MelanieToniaEvansReviews 691

Dear all,
I would like to write a review based on my experiences of Melanie Tonia Evan's website and all the information she shares for people looking to heal after abuse. I experienced abuse and neglect through my childhood, then due to my boundaries being violated and my damaged self worth and belief system, I continued this pattern and ended up in an abusive marriage for 17 years experiencing physical, psychological, emotional, financial and sexual abuse. I am now a single mother of 42 with 2 beautiful children. I have Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and for the past 3 years have been struggling to come to terms and process what has happened to me as well as manage the ongoing severe symptoms of the Complex PTSD and difficult family and financial circumstances. I have found that the emotional pain has been so overwhelming, and the constant re-traumatising and re-triggering of the original childhood wounds has been so intense that I have kept looking for anything to distract me from feeling and healing this original pain. When I came across Melanie's work, for the first time I felt a sense of being understood for the enormity of what I am living with and facing every day. I felt not only validated, which in itself came as an enormous relief, but Melanie has offered specific explanations and guidelines as to what must be done in order to heal. I have found that her work makes great sense to me: until I heal my original childhood trauma, I will continue with the damaged and distorted belief system I currently have and will continue to attract situations and people who mirror back to me what is lacking in myself. I fully recommend Melanie's work to anyone who has experienced trauma in childhood and particularly if you have experienced being in an abusive relationship. I truly have not found her insight and in depth understanding of the enormity of dealing with this kind of trauma, anywhere else.
Wishing you all the best, with best wishes, Penelope Lawrie

I've just barely scratched the surface with Melanie's program, but every single word she speaks grabs me and I believe this might be the only real way to learn to deal with what happened to me due to my abuser.

This program is like nothing else I have encountered. And I am an energy healer myself so I know something of the type and still yet I haven't found anything like this. From the very first interaction I had with the program, a peace came over me and I instinctually knew this is exactly what I need to complete my healing. In the past I had tried all the traditional and also non-traditional routes I could find. I also tried religious, then spiritual, then anything else and nothing - NOTHING -has affected me so much as this has. It is the way to finally healing and moving on with your life. All the places where we are stuck, will be unstuck but even more, cleaned up the sticky residue left behind as well. I highly recommend this program, open your mind to a new way of healing and do it for you, you deserve it...

4 years of intense trauma, hurt, begging, medicating and studying literally everything I could find on the internet about Narc Abuse. But without getting any relief... NONE!

My life recently got to the stage where death was the only why to break free from this "cancer" earing at my soul... sucking the life out of me day by day.

And then Melanie came across my path. I haven't even started with the program yet and my simple following he blog posts and info she shares so freely and lovingly, I find myself having hope again. Seeing light at the end of a very dark, deep, black tunnel. Her Free Webinar session was my break through moment. I now know that I can face life not only as an abuse survivor daily haunted by the thoughts of the Narc and the why's, how's and what if's... but KNOWING I can have a wonderfull and fulfilling life as a Thriver!

I now know how to up-level, self partner and unconditionally love my inner child to the point of become whole and my True Self

Melanie, I will be forever greatfull and indebted to you for what you have done for me. You saved my life!

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

Love
Chrisna

This program is unlike any I've ever encountered before in that it not only helps to encourage recovery on a soul level, but it encourages it's Participants to thrive!

I've been following Melanie for quite some time now. Her work is not only relatable, but I learn something new every day!

My soul resonates with her work and I've known all along that staying in that victim way of thinking when trying to recover will not only keep me from thriving but in any case, who wants to be upset and having a pity party all the time?

I'm forever grateful to her for helping to show that there's a better way to do things then the way that I have been doing them. And not only can I recover but Thrive from this as well.

After 13 years of abuse and suffering extreme losses, my anger and rage was becoming uncontrollable. Emotional hurt is far worse than physical pain and healing requires letting go. Melanie is highly supportive and directs the healing where it needs to happen. I am extremely grateful for all she has taught me and encourage anyone suffering from this abuse to free yourself from it by learning these techniques. My journey is not over and my children and I continue to be abused, but I will use the techniques to teach my children the freedom they too need so that this will not affect the next generation too. Thank you Melanie.

Mel's advice and techniques are whats needed in the area of personality disorders. Other venues focus on education and healing cognitively. Mel reaches down to our cellular hurt and resolves. When we are putting out energy while no contact, we may as well be talking to the subhumans we are trying to rid our souls of. Mels upshifts are the key to true no contact.
To true freedom from the pain of the emotional vampirism.
To life!

After coming across the Melanie's Thriver introductory webinar that was offered for free, I was truly surprised and impressed, by; a) how she was able to filter through the non-sense of classical DSM style diagnosis and bring this into a real inter-personal/spiritual awareness to better comprehend how much victimization can cause you to create so much self doubt within your own world -it really validated and created clarity as to who is really responsible and how to take your power back; b) her insights and further her ability to allow and create a feeling of safety, even though it was non-interactive directly to her, she brought about my own willingness to dig deeper and look where I had not looked before to cause a real shift in my perception and overall sense of well-being! I am so grateful for her work as she shared from the first-person perspective which then allowed me to connect with her energy and inspiration as to how to get on the path of recovery. I so look forward to the next step in Melanies process to achieve a greater sense of well-being, and to shut down those who have to abuse. Melanie really brought about clarity in which I had never been able to find with other therapists! Melanie is a real inspiration and I wish whole-heartedly for anyone going through the abuse of a narcissist to tap into her incredible and simple processes. With gratitude and love, I am now recovering after 26 years of abuse, thank you Melanie. Hugs :). g-j.

