Feabie

I'll be the first to say I'm of a smaller group of people within the feederism community in that I am a feeder/fat admirer and am only interested in that specific dynamic, so with that in mind my experiences with feabie have been mixed (of course) however I spent 2.5 years dating an individual I met on 'feabs, and have made countless friends locally and online who either are just cool people who don't demand nor expect sex out of the vagina they keep trying to slide "nice guy" coins into so their ufo capsule pocket $#*! will come out, or individuals that I have had casual play with. In general, people are opinionated (welcome to the internet) bigotry really doesn't go over well (have you been outside, it's 2018 and blatant infantile misogyny is so 2000-and-late) neither does demanding free nudes from identified sex workers (who founded the community, you're $#*!ing welcome plebeians) PRO TIP: Read profiles! Simply $#*!ing read the damn thing or if you just want a 60$ blow and go find a rub and tug for $#*!s sake. You dudes who have no success have no social skills or common sense, I'm sorry none of y'all had better male role models in your key developmental childhood years but you are destined to fail if your behaviour here is anywhere close to a fraction of the $#*! you pull off on girls in inboxes. I have been sent death threats from dudes angry because I have politely said "not interested thanks" but I have also received death threats for not replying at all! So if you swaddled colicky infants could get your $#*!ty diapers changed by your mothers and then when you have a better attitude towards human beings in general, I am sure that you will find someone who will at least not vomit when you speak to them because the $#*! y'all spew in this community is a huge antagonist to the radical feminists who also exist on the site. If you pick a fight with a radical feminist who believes all penis in vagina sex is rape, do you really think you're going to get laid my dudes? Pick your battles, wipe your own asses and get your brains scanned because you're all clearly neurologically deficienct to be this $#*!ing disgusting and useless at scoring chicks.

Unfortunately this site is less about feedism and more about how hard it is to be fat. Victim culture, politics, activism, mental illness. People use it as a dumping ground for their trauma, if you're on the site too long it can become depressing. Posting about actual feedism will have the cliques gatekeeping you. Basically an I hate being fat site where the bullied become the bullies.

If you're wondering what the general standard of communication on the website is. This occurs very often.

I reported a message from someone criticizing me for gaining weight. Feabie administration responded that they were not going to do anything and just to block him. So, they are just fine with having members on a fat dating site go around abusing other members for being fat. Unbelievable!

I can get enough abuse irl, I don't also need this ish on a site where I *should* feel safe.

Imagine yourself standing in a dark alley surrounded by fat mentally ill drug addicts and prostitutes. That's Feabie in a nutshell. The users are mostly sex workers and the basement dwelling dregs of society willing to pay for their services. If you thought you could use this site for social networking or dating then I hope your standards are as depressed as the users of Feabie.

The admins are the worst part! They promote all kinds of diversity EXCEPT diversity of thought. Don't you dare be straight (not interested in transgenders, others, they), centrist/conservative, egalitarian, etc and breath a word about it on there. Liberal orthodoxy is the only type of content allowed on Feabie. If you step out of line, they'll find or make up a reason to block you.

A sampling of the tomfoolery you'll encounter on this site:
"just a reminder that if you don't date trans people because they're trans then you're a transphobe"
"it's homophobic that I have to pay rent and bills"
"social justice is my sexuality"

Hier ist jeder gut aufgehoben der auf Folgendes steht:
- EXTREM arrogante sowie geldgeile BBW- und SSBBW-Models
- Diskriminierung in seiner Reinstform... V. A. Rassismus gegenüber Deutschsprachigen!
- Pay for View (Alles was Spaß macht muss bezahlt werden...)
- 99% Dumb-Talk sowie "Lifestyle-Updates" aus den langweiligen Leben von fettleibigen selbsternannten "Goddesses" und notgeilen "Dudes"
- Trump-Bashing- sowie Cor-hoe-na-Fans kommen hier voll auf ihre Kosten...
- Keine Lokalen Treffen

Wer glaubt das wär eine Dating-Seite der geht auch ins Finanzamt um Geld zu sparen

I'd been on and off feabie a multitude of times. Each and every time I always regret re-joining. If your looking for a big girl as a partner, forget it you won't find it here! The women are just as bad as the men, all talk when it comes to meeting in person there is always and excuse to why they can't meet you. I did go to some of the actual events in the UK. You feel like an outcast and not to be trusted.

As other people clearly pointed out as well, everyone wants your money on there. Your having a good convo then half way through you get "you going to pay me or no?" then they block you. There was a increase of fake profiles and sex workers when I last went on there as well. 50% of the website is adverts for only fans pages.

For example there where a few women on there who had an actual application process to be able to speak to them, not even kidding! You had to apply to have a conversation most girls on there don't talk until you fork over at least $100 dollars in cold hard cash.

