After suffering narcissistic abuse my entire life, and most recently violent narcissistic abuse, I had lost hope and faith that anything could be done to help me recover and I felt sure that I would be stuck forever in misery and pain. Then I found Melanie Tonia Evans online and my hope was rekindled for the first time in years. Her Thriver TV episodes have been en pointe in regards to basically every aspect of what I've gone through... the effects, the feelings, the decisions I've made. The understandings I had worked out partly for myself were also validated... finally someone knew what it was like to go through this hell but she had actually made it out the other side. I cannot speak highly of Melanie enough, her generosity is incredible, her insights spot on and her program a beacon of light for me where none existed for years... literally there was no hope before now. I am looking forward to being another NARP Thriver and can't wait to get started.
I have been separated from my husband of 32 years for the last 9 months. He has Narcissistic personality disorder and I am an Empath. I always believed he could change, but I continued to suffer horrific verbal abuse, and finally found the courage to leave. I found Melanies website online and have read the free books and get a newsletter every day. Finally, someone who can help the abused person to recover. I read everything every morning and watch her videos on YouTube. I am already beginning to feel better, because Melanie truly understands what I went through and am still trying to recover from. Highly recommended if you are living with or are have lived with a Narcissist.
I found Melanie's website while searching for something completely different (a way to fix my nightmare of a relationship) but it turned out to be exactly what I needed. I had no idea what narcissistic abuse was before I hit my lowest point but the information she provided was very eye-opening and quite possibly saved my life. There were definitely greater forces at work in helping me out of that hole.
I devoured as much information and healing resources on her website and participated in her webinar and workshops
The world now seems brighter and more full of opportunities than it did before I even experienced the devastation of being in a relationship with a narcissist. I can not wait to continue the rest of my journey to becoming my most authentic self using Melanie's unique and amazing tools and methods.
Have you got aches and pains? Backache? Stressed out by bullying, NPD or other personality disordered people? Suffer from codependency? Badly wired empathy? Do you need hours of therapy at a reasonable rate with someone who is always there? Then this therapy is for you! I have done about 40-60 hours of this therapy, which uses module work. There are so many resources to help you along too. All as part of the programme. There is a caring and I mean caring Forum with people from all over the world who encourage and help out at any stage. It has worked as a therapy for me, even dealing with very abusive situations and family problems. Just an astoundingly powerful course of therapy - its the only one I will ever need too - never thought I could or would find such a programme and yet here it is.
My experience with Melanie is nothing short of miraculous me crying on the stairs after each and every insult or assault to God Almighty, help me! And then there was Melanie fell out of the heavens as far as Im concerned to save my sanity! After a combined 32 years of narc abuse.
Melanies work is progressive and cutting edge getting right to the core of how we truly heal. I encourage everyone to step into their own power and ability to heal the self which will in turn help heal this entire world.
Melanie's work has brought so much clarity to my life. I sat google searching one night to find help for a problem I couldn't even identify. I came upon Melanie's work and her blog and articles. I knew instantly what had been going on in my relationship for years. She quickly pinpoints the problem and gives a solution. Most narcissistic recovery programs focus on the narcissist which is very draining of our energy. Her program does the opposite. It focuses on our inner selves and healing begins there. I am so very thankful for this program and how my life has changed from Melanie's materials. If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, please do yourself a favor and take part in her program. It was my first step in learning to fly again. Thank you, Melanie. I am forever appreciative for your wonderful help.
It took me a few years to put a name on the disorder that my ex and father of my kids was suffering from. And it took me another few to consider that I needed healing myself. This is the right place for me to stop mellowing in the symptoms of his disorder and rather focus on the cure for me.
Thanks to Melanie's program I have the skills to keep healing my wounds throughout my life. I am so grateful to have found this! My life has been forever changed for the better. I can now view life from a foundation of wholeness and I see life as an adventure instead of a trap. Thank you so much for this opportunity!
I trawled the internet trying to find a program for my friend to manage recover from domestic abuse. As we say in my country he was 'in bits'. His level of pain was not obvious to those who love him but inside he was and still is falling apart. His abuser was trying to control his medical treatment and physically assaulted him twice. His narcissist went through the whole spectrum of abuse except sexual abuse. I am mentioning this topic to describe the horror my friend went through. He did not want to risk talking to a therapist as they are not regulated in Ireland. So we found this and I could not recommend it more. The program helps to manage the emotional wounds a victim will have, the abuse that leaves no evidence but is deadly. I could not recommend this program more.
I have just signed up for the gold program!
For the first time in years I am hopeful and eager to take this huge step in healing work.
I must say, I am very grateful for the incredible work Melanie is doing. Her knowledge of narcisstic abuse is purely astounding and she is articulate and easy to listen to... and to follow.
Despairingly, I happened upon her website about a year ago and have received so much comfort and such crucial information in her emails alone. I am not computer savvy, at all, and have received prompt, courteous help with all of my inquiries. Thank you Claire!
Melanie has been there. She definitely knows her stuff and I believe she can and will guide me to a better place!
