and more material by Melanie which meant I wad not alone with this syndrome. Then I found her videos on YouTube. I began believing and following her plan for recovery from Narcissistic Abuse. Within 3 days, I realized her healing process was the only recovery program that made since, and I am actually well on my way to being the me I deserve to be. Melanie Tonia Evans' Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program has brought not only surviving this nightmare, but thriving after the abuse, giving those who work on themselves faithfully the life they wish to create for themselves. That's right, it shows you how to finally have control of your own life. Please join me on your journey through HARP and into the life, you want to create.

I came across Melanie's work soon after discovering the label of Narcissistic Abuse. It was some relief to me knowing I could now name what I have experienced most of my life. The relief I felt researching Melanie's program and realising it is tailored specifically for those having experienced this type of abuse, and the horrors it entails, was huge. I knew Melanie had lived it, you have to have lived it to understand the impact and personal toll it takes. In my case on two generations of children in my family including myself. No matter how hard I tried for years to win over the Narcissist in my family, I know it just can't be done, unless by some miracle they choose to look inside of themselves. Four years ago I was able to distance myself which has been empowering and healing to a degree, I have also tried other therapies. Nothing compares to what I have already touched on with Melanie's program. I can't think of any better way to continue to heal and also to honour myself and the both of my siblings, whose lives were cut short, than to continue on this journey of healing, self-partnering and love for myself and my future and my family. Sincerely grateful to you Melanie and team.

Melanie Tonia Evans program for healing from narcissitic abuse is the One and Only program that reaches deep into our very being to get rid of once and for all the traumas and wounds inbedded in our very body/cells. The subconscious holds all the information and memories, and it is thru our subconscious that All is possible, that we can be All that we can be, and that we can Thrive not just survive! It is a scientific fact that our DNA holds all that was, is and will be... listen and or read Bruce Lipton who goes hand in hand with Melanie's program and her sucess in self healing and helping others heal. Nemaste!

Two years ago, I was in a horrible abusive narcissistic relationship. My life was falling apart all around me. Valuable relationships were stressed and almost lost, my work suffered, and my health declined.
I can now clearly see that leaving that relationship was the best choice for me. The feeling of getting my power and my freedom back is awesome. I am getting stronger and healthier and am seeing myself in a better light than I ever have before. My goal, with the help of this program, is to become so strong that I am able to walk away from abuse at the first sign of itbefore it becomes an addictive patternjust walk away, no matter how much it hurts. I am so inspired by Melanie's story and what she is doing for others. I am so grateful that her program is available to all of us through the internet. I used to think I was alone, my friends tired and void of resources for helping, and no one who could understand. I now know that there are many of you who relate to what Ive been through. I am glad you have found Melanie and hope you benefit as I have from her guidance and start living a better life soon.

I have always thought there was something wrong with me, and couldn't understand why I was being treated so badly by my own family. I began attracting partners who mirrored who treated me the same way. I didn't even know I was being abused. After searching for answers, I came across Melanie's work upon youtube and in her blogs, and everything began to make sense. Finally someone who has experienced the same thing and who knows how to heal in order to breakthrough into a life worth living. I have been surviving for many many years, now, little did I realise that healing my childhood wounds would be the way to a better life. I have tried many modalities, psychologists and healers, but none of them have seemed to create any changes for me. Melanie's thriver model is the light of hope I've had to finally have a chance to heal and move into a happy life I deserve to be living. Thank-you for sharing your work, knowledge and experience with the world, Melanie. It is the hand of help I have desperately needed to turn my life around. I can't recommend you enough. Thank-you for helping us to realise there is a way to heal and live a happier life..

As a perpetual student of life I am not often surprised when life sends me a curve ball. How I have tackled each situation in the the past is by whaling and shaking, moaning, therapists, Councillors, potions but not pills. But still yet I seem to meet similar circumstances over and over again. I probably had one of the worst things to happen to me in a long time this summer. Fortunately, I happened to come across a YouTube video of Melanie's, I was glued to it as I couldn't believe what she was saying was so on the ball and pertaining to my situation. From an invitation to participate in a free online webinar with a 2.5 week preamble things got better and better for me. The support offered by the staff and Melanie herself has been second to none. Personal replies to emails and in a short space of time. It's a very specific area of healing focusing on self empowerment. This is not something to take on lightly it is for people like me who are at the end of their tether and it is a life saver. It is wonderful to have an online experience like I have had here, interacting with people with such heart and compassion.

Im another genuine user of the NARP program. First thing to mention is that the program does work. One of the first modules in the program, to clear pain that is causing you distress at this time works incredibly well.

Melanie mentions that you will use this module over and over again as you work through your pain, and it is true, I have used it over ten times so far, working on different traumas from my past.

The program does require TIME. The first module takes two hours, and sometimes this is too long, but I did find that you can create your own shorter audio version pretty simply and then you can cut the session to one hour, I have done this and it still works exactly the same way.

You have to keep working with the modules, it is not something you can throw a few hours at, feel a bit better and then leave.

I have done this, and you have to go back and do more work, because the further you push into the modules, the deeper the pain you release; a lot of people don't understand this. It is like peeling back the layers of an onion.

Overall I would recommend this to anyone who has trauma from childhood or narcissistic abuse, which also in the end goes back to childhood.

Highly recommended!