If like me your looking for your true love, I really don't think you'll find it here. I'd avoid as its just become way to toxic on that site!

9/10 of the females you will encounter on this site are just panhandlers or are trying to sell dirty bathroom mirror pics. Don't come expecting to be a part of a thriving community, or find a partner. Most of the posts are related to the hatred of men, or the extraction of their money. Look elsewhere. I just stay for the hilarious feminist cringe.

If you are a douche bag who treat women badly then Feabie is the place for you. Women wont chat with you if you are nice and friendly, but if you play games then those are the ones who gt the most attention. As a guy, you don't even have to be that great looking just ben an As*hol* and women will give you all the attention you want.

I've been there 4 times in the last four years, looking for romance and quitting in disgust. It's mostly brats complaining about petty things like "The sun came up today" or "Why are men such $#*!s" or similar, or it's single-digit IQ women who are looking to collect money. It's mostly a lonely, barren place, and you're likely to get more depressed about the human race in general after spending time there. The handsome, built men get all the attention and if you are fat guy (I'm not!) prepare to be ignored- you can literally send dozens of polite private messages to people you are attracted to and never get even a hello back. It's also full of men who send $#*! pics or can't hold a conversation beyond "Hi!" and "What's up?"

It is also the most PC site on the web, if you as a male make one remark that doesn't toe the line of social warriors who never leave their couch and who think the whole world should come to their point of view, you will get a string of either angry women or virtue-signaling men jumping on you.

It's a site for kids, not adults actually looking for a fat partner.

MUST TO AVOID

First of all, I found this reviewing website by accident and am so relieved that I am not the only one who had a horrible experience there as a straight male. About a third of every woman you will encounter wants money. Some of the other reviews I can confirm: Some women think it‘s self evident that you should pay money to talk to them. They think you need to pay them for anything. There are a lot of „verified creators" on the site. Even though the site looks like it‘s for dating and social networking, the women who sell amateur nudes and Onlyfans subscriptions make a big chunk of the people. And it kind of ruins the dating. There are so many toxic liberals on there who talk men down like there are some worthless annoying insects. Men can get banned for virtually anything, and I will attach a photo of a profile who hated on men heavily and hasn‘t been banned. In a nutshell, many women want money for anything and value men like nothing.

The dating part: I wouldn‘t say I‘m ugly, I had an authentic profile with my face which I later took down because one woman starting to creep me out and I wanted to protect my identity. You do message women on there and there are indeed nice ones to talk to. But I have never had a really good experience with someone from there in real life from there, most women sent maybe some messages and then it died. Don‘t ever think about meeting someone local, if you‘re not from the US. As a German, it‘s super hard to find someone and if you do and message them, there‘s about a 1/10 chance you will get a reply.

About the site itself: There is a limit on how many pictures you can view and how many messages you can send. However, you can search for people if you go via browser for a limit which is nice to find people. There is a photo limit for the newsfeed as well. It's kinda like facebook, but with much more depressed and misandrist people. If you see someone on the newsfeed a lot, they are very likely trying to get attention to sell you something. Also complaining about men and politics or society is a must for the hardcore Feabie user.

About my ban: I said a few things about women, mainly about how erratic it is that you would complain about sexual messages if you put out porn. Imagine you get sent porn. Now you may likely make comment on that porn, maybe a more sexual one. When I said that, some "content creator" reported me and I got banned.

I only spent maybe about 1 week actively on site before I was attacked by one of those nasty, seemingly man-hating women. Instead of backing down (I don't do that very often). I took her on and before I knew it she and a swarm of other harpies plus one sad little white knight were on me like flies on (you know). Then after insulting the hell out of you, they have the nerve to say things like "why are you getting so upset about being insulted by some person on the internet, who you don't even know?" The level of double standard is typical of 3rd wave feminists, and as a couple earlier reviews said, heaven help you if you are a white 'cis' male and you do not cowtow to the women. You will branded a creeper in due time. And yeah it is really disgusting how many of these women conduct themselves as quasi-prostitutes. Many of them only want to use poor gullible fools for some easy money, and then complain how they can't get a decent guy. Pathological environment for sure which is best avoided.

I will never come back to this $#*! page... You are not allowed to say what you think escpecially about Corona-Fake-Pandemic or something lese

Stay away! They all have bad attitudes. The two oldest in my area are rude and obnoxious to the point to be laughable, (and I did). The women can have very little profile, but be prepared to give every description of your life. There also women there that will ask you to send money for food, (they really don't want to see you).

If you are someone that is vulnerable to negativity AVOID. The webpage is full of negativity, self craving needy members craving attention. Even if you have a profile, people don't take the time to read it. Skinny men who think they're entitled to message you and get butt hurt and spam your content.

