MelanieToniaEvans

I had been in therapy for a while, not making progress, when I found this program. Nothing had helped with my repetitive self-shaming and the crippling fog I found myself in. Melanie Tonia Evans' work helped me see that I was attracting men who would support my dark, frightened, 5 year old ego state - the little girl who was sensitive, innocent, and treated recklessly by harsh parents. And why I grew up to be abandoned repeatedly by "bad boys". Or men that were just bad for me. No therapist could cut through the years of accumulated confusion and bewilderment of why this pattern repeated. It just made no sense at all.
Then I stumbled upon Melanie Tonia Evans' blog post. Then another. Started reading regularly, and everything she said started to make all the sense in the world. To me, her insight is invaluable, the way she shares her experience felt like it was my life precisely, and quite frankly, there is a lot of heart and grit behind a woman who would put her life out there and share with the world to help others. Her work and her words are a port in storm, and an eye opening enlightenment, and I am genuinely excited about life again.

I always find the video clips inspiring and Uplifting and enlightening and with a lot of helpful advice that makes a lot of sense to me and that I can identify with and that there is light at the end of the long and dark tunnel, until I read about narcissistic abuse, I was totally confused and thought did the problem lay with me? My eyes were opened so quickly and it was like I was reading a real life script that belonged to me, I had never even heard of the expression "mind games " before then and then I read about " protection " love bombing " and " gas lighting " it was such a relief to put a name to all of this and read such inspiring and positive help and support and advice, as well as the video clips. I am so glad and thankful for finding Melenie and this site and I'm sure that others will find it just as helpful.

I have been struggling with confusion, sadness and fear in my relationships my whole life. I tried so hard in many different ways but I had gotten to the point where I had given up hope in myself. I was praying for help when I came across Melanie's videos. Watching them opened my eyes and I started to look at everything in a whole new light.
Melanie seemed to understand exactly what it was like to be me and how my relationships unfolded. Melanie's daily emails were like a friend "holding my hand" through the tough days and her videos were like someone there for me when I really needed answers, support and even healing. Everything Melanie has taught me so far has helped me enormously. Instead of despair, now I feel a beautiful feeling of hope that by continuing to follow Melanie's programs I can finally stop the old patterns repeating and set myself free. I don't feel so alone anymore. I am so grateful to go on this new journey. Thank you all so much, I highly recommend Melanie and her team.

Melanie's program 8s truly wonderful and life changing. Her information & insight as given me a whole new insight to my life, myself, & has opened my mind to a different perspective of why ive had so much pain in my life, where it comes from and how it's directed the path of life I've experienced. I never understood why life has had so much trauma, why & how I can heal & evolve to live the life we were created to live. Her videos & webinars have been encouraging, educational & inspiring. I have hope that I can become well & heathly from following her techniques. Melanie is so down to earth & real.

Thank You God for Melanie Tonia Evans.
In all honesty I do not know where I would be today without Melanie Tonia Evans and the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program.
I have been trapped in the same patterns ALL of my life, and am now seeing that it stemmed from childhood traumas, and poor programming.
I do not blame my parents, or schooling for anything, for I would not be where I am today without these events happening for me in my life.
I have always been a spiritual seeker, and the fact that this simple meditative program can be so powerful is something I have always looked for.
By using this program I am healing not only my psyche, but my body.
Thank You God, and Melanie Tonia Evans for ALL that you have, are and will do for me.
Jefferson Davis Burton
The Dance Hawk of the Flame

I happened to come across Melanie's work at a time I had no one and nothing to hang onto anymore. I felt that based on my understanding I was dealing with a narcissistic spouse who had discarded me but had no idea what to do next. I have to say I was surprised at the message Melanie was communicating because I was in complete victim mode. It took me almost a year to get to the point I am now where I can actually listen and absorb her message. I didn't reject what she was communicating during that year but could only handle little bits of the truth at a time. Her presentation of the issue and her personal experiences that she shares have made such a profound impact on how I view what I have been through and has pointed me in a positive direction for my future that I did not think was possible. Thank you Melanie and your team for your amazing work and dedication to this cause so that no one feels alone and hopeless and that there is healing and possibilities of obtaining a high self after all...

I joined NARP as a scared, broken shell of a woman. I had been narcissistically abused for over 18yrs. Nothing worked. No one could help and I didn't know what to do. A google search led me to Melanie Tonia Evans. I took a chance and joined the NARP program. I had no real idea what it was all about and it was hard work. As I worked through the modules I was working through myself- working through and healing my inner wounds, I've found myself. I found a new version in myself. My life had changed; I live a life that is narcissist-free. I have such a strong sense of who I am a firm foundation built on clarity, freedom, clear boundary function and love. This course has changed my life. That's it- My Life. I cannot thank Melanie enough for the work of NARP.

I did not find Melanie, Melanie found me! Her message is so clear, vibrant and persistent that it speaks to the very core, where all the work is being done. Thank you for doing what you do, for helping even those of us who considered themselves eradicated beyond repair by systematic, lifelong narcissistic abuse. I have seen others attempt to address this issue and all that it entails but none have matched Melanie's knowledge or her down to earth approach. She has a gift of speaking and bringing it all across just so. I have no doubt that Melanie's message has saved my life, my sanity, and my future generations. THANK YOU FOR SO GENEROUSLY GIVING OF YOURSELF!

