I'd been on and off feabie a multitude of times. Each and every time I always regret re-joining. If your looking for a big girl as a partner, forget it you won't find it here! The women are just as bad as the men, all talk when it comes to meeting in person there is always and excuse to why they can't meet you. I did go to some of the actual events in the UK. You feel like an outcast and not to be trusted.
As other people clearly pointed out as well, everyone wants your money on there. Your having a good convo then half way through you get "you going to pay me or no?" then they block you. There was a increase of fake profiles and sex workers when I last went on there as well. 50% of the website is adverts for only fans pages.
For example there where a few women on there who had an actual application process to be able to speak to them, not even kidding! You had to apply to have a conversation most girls on there don't talk until you fork over at least $100 dollars in cold hard cash.
If like me your looking for your true love, I really don't think you'll find it here. I'd avoid as its just become way to toxic on that site!