MelanieToniaEvans

I am in the process of getting started on the journey of healing from a narcissistic abuse marriage. My divorce was finalized June 1 and though I am only 26 years old because of the pain of my first marriage had lost all hope for my life... I look around and my friends who are either married or getting married have no signs of struggling the ways that I did with my ex-husband... It made me feel like there was something really wrong with me if I was the only one struggling and everyone else had a growing and healthy marriage... I felt like there was no way out for me because somehow I would end up in painful relationships no matter how hard I tried not to. In one of Melanie's videos, she addressed this fear of mine- "is there something so horribly wrong with me that I am guarenteed to never have the dream marriage relationship I desire." She addressed this fear with compassion, understanding, but also extending hope that I was not irreparably broken and that this issue can be resolved and you can have just like your friends a happy and healthy marriage. I can't even describe what this did to me when I had lost all hope. It gave me a ray of light that has only increased with hearing testimony after testimony of people being set free from this dynamic. I am so thankful for Melanie and the team's support in also making it possible for me in a financially difficult situation with the divorce to receive material that I desperately need. Thank you so much.

I asked for the manifesting love course because I tread that I won it. It was updated on my page promptly.

Mel's advice and techniques are whats needed in the area of personality disorders. Other venues focus on education and healing cognitively. Mel reaches down to our cellular hurt and resolves. When we are putting out energy while no contact, we may as well be talking to the subhumans we are trying to rid our souls of. Mels upshifts are the key to true no contact.
To true freedom from the pain of the emotional vampirism.
To life!

I have been a victim or repeates narcissistic abuse in the last three years and it almost ended up with death for me last week... I had tried everything... I have been in therapy most of my life. I don't even remember how I found Melanie's work, since my brain has been damaged. I have to say however that it is the kind of solution connected with the human on a deep level that all of us need, whatever our issues are. I am deeply happy I found her. Once I am healed, I wish to learn this method to help as many humans as possible on the planet... as Melanie explained and what I have understood after 42 years on this planet is that every human needs to heal its child wounds before bringing a child to life, if we wish to build the world we wish for. Being healed by a survivor is also very comforting as we know she has been through it herself so we feel understood and comforted. So happy I found you Melanie and this community. I can finally start my life and live my life purpose at 42 years old. Thank you a thousand times!

After years of repeating the same kind of relationships, though they each came in different packaging I have seen the light. Years of crazy crazy behaviour that I could never make sense of IS OVER! I was at such a low. No self worth left in tact I somehow managed to leave the abuse. Then the real pain started. I tried over and over again to extend every opportunity he begged for to allow him to try again. It was so true what Melanie has taught me. Each time he would HOOVER and I would give in and then BAM it was even worse than before. Each time I let him try again it hurt me more. I implemented NO CONTACT and sadly his behaviour got worse. I haven't carved a single time. Nor will I. After spending ever spare minute using Melanie's resources, she showed me the light. Firstly she described my real life verbatim and I instantly felt understood. Once I fully comprehended what A narcissist was I was able to turn the page and begin to focus on my inner healing. This is where I began to put myself first. The journey I am now on with all the tools Melanie has given me is a daily joy. I dive in as many times a day as I can, anytime I can. Everyday I become stronger and more hopeful. The excitement lies in the fact that the journey has just begun. Melanie I think you with everything that I am for making your life's mission a healing, hopeful, blessed road for so many of us.

I discovered Melanie's website and resources more than a year ago and signed up immediately - and I'm still a subscriber and customer. I found Melanie's content very specialised and uniquely helpful. I haven't come across anyone else teaching what Melanie is teaching and in the easy-to-understand, epiphany-inducing way she teaches it. She's incredibly generous too and provides in-depth blog posts, newsletters and free resources that have been a huge help to me on my recovery journey.

I've been so impressed with the help I've received through Melanie's free resources and blog posts that I've now bought her book, attended one of her online events and joined her NARP recovery program - and I'm even more impressed now! Melanie goes above and beyond and delivers massive value and resources that have been life-changing for me and are already helping me turn my life around in big ways and for the better. I haven't felt this empowered and at peace within myself for years.

