eHarmonyReviews 1,177

I turned off auto renew and it renewed anyway. I saw the charge on my account the morning after it posted. I called them and they filed a request for refund which was denied because I was outside the 3 day window. I don't see how I was outside the window when I called the morning after the payment processed. The were extremely rude and informed me the case was closed and they would not discuss it further. On top of that, the website was useless to me for the whole six months which is why I didn't want to renew to begin with!
STAY AWAY!

EHarmony works completely different than other dating sites because it uses science and compability testing. Sounds complicated, huh? Yeah, this site is really not as laid-back as Mingle2day or Tinder and if you just wanna chat with someone for fun it may not be the best solution for ya. But it is one of the most famous online dating sites. I have used it in 2014 with huge success cuz I've met my girlfriend on eHarmony. We broke up a few weeks ago and for now I am more like I wanna date a little, but nothin too serious, so I use Mingle2day and Tinder once in a while. But I may come back because: yep, it works.

Ever since I started working, it has gotten really difficult to meet people I like. I was on a date with a few of my friends' friends or someone I met at bars/clubs but nothing really worked for me. I have a coworker who got married with a girl that he met on eHarmony.com and told me it was a good way to filter out the people based on your interest. You get the match based on the information you feel out and you can search a specific person you want. I think it is really cool.

Just like any other dating sites, it has been hit or miss. I did meet some interesting men who were not really who they were as the way they described themselves on the site. However, I did also meet some wonderful people and I finally found 1 person that makes me laugh and happy. I know it is hard to find someone and it can open the opportunity.

I paid for a membership last Thursday and immediately regret it. I emailed them and they replied. Letting me know how I could work my way in the system and find a match. They asked me to wait at least 24 hours for results and so I did. 24 hours later, NOTHING. The system didn't work and I was unsatisfied. They said if I wanted to cancel, they will help with the refund. I cancelled in the hopes that I would not get billed. They did reply me? NOPE. I emailed over and over and over again. THEY DIDN'T REPLY AT ALL. They give you this illusion of trust in the beginning and then POOF they disappear. Now I'm trying hard to get my money back and I hope it'll work. I cannot imagine others who have paid so much more to lose their money in their search for love. This is such a shame. Neil Warren should be ashamed to call himself a Christian. He is not a true Christian as he is tricking people. NEVER EVER TRY EHARMONY. Save your money, save yourselves!

After painstakingly answering all the initial questions and, i now realise, foolishly paying for a 6 month subscription, my 'matches' arrived.Not one single one nearer than a two hour drive away, 90% of them looking like they qualify for care in the community, and the remainder fake profiles or scammers. There is no way of telling when these people were last online and i strongly suspect that many of them havent been online in a number of years! Im not an unattractive woman, just i work long hours in a female dominated environment so thought that joining a so called reputable dating site would be the way to meet men i would be attracted to! How i wish id read the reviews beforehand. I wouldnt recommend this site to anyone!

My mother wanted to try out the site for free, and when she tried to create her account. The site ask you so many questions, and she was just being honest! By the time she wanted to submit her profile, she couldn't 'cause it said her standards was too high, lol. Hmmmz, so people should settle for less right? I guess to be successful to even get past the questions, you'll have to down your standards. I'm pretty sure most are lying about themselves anyway, if you gotta pay for no results! You might as well try a free dating site, at least you can settle for your worth, and not for less of that! But I'm glad her profile didn't go through, because the site is full of crap anyway. It's other ways to mingle and this isn't one of them!

Very horribly made the mistake of giving Eharmony another shot. Had some luck with 'bumble', but friends encouraged me to try a site with payment to hopefully have some additional luck. Most of my matches look like they would put me in a well in their basement and skin me. Not to mention they match me with people in different friggin states. Seriously?! And to boot - the website and app are terribly unfriendly for users. Do not make the expensive mistake I have just made. They of course are being $#*!ty and won't let me cancel my membership early... I honestly might still just delete it and pay so as to not become more irritated with it.

Maybe I live in the wrong area of the country but the matches I am given live hours away and I am finding a lot of attitude and judgement. Ask a question and I answer only to be told "oh, that must mean not interested"... what? I answered the question and suggested another of my own. Very boring and tedious and not many matches at all. BTW, I am a professional and financially secure and reasonably attractive... so what's up with this? Maybe Match is the more popular site.

E-Harmony touts that they are the premium dating site. I signed up for a year and paid over $150. They take the funds out of your pay pal account the first 3 months in a row. I tried it for 2 months. A lot of fake profiles. So I tried to cancel before the third payment. They said that they could not refund the $94 that I had paid. I refused to pay another payment of $47.80 for poor quality of service; they did not use my search preferences in matching me. So I have to date paid for 242 days of service. They denied me access on Mother's Day. So I received 85 days of service. I paid for 2/3rds of a year and got 85 days. Go figure. On top of that Pay Pal did not go to bat for me. So much for Pay Pal.