Melanie speaks with incredible elegance and truth on the subject of recovery and abuse in a relationship in a way that few can. Whatever your belief's about healing modalities the information she presents alone has been for me vital in taking my recovery to a place where i can actually see a way to a life without repeating the Narsistic abuse patterns set up for me in childhood. These have been lifelong issues that have crippled me and continually brought me to my knees. Melanie speaks to my healing like a breath of fresh air and since finding her work I have already stopped obsessive thinking and been able to shift out of my head, trying to fix trauma intellectually which the conventional therapeutic models i have engaged in keep me doing. I am very grateful to have found the NARP program and really feel a lot of hope for my future and see a path finally to the kind of wholeness and love in my self and life I have always need. THANK YOU MELANIE.

I could not understand what was happening, why I couldn't just overcome everything and bounce back just like nothing happened. Or even why it was happening and how come I couldn't stop it. I felt so isolated and worthless, about to be discarded at any second and for no reason at all?! Melanie's YouTube videos started to change all of that for me. I found out what behaviour a NARC uses to gain their supply and that it's meant to make me feel bad. To my surprise I found out that my focus had to shift to self-partnering rather than trying to fix whatever I thought was causing the problem for the NARC. After Melanie's webinar I now know that there's life! No wonder Melanie calls it "Thriving"!

Melanie's programme turned my whole life around from a lifetime of Narcissist abuse, words will never be able to express my gratitude. Melanie was, and is my mentor, my teacher and my inspiration, she showed me how to change my whole perspective on life, how to heal all of the devastating inner pain from my own Narcisstic upbringing, and 24 year relationship with a Narcissist/Sociopath. Last year I really did not think I would live or survive for my five children, this year not only have I survived but I thrive on living and embrace life, I have found real inner joy, peace and connection with myself and my world. I no longer live with fear. I look forward to each new day and live in the spontenaeity of life without anxiety. I was given the gift of ending this horrendous cycle of abuse for myself and my children, and I now live Narcissist free! Melanie I love you so much! THANK YOU

I first encountered Melanie's YouTube videos & instantly felt a connection to her common-sensical approach to thriving after being narcissisticly abused. I was familiar with working with energy but her self partnering techniques & upleveling excercises allowed me to confront past traumas I had buried deep inside me all the time not realizing I had been acting them out within relationships all my life. I thank God she came to me@ exactly the time I needed her most. Because of her techniques I have been able to grow exponentially in just 1 month! My family & friends even noticed the difference in me & have been asking what my secret is. I'll tell you like I tell them "you just have to do the work!" Thank you Melanie! I am now about to go further & continue with her the NARP Program, if this is what has happened to me in one month I can't wait to see what will happen in 6 months.

I was recently introduced to the work of Melanie Tonia Evans by an energy healer during an appointment. When I told her that for my entire lifetime I have been attracted to takers and users, yet I didn't readily cut them loose, she listened. I have often said that something in cold, cruel people who are takers and users feeds on me, that I attract them like fresh blood in the ocean water attracts sharks. So for my lifetime, I have worked and supported many takers, all of whom drained my time, energy, and money, while leaving me feeling alone, hurt, and depleted. None of the takers and users seemed grateful or appreciative, but, rather, entitled to take from and use me and my assets. I had already decided there was something about ME that attracted takers and users, but I didn't understand what, or why I kept them in my life. So when the energy healer told me about Melanie's work, strongly encouraged me to look into it, and then forcefully reminded me again at the end of our session, I wasted no time finding Melanie's website on the Internet. Listening to her presentations, and reading her materials have already changed my life. Finally, I feel understood. I have just started what will be a fall and winter of intense study of Melanie's work, and yet I've already been mightily impacted. I trust that because of Melanie's program, my last years will be the best years of my life! I thank God I was directed to Melanie and her work!

I like the narp program and I like Melanie and her knowledge. She is great.
But beware her forum because although there are some wonderful moderators there, there are also some narcs there (it is common to have hidden narcs like sharks where you have wounded codependents, no surprise there!)... I was gaslighted and attacked by various people, and I discussed this with others who agreed that one of the ladies who runs her forum is actually a psychopath, so be careful of the forum but enjoy the program :)

A really small number of people know what is the nightmarish reality of narcissistic abuse. Those innocents who find themselves in the midst of it usually cannot ask for help their relatives and friends. Time and again the inhumanely abused find what is really happening in their lives by accident... They do not know what to do, whom to apply to, or where to get help. They start trying to solve the riddle by ordinary human means and common sense -- and they can not. They make all the possible mistakes, only to discover themselves even more entangled into the vicious circle of abuse. I have been there -- done that. I have made, perhaps, 80% of traditional mistakes. I have studied tons of articles, watched and made notes of hours of videos. And for me personally Melanie's videos, articles and approach very much stood out of the whole crowd of helpers. I sincerely appreciate her work and help, and I hope that everyone else in dire need will turn to her, because she offers unique perspective and very effective tools for not only solving the problem(s) once an for all, but for going much further -- to the life one really deserves and wishes for oneself!