THANK YOU so much, Melanie, for the wonderful work you're doing, for your generosity and the high-quality content you keep providing. I'm very grateful.

I was in a relationship for 5 years and following a house fire and loss of employment I was told my partner could no longer be in a relationship and focus on their needs. Fast forward a quick month later and he's already with someone else. As I sat in darkness and despair, I kept asking "why me? Why now? Why?" After doing some research I happened across Melanie's blog and it was like a lightbulb clicked on. Scenario after scenario she described, I had a real world example that I had been living and breathing. I didn't ever once fully look inward during that relationship to notice that it wasn't normal. I don't know where the man I fell in love with went, but thanks to Melanie, I'm able to understand that I attracted him to my life for a reason, and that reason is not because I'm a failure or worthless human being like I had been conditioned to believe, but that the reason had nothing to do with me. That alone helped put me in a better mental space to process the emotions that I was feeling. I knew I was feeling abandonment issues from my childhood, but I didn't know how to address these feelings. Thanks to Melanie I feel I have a solid base to work with on something that before a month ago, I never would have believed I was experiencing first hand. I highly recommend her blog, videos, website and everything she has to offer. You can never have enough tools in your tool belt Thanks Melanie for all your effort.

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Im so impressed by melanies work knowledge positivity and encouragement... i found myself yet again in another narcassistic relationship. I actually thought i was healed from the previous relationships... after learning more from melanies webinars i realise it was a wound that was just not healed. Ive learnt a hell of a lot and i really need guiding putting the work in to finally really heal and thrive by uncovering my subconcious and embrace my inner child. Putting focus back on myself not the abuser

Looking forward to some life changing but neccesary life enhancing inner work for once in my life im putting my health and love for myself 1st

I wanted to heal from this narcissistic relationship and starting going to a therapist twice a week. I read everything about this illness and talked to friends about my emotional pain. Instead of getting better I was getting sicker! I started to be afraid of leaving the safety of my home and had panic attacks every time a white work truck drove by me on the road fearful that it was him. He had so much power of me. I obsessed over him and the conversations in my head all day and prayed for them to stop. No sleep, friends abandoning me and agoraphobic I was hopeless. Then in an article Melanie told her story and it was my story and I became hopeful! I was doing everything wrong by talking about it in therapy over and over again! I recognized that I was brought up by a narcissistic mother and this was a pattern of mine seeking out men that were not capable of loving me. I am now healing my inner wounds by surrendering the old self blame and healing the hurt child within. I am grateful for the tools that Melanie gave me and I am no longer a victim.
Lisa R United States

Mel's Blogs Where like an instant remedy for the difficult times that I spent, Her wide knowledge and compassionate approach Helped me to get through my painful experience.
I was amazed of Her wide understanding of the different subjects, she described things like she was living with me and the best thing is that I was Tasting instant Freedom and relief once I read about the subjects that were related to my own issue.
After having the amazing 16 day free course couldn't resist to Join The NARP community and start my Journey for total Healing.
Thank You Mel You came like a blessing to my life.

When my husband of 11 years suddenly and unexpectedly left, I had no idea what a narcissist was. Fate led me to Melanie and her life-changing work. Honestly, between her videos, blogs, books and modules, every question has been answered. That said, it's a LOT of work! And only YOU can do it. Mel is a fabulous guide, but you have to show up, invest time, and dig deep. The payoff for this effort is HUGE! It's your LIFE! When I was left, I wanted to die. I envisioned different ways I could die. I was lost, in a black hole. But I showed up, did the work every day... and 9 months later I can see how far I've come. I'm not ready to date yet (but Mel says it's good to take time off), but the funny thing is, for the first time in my life, I don't feel that I NEED a man! I have ME! And I'm having a wonderful time finding out exactly who I am. I'm confident that in time, I will find a relationship unlike anything I've ever experienced in my life. I won't be looking to fix a broken man. My new guy will be whole and complete; a perfect match for me. Thanks Mel!