We owe it to ourselves to follow her lead and get past the horrors NA creates.
I think Melanie and her team's recovery program is the best thing I could've found to heal on a 100% level from Narc. Abuse which is very difficult just to explain and she does it excellenty. I believe this can help anyone on the same or similar situations and make their lives better.
Thank you so much!
I have tried many things over the years, in order to break free from the patterns of abuse from Narcissists. Melanie really breaks down how the abuse affects a person physically and emotionally, and rather than using the old "re-hash your trauma" teachings, she gives solutions! I am so excited to be a part of NARP... I'm starting to see a silver lining where there were only black clouds.
I was raised by narcissistic parents and as a result my friend circle and intimate relationships have also been with these types. I thought I was a narcissist magnet.
Then I found Melanie! Beautiful, kind Melanie
I started reading her blog, watching her videos then moving on to her NARP course.
The support Melanie and her team (family) give you is priceless. It's a no nonsense, practical approach. They won't let you wallow in sadness and despair. Instead they pull you out of the black hole and into the light with knowledge and tools that will empower you forever.
Melanie's programs give fresh insight and hope to the hopeless. Just when I wanted to throw my arms in the air and say " I give up, nobody understands what my life is like". I googled "narcissism" and up popped Melanie Tonia Evans name. I was amazed at how her program works and that she knows how a narcissist operates and what torment and pain that they inflict on others. I would greatly encourage anybody to do the NARP program. You will not be sorry. Melanie's program is like a gift sent to help us in our desperate time of need. Thank you Melanie.
Only someone who has been through a narcissistic relationship can understand what it's like and Melanie knows exactly. She explains everything so well, and does sooooo much to help people, for free. Just look at all her youtube videos, they have helped me so much before finding her webinar. You don't have to spend any money at all to be helped by Melanie. I think she is amazing.
I was so hurt and confused by what was happening in my life. A relative sent me a link to Melanie's website and I took advantage of her free webinar. Initially I did not believe this could help me but I was so wrong. The information she shares has changed my life already and there is still more for me to use.The info has changed my way of thinking and relating and cannot thank her enough.
Melanies work changed my life and my world view beyond recognition. I'm really glad I found out about her and am now more consciously creating my reality from the inside out.
True healing and thriving IS possible.
I have had help from talking therapies off and on for quite a while after an abusive relationship history. But something was missing and it wasn't making much difference to me. Then purely by chance I came across some stuff about a "narcissist" on the Internet. It started to click. Then I found Melanie's you tube videos about "narcissistic abuse" and felt like I had come home. It all made sense! And believe me the relief was enormous. Melanie knows her stuff. She talked in a way I could understand. I'm no longer alone in my healing journey... and there is hope! The pain, the suffering... she understands it all. But in this programme... the light is turned off them and onto you. And I am so sick and tired of trying to figure out my ex partner... that putting the focus back onto me is going to be so liberating! Thank you for all the work you do to help others Melanie. Including me. X
Up until finding Melanie's website, I had been working traditional talk therapy and involved with narcissistic support groups, but was not finding true relief. I tried Melanies modules and WOW. Very powerful stuff! It was great to FEEL a release during the sessions. These modules are unlike anything Ive ever tried. The beauty of it is that its not just healing my post abuse traumas, but they are also clearing up my childhood traumas. I am looking forward to this journey of healing and spiritual growth. This is truly a effective approach to healing after narcissistic abuse, while also ensuring all our past traumas are released, thus ensuring we never attach to another narc again!
Answer: Hi Ed, all painful relationships with self, others and life can be traced back to the origins of trauma trapped in our bodies that can be tracked through to and released with the NARP Program. The only criteria necessary is that the person in question fully realises that they have inner trauma that can be attended to and is willing to do the work within NARP to achieve that. I hope that answers your question. Mel x
Answer: Hello Mary, the modules are a recorded healing session with Melanie that you listen to. They are designed to help you connect with your body, experience your emotions productively so that you can release them and through this, help to connect with your wound and vulnerabilities so that you can heal them and will not be so susceptible to manipulative personalities. It's very easy and it doesn't require that you believe in past lives. You don't have to have a particular set of beleifs to use NARP. It's very flexible.
Answer: Hi Cecilia, it is 3 hours. Also, know that you can download the recording and watch it in chunks if necessary. I hope this helps. Mel x
Answer: Hi Natalie, I am not quite sure what your question is? Can you please email support@melanietoniaevans.com and one of my lovely staff can answer your questions for you. Cheers Melanie x
Answer: You may be able to identify core beliefs and where you feel these in your body.
Answer: I don't know if this answer will help you. But here goes. The Soul is a person. The Spirit is the communication to God through his son Jesus christ, so when we send our thoughts, feelings in Prayer it goes to the highest power God. We are born in his image, ( in other words a part of him) so we have the power in us to change by a thought (Quantum physics) and believeing it will be so, taking opportunity's that present themselves to you, thenyou will soon come to see how good thoughts can change one's life. What Mel is doing is tapping into that power. (Quantum Physics)
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