As a brand new member of the MTE experience, I have been enlightened. Not only... not feeling alone in my experience of having such bizarre relationship events having high levels of frustration, confusing isolation, severe heartbreak and pain. Within this community I've been professionally educated about not only what a Narcissist is, but what their motivation is. In a very short time I've learned what the narcissist seeks with their intentional mind twisting game paying. But, most important I have been learning about myself. What "my role" has been in this roller coaster marriage and why I engage the way I have been. Here it is. We've all been programmed both positively and negatively unconsciously absorbing both messages. It's within this "negative" programming many unhealed wounds appear. The bottom line is this: Life is a reflection of our subconscious programming. The beliefs I've carried with me as an adult, forever unaware from my childhood - it's these vulnerabilities and unhealed wounds that I've been "giving" - handing over if you will - to the narcissist to play with and use. Melanie's material is the answer for me to heal these wounds. So, that I'm NOT vulnerable. It's time I heal and embrace myself and love "me" all of me, safely. Melanie's program WILL provide me the tools for me to focus on my healing..

I just completed an intro workshop with Melanie and it really gave me hope. After 4 years of back and forth with an alcoholic altruistic narcissist, I am beat. Despite being aware that the abuse was happening, and leaving a few times, I would get sucked back in and it became worse. The really difficult piece is that the relief of leaving lasted a few days, then the craziness set in again; questioning what was real. I secured a therapist but rehashing every detail seems more traumatic. The workshop piece of meeting my child self was profound. It brought me right to an experience as a four year old which set up a lifetime of second guessing myself, and staying in situations I knew were harmful, trying to love enough to heal someone. After the meditations and shift, I actually felt clear and lighter for the first time in years (except I was being love bombed lol). I understand how important energetic healing is. We are all energy. Wounds can't be healed with logic or I would never have repeated the cycles I have. I am so excited to do things differently, love myself, have support, and have the internal wounds heal so I can create the life I want and need. I am so excited!

After over half a decade of narcissistic abuse in a marriage with an emotionally and financially abusive man, I found Melanie's work online and paid close attention to her work. I could hardly believe my ears - it felt like she was describing my situation and countless experiences. Finally, I could make some sense of what I was being subjected to and more importantly, it was healing and reassuring to know that I wasn't alone. Somebody else had experienced similar and more importantly, knows how to heal it and help me get through the other side of narcissistic abuse. I somehow summoned the courage, packed what I could into a two suitcases and flew home to my native country with no money, no resources but my sanity intact. I really felt suicidal and hopeless because of how much this relationship and man had stripped me of. Thanks to Melanie and the amazing support and help she has given to me, I can make sense of why it happened to me and what I need to do to heal those inner wounds that made me a magnet for narcs and begin to live the life I deserve. I am so grateful for the great work that she does. Melanie, you totally rock <3 Thank you.

I've been reading Melanie Tonia Evans blog for several years now (2011) and watching her Thriver videos for the last year. I've read so much in so many places and nobody knows the NPD abuse experience and HEALING better than Melanie. I'm grateful that she has dedicated so much of her life to help others who have also had these experiences with the narcissistic personality disordered; Of all of my therapy and study concerning my experiences with NPD "people" - and all of the attendant destruction they create - nobody has done more to help me heal from my wounds. THANK YOU Melanie!

After 3 relationships worse than the other with Narcissists and feeling totally lost and without a single hope of ever finding a way back to ME, I found Melanie and the NARC program. I can honestly tell you it feels like she saved my life and my sanity! Finally I'm not only "understanding" what my problems are, in my head and with my min - but I FEEL it inside my body for the very first time! It took me less than half a day watching Melanie's videos to be totally FREE from my obsession of my Narc and to make No Contact! I can not express in words how grateful I am and I can warmly recommend Melanie and her life changing program!

Finally I found someone who understands everything I have been through. Melanie explains things very clearly with no sugarcoating. After watching her videos and reading her articles I understand what has been going on with these people all my life that have been abusing me. I understand how I let them get away with it and why. I now know what they were thinking and even how they ended up as abusers. She has given me amazing insight like nobody else could. I struggled for years to find answers. I was so angry at my abusers at first. Then it changed to fear. Fear that I might slip and let it happen again. I am finally starting to see hope that I can be transformed from inside out and be happy and not have to be afraid that I will be an abuser magnet anymore. All I ever wanted was to experience real love and I read so many relationship books over the years. None of the concepts in those books ever worked for me. What they neglect to tell you is that you have to be dealing with a NORMAL person to begin with. I have only dealt with narcissists so NO WONDER nothing ever worked! I am so lucky to have found Melanie. She has given me answers and I feel empowered. I feel hope.

This program has given me a lot of hope and relief from my string of abusive relationships. I can see now I have sought out these types of relationships due to childhood wounds that were not addressed. It makes sense to me her approach, which is to build on self-healing my own wounds instead of trying to change the narcissistic partners I am subconciously attracted to simply because they help me to relive these terrible childhood traumas. Instead, through this program, I am learning how to release and transform these terrible feelings into something that is more authentic, and so letting go of this energy and replacing it with self-love and acceptance, will eventually attract that kind of energy and experiences into my life. Everyone always told me "Let it go" and its so easy to say that to someone, but I always wondered, "How do you let it go?" even if you want to, its not as easy as it sounds. Well this program is teaching me how to let it go literally- through the quantum freedom healing process. I have also had interactions with the support team, who have been very helpful, very responsive and available. I believe this is the real thing, people who care and want to see people heal. In comparison to all the dating programs and psychics out there who give information that actually only feeds the unhealthy attachment to the narcissist this is much less expensive and actually addresses the real issues behind the situation, to help create a better life.