Melanie Tonia Evans knows more than most people in the world about what is necessary to heal from narcissistic abuse. Many people think that there is a need to re-hash what the N does and says or does not do or say. This is erroneous thinking and those people who do the necessary healing work also realise that re-hashing old destructive stories about what happened to them, does not help the healing process. Those people who think that talking about the destructive words and actions of the N will help their healing process, are still stuck talking about it years later and often get involved with other toxic people. Those people who focus on their healing, go No Contact and who do not keep re-hashing abuse stories, can tell many glowing stories of not just surviving, but they are thriving. Melanie does know what she is talking about and those who have done her NARP programme, can attest to how good it is and the wonderful results they have achieved by doing it. I would totally recommend Mel's work to anyone who wants to heal from narcissistic abuse, because it really works and that says it all.

Since the first contact with Melanie and her team I felt like I found the supportive, warm, loving family I longed for my whole life. This is a demanding program though, it's not all fluffy hugs and relaxing meditations. You will have to put in some serious emotional work and be ready to face your pain, your traumas and your fears. The rewards however are exceptional and life-changing. From day one I had some incredible shifts and felt much lighter and at peace. I am still in a difficult stituation and my pain was almost unbearable. I still have a long road ahead but I can feel the transformation already taking place inside of me, the way I never achieved before. I've had lots of healing, counselling, and spiritual practice before and never quite managed to get unstuck and heal completely. As I've started this program, initially somehow skeptical, I'm finally seeing things so clearly and realising what were my blocks all along. I can't express just how excited and hopeful this program made me feel, it lifted my soul from despair and helplessness, and I finally feel ready to face the truth and have solutions! I will report back when it's finished but wouldn't hesitate to recommend it to anyone who feels ready to change and live their best life.

I looked up Melanie Tonia Evans' site because I was suffering from long-standing emotional abuse that I accepted and did not know how to step out of, much less recover from. I had lost hope that such a thing was possible. Melanie's message helped me recognize my familial and friendship relationship dynamics for what they are. Once I did that, I had tremendous relief to face myself and my choices. Presently, I am working through her process of internal healing, and I'm letting go of my old behavior patterns so I don't match up with narcissistic relationships, and I'm able to move past long standing internal fear-based paralysis to take action in my life based on my needs. The freedom from uncoupling from the old behaviors that maintained those relationships is hard to describe, but it's very good, and worth the time and loving attention I now give to myself. The tools she offers and suggestions she's made are making a huge difference in my life. She's been there, communicates her understanding very clearly, and so much to offer those of us who are struggling from being in relationships that aren't healthy for us.

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I was in a very difficult situation and searched the web fro possible help. I checked quite many experts and finally I found Melanie. Her approach, tools, and the help I have received from her colleagues were excellen, very professional and very human. Besides the perfect articles and videos, I have received tremendous help from a colleague of help via several email exchange.
With the help of this excellenet program I feel that I am completely recocovered and my life is faboulous.
Thank you Melanie and Clarie!
Des

I nearly drove myself mad researching narcissism trying to understand what was happening to me when my ex discarded me, Melanie's own experiences meant that she knew 1st hand how being treated this way could effect you and helped me see another way of looking at things so that I could stop focusing on him and start healing me,
I was dreading Christmas but thanks to Melanie's 'NewLife' 14 days of supportive informative emails I survived, and because of the difference I feel already, in the new year I am looking forward to learning how to thrive, I am going to become a NARP member!

I was diagnosed with CPTSD over 10 years ago... and began learning to "manage my symptoms," I was told that this condition was incurable. I've only been working on Melanie's program for a few weeks now, and I already am noticing huge changes in the way I am dealing with situations that previously would have brought me crashing into a heap. I've learned to muscle test ( with kinesiology) to pinpoint the issue that I'm currently working on, to deal with the emotion while I'm feeling it... instead of distracting myself... or becoming so overwhelmed that I freeze. For the first time in my life, I'm no longer terrified of my emotions! I'm even looking forward to the next triggering experience, so I can practice releasing the core issues attached. This course is already giving me better results than I got from years of counselling... and I can put in the time when It suits me, as many times a week as I can manage. Even my dreams are becoming more positive... Thank you Melanie, your program is an answer to my prayers!