No one really cares about what you want, sex workers, don't get me started. Content creators will turn against you quickly and expect to actually pay strangers money. But the only problem is men fall for their tricks and than proceed to moan about it.

If you have no problems with staff it's okay site for a short time but if you have problems with the staff. Your in for a treat.

I was told bout this app couple of days ago. Never heard of it. I got my account set up and started talking to a woman. We clicked. Well, while I was on, I got signed out. I tried to sign in and it wouldn't let me. So I contacted support and they told me that as I am aware, I am permanently banned from this site for breaking community guidelines. I have NEVER heard of this site in my whole life until I was told about it (couple days ago). I have had the same email and phone number for past 20 years. I had 2 pictures on my profile fully clothed and nothing bad that would offend people. AGAIN, I have never heard of this site. They need to get their act together. I would never recommend this site to anybody! It's trash.

No literally. This isn't arrogant post about my looks. I was literally banned for being too pretty and too slim. Or a "smol fat" All it took was for one girl to accuse me of having two profiles and being a catfish with zero evidence. They asked me to verify it was me and I refused simply because as a content creator you are supposed to verify 30 days into being on Feabie. So why am I being asked to verify even though I am only a 10 day old account? Also if they can ban by IP couldn't they also check to see wether the two accounts I supposedly owned were the same IP address? Instead you ban me? When I tell you I did absolutely nothing against the rules. I said nothing sexist, homophobic, transphobic, racist etc. Didn't promote an onlyfans or any sex work. Didn't upload nudes, didn't argue or fight with anyone. Didn't even interact with anyone enough to offend anyone. I made my posts and left. Yet still found a way to be banned. Though it is flattering to know I'm pretty enough to be branded a catfish I will say that lmao. I would avoid if you're gorgeous. There are a pack of rat women there that basically are admins but not, but the admins do anything they say, again with zero evidence. If they are threatened by you, you won't last long.

The culture is toxic where p*ssy reigns supreme. Women on there have formed a clique and will attack random men for literally nothing (I got berated for uploading a picture of me and my mom who I hadn't seen for 2 years)

It doesn't matter how benign or meaningless it is, the clique of 3rd rate internet hookers will find a way to gang up on their victim and bully them into responding, once the guy responds he's made out to be the aggressor and is reported to admin.

Guess what the admin do? Do you think they thoroughly investigate the situation to see why this random man flipped? No of course they don't. They automatically side with their internet hookers and block the males (which is hilarious as thats their main customer base) the website used to be great, until a bunch of these lazy c*nts discovered only fans and then thought they was something special.

The website is filled with a narcisstic clique of women who hate men but beg them for money because they're too fat and lazy to actually work for their money, they're bitter lonely fat f*cks with a narcisstic complex.

The site:
- Positive: The site and app has very good interface
- Negative: No dark mode for desktop users, app crash frequently (but does recover fast) Very, very limited usage before the premium options gets thrown in your face.

Community:
- Postive: The community is alive. In general there is no racism or bigotry in the public space.

- Negative: Like any community that gets big, it's a pretty toxic site to be in. Sure there are some good people in there, but the majority of people you're going to see interact on this site are people desperate for attention, people begging for food and money, hivemind that doesn't tolerate a difference of opinion, desperate perverts (mostly towards women), sexism (mostly towards men), self-absorbed narcists that live in a fantasy world.

Feabie is a literal cesspool of money hungry, work adverse, radical virtue signalers who prey on the lonely and disenfranchised. The women claim to be strong, proud, and confident but all too often they're meek, insecure, virtue signaling bullies. The men, for a large part, are the same. Cliques galore and morally, and ethically bankrupt. The admins are useless and are also a huge part of the problem with the site. They allow misandry to be propagated to a horrifying degree, going as far as not penalizing members for wishing death on all men. But will penalize anyone for propogating misogyny in the slightest. The premium feature is a joke, much like 99.9% of the members.
This site is garbage, stay very far away.
By the way, as a woman, I never once felt safe on that site. Not safe from the other women or the men. Just stay away.

A lot of creeps on there full of talk! I met one paranoid one that tried to lure me into gaining 100 lbs. one that was very accepting and understanding, he literally sent me $ without demands. Just wanted to help.

Prepare for being bashed for everything, especially if you're male, Caucasian and straight. I get the impression that some people are on Feabie only to show how much contempt for the rest of the world they have. The only positive content, if one can call it thus, is constant asking for money and pictures of cats. And corny tv shows. Not my cup of tea.

They accused me of being fake and banned me for 7 days and told me to prove myself I sent them a picture within 15 minutes of the message the next day they tell me it's not accepted. I sent 4 photos today. To receive a message telling me unfortunately I'm banned. Horrible customer service and company was on the site for 2 days... SHM