I have researched many ways to recover from narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma and found a lot of relief in Melanie Tonia Evans' work. Her approach is about healing yourself in the present moment to be able to let go of those negative charges and energetic contractions in your body, that keep reminding you of past trauma and ultimately keep you stuck in feeling a victim.
Ultimately you see how powerful a being you are and that it all lies in your hands, your approach, your perspective. Contemplating the wrongdoings I had to face in life only ever made me feel more miserable, so for those who truly had enough suffering and are looking for freedom, I highly recommend the quantum approach. It changes your perspective and insightfulness on life.

I have gained so much healing from Melanie! She helped me realize the root of my problems- the trauma I experienced as an infant- which has caused all my problems. I've been to at least 20 therapists and gained no relief. She helped me gain healing at the subconscious level- which I believe is the only way I could be healed. I am so thankful I found Melanie and would definitely recommend her compassionate services to anyone suffering from unhealthy relationships., trauma, or low self- esteem.

In life there are moments that we feel under the level of the sea. We have been abused, lied, dead threatened, robbed, our youth best years stolen, even custody lost, home, career and most important our SELF shattered.

I cannot do myself all the work - from my childhood to adulthood I missed the work tools - seting boundaries, self-esteem, loving one SELF that my parents didn t have for their own so was impossible to teach me these.

I found Melania Tonia Evans first of all HUMAN, generous, kind, eager to help me rescuing me from " under the sea" right now.

Reading here ideas, understanding her experience her QUANTA TOOLS saved my life and it can save yours FOR SURE. Its not doubt about this, take the program and you will be saved - the present and the future.

Not only after being disappointed or abused or just unhappy but building your SELF and raising to attract happy things in your life happy experiences and good people by LETTING GO toxic people, events, relationships/ dramas/ thoughts.

Embrace your light heal and go higher the potential and the KEY OF TRUTH HAPPINESS IS IN YOU.

This program sved many people and will save even more JUST BE OPEN and PREPARED to receive and change your perspective.

My best thoughts to YOU all

Ecaterina from Montreal

I've been reading Melanie Tonia Evans blog for several years now (2011) and watching her Thriver videos for the last year. I've read so much in so many places and nobody knows the NPD abuse experience and HEALING better than Melanie. I'm grateful that she has dedicated so much of her life to help others who have also had these experiences with the narcissistic personality disordered; Of all of my therapy and study concerning my experiences with NPD "people" - and all of the attendant destruction they create - nobody has done more to help me heal from my wounds. THANK YOU Melanie!

My life completely turned upside down 3 months ago. The man I thought was the love of my life, dropped his mask and left me completely devastated, broken, financially ruined, unable to eat/sleep/function. I had no idea what was going on and how my perfect match was now my worst nightmare. I grew up with narcissistic parents, which I had been in cognitive therapy for, for about the last 5 years. Although I knew I was still hurting from my childhood, I thought I had worked through my pain enough to live a healthy life. I had minimal contact with my parents and chalked it up to them just being "crazy" and as long as I kept my distance I'd be okay. Once the ex dropped his mask, I started seeing how manipulative he was. I had no idea I was in an abusive relationship. Long story short after extensive research, I realized that I needed to work on myself on a deeper level to avoid repeating my childhood traumas over & over. I had no clue how to accomplish this on my own. As soon as I came across MTE, everything I ever felt in my life was validated; I wasn't "crazy, dramatic, or over-sensitive" as my abusers labeled me. Just through reading the blog articles and watching Melanie's videos I realized how much danger I was in if I stayed in the relationship. I ended my relationship immediately and went no contact. The daily newsletters Melanie sends by email are always spot on to what I am dealing with in the moment and give me such courage to continue in on my journey. I love that MTE keeps the focus on us and not on the narcissist. I think the biggest shift for me is turning from a victim just merely surviving to a thriver; in cognitive therapy I just repeatedly played my traumas and felt stuck. I believe that I will live a fulfilling healthy life once I heal from my traumas. Who would've thought on a Saturday night I'd be excited to be at home doing healings with myself... I'm worth it! As she always says at the end of her videos, "keep thriving because there's nothing else to do."

Thank you Melanie for your wonderfully healing videos. I can't even imagine where I would be right now without them. I've gone through, and still going through such a horrendous roller coaster of suffering unlike anything I've ever experienced in my life. Your videos have helped me through many stages of identifying that I was in fact dealing with a person with full blown narcissistic personality disorder. The videos also helped me by validating my experience. They showed me that I wasn't crazy and definitely wasn't alone in this seemingly scripted pathological nightmare. I've been suffering with the worst PTSD, waking up in the middle of the night and early in the morning with terror in my heart and such adrenal fatigue that I often feel like shattered glass coursing through my veins. Some mornings when this is particularly bad, I plug my headphones into the phone and listen to one of your inspirational videos... The soothing words and holding container of the video provides a relief that allows me to sometimes drift back to sleep for just a little longer. It may seem like a small thing in that moment, but I promise you that that relief feels enormous. I'm so grateful for your work and to my friend who sent me that initial first video. If she had never sent me that video, I'm sure I would have fallen into this trap again. This is the first time in my life I can now see it. The pattern. I have so much gratitude and appreciation for your work. It has been saving my life day by day by day. I'm ready to find out what the "Thriver" program is. I don't want to feel this suffering anymore. It's just so brutal.