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eHarmony Reviews Summary

The overall reputation of the company is significantly marred by customer dissatisfaction, primarily due to perceived deceptive practices regarding refunds and subscription management. Many users express frustration over the lack of suitable matches and the prevalence of fake profiles, leading to a sense of wasted time and money. Customers frequently highlight inadequate customer service, with limited access to support and automated responses exacerbating their concerns. While a few users mention positive experiences, the overwhelming sentiment suggests a need for improved transparency, better quality control of profiles, and a more responsive customer service approach.

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Indiana
1 review
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Worst of them all
June 27, 2022

You can't even do anything for free. Lowest subscription is 6 months and way too expensive and this only gives you the ability to send messages(nothing special) You can't even cancel and will be immediately sent to a collections agency if any of your payments don't go through. Scummy website, $#*!ty experience all around, you have a better chance just dm'ing on facebook.

Date of experience: June 27, 2022
Colorado
1 review
1 helpful vote
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No one decent is interested in me. They men seem older than they are. I really would like a refund. I would tell others not to bother with eharmony. I am going back to plenty of fish or ANYTHING else.

And they won't give you your money back. I'm nice looking, but they aren't displaying me with any frequency unless I want to pay more money. $#*! them.

Date of experience: June 26, 2022
Colorado
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This Is a very dishonest, pathetic company. I couldn't find a way to cancel my subscription. So I had to cancel my debit card. Even without something to charge they kept running my bill against me. They don't let you cancel not on the site. Not a number to call nothing. Not to mention there's no women on this sorry site. None atleast where I live or 100 miles within. There fixing to get there $#*! sued if these morons keep it up. You'll never get the money you say I owe you not even when I'm dead and gone. Save yourself and don't join eharmany

Date of experience: June 24, 2022
Alabama
1 review
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SCAM
June 24, 2022

They advertise free services and then bill you for a year of services as soon as you log in. This is a scam.

Date of experience: June 24, 2022
Washington
4 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Contrary to their advertisement, Eharmony is a huge waste of time, money and emotion. They do not match according to one's wishes. What's worse, I encountered multiple catfishers on that site. Approximately ten percent of my so-called "matches" were people seeking to steal from me. Incidentally, Latin Cupid is even worse.

Date of experience: June 21, 2022
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Eharmony/scammers
June 20, 2022

I wish I could give less than 1 star but it's not possible so here goes.
This company has found a way to safely cheat good people out of our money just by using our need for love. I signed up thinking this would be a safe way to possibly find love but within a month I realized it wasn't for me and so I tried to cancel my account. Without much success I sent an email explaining the need for cancelation and that I was no longer able to pay for the plan. I was told I cannot cancel because I signed up for a year which I thought was for 6 months but they said a year. I logged out and kept paying $34.58CD per month for 11 more months. This is a useless site ran by criminals who sleep well at night on our hard earned money.

Do not sign up!

Date of experience: June 20, 2022
Virginia
1 review
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I have been on e harmony for a month now. The problem is that almost everyone is at least 100 miles from me. I'm a 66 year old attractive, athletic woman and a great catch. I had several matches but no one wants to get involved because the distance, which I understand. I have cancelled my subscription. Don't waste your time and money.

Date of experience: June 20, 2022
Washington
1 review
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Automatic payments
June 20, 2022

Had this app two years ago at some point For a long time I couldn't log in even with my personal Wi-Fi at home since I couldn't get past the loading page to delete my account even when I stayed on it for day and restarted my phone they continued to charge me and failed to address the issue of not even being able to use the services they were asking money for when emailed since they have no existing phone number for a customer service anywhere

Date of experience: June 20, 2022
Pennsylvania
1 review
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Please do not join, I cannot get those monthly charge to stop even after cancelling my account on the first week. They would not refund anything and have been charging my AMEX every month for the past 6 month, I had to cancel my CC and even then, I'm having trouble getting backed up from AMEX.
I would rather stay single with that experience,

Date of experience: June 15, 2022
Hawaii
1 review
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Don't do it!
June 15, 2022

Simply a horrible site. This dating site sends you people that do not match your profile. They do not have great customer service or I should say no customer service. I was on the site for approximately two weeks the first three days I noticed that in my small town they kept sending me people I actually knew as matches and that I would not date. I sent numerous complaints and told them I would not continue with their site I deleted my profile and did not utilize their site after a week or so. Customer service told me well you're signed up for six months so go ahead and enjoy the site. I live in a small town there is no one that I would want to date and eHarmony customer service were more like robots, no understanding and could only say "enjoy the site you have six months left". Please do not go on this site, it is a rip off. Horrible customer service and you will be charged an excessive amount of money. I refused to pay one dime more to these people. They have now sent me to a collection agency which I will contact the BBB for a resolution. Bottom line… Be wary of this company!

Date of experience: June 15, 2022
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Go ahead - try to quit. You cancel auto renewal and they set it back, charge you, and refuse any refund. Took my money and had very few matches for my age, sex, and location - and even fewer that were members with privileges to respond. Can you spell RIPOFF?

Date of experience: June 13, 2022
Arizona
1 review
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It has a lot of obese women, with no way to screen them. Weeding them out is time consuming. A lot of profiles are fake and many are with no photos. I do NOT recommend it. It's a complete waste of time money. Customer service is abysmal.

Date of experience: June 10, 2022
Connecticut
1 review
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Hi,

I'm not one to right reviews. This dating site is terrible and a lot of money. You have to sign up for six months. You cannot cancel your subscription. Please do not sign up. Match and Zoosk is so much better. Best of luck on your search!

Date of experience: June 8, 2022
GB
1 review
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Complete ripoff
June 8, 2022

I assigned to eharmony as a Premium Member, so this way was able to experience the site. As they stated if i choose the Premium Membership I could cancel my subscription within 2 weeks for no charge.
I cancelled my membership within 5 days, and yes they still charged me for £65! For completing the personality quiz, what you need to set up your profile, and it is free of charge if you are a Premium Member! I clearly asked them to cancel my subscription and also delete my account, so I wasn't planning to use it under no circumstances, not even as a basic member. I deleted my account as soon as they cancelled my subscription, but they will still take the money off me. Only sign up if you have money to waste. Unbelievable.

Date of experience: June 8, 2022
Virginia
2 reviews
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EHARMONY What a Joke for a dating service
June 6, 2022

If I could give negative stars I would absolutely give them a negative. They are sneaky with their 3 day money back guarantee. I literally used this site for 1 hr. No lie 1 hr and knew it wasn't what I was looking for. I canceled my account right away, sent an email to customer support for a refund. Well 48 hours later I received an email saying that they would not refund me. I argued with them about the 3 day refund guarantee and because I don't live in the states they chose to give the refund in, basically I'm stuck. Here is the best part. Thank God I only bought the 6 month plan which was $210 dollars. So, I asked for a refund after using the site for 1 hr. They sent an email back stating that they won't give a refund but they will add 3 months to my account. My god please tell me where that makes sense. I want to cancel my 6 month membership, but they are willing to give me 3 months free. What the hell, I feel like I'm on another planet sometimes. So I sent another email asking them how did that make any sense at all, and all they could talk about was the states that could have a refund, and telling me how I should delete the people I don't like. Seriously, I then sent them another email stating that I would let people know what happened and how this negative experience would go out to millions of people. I even said let me get this straight, you would rather get a horrible review on your company for everyone to see than refund me after using your site for one hour. You will give me 3 months FREE but you won't cancel my 6 months. Please tell me the logic. So all this being said guys I would highly recommend not to use this dating service, unless you like people with missing teeth, overweight, haven't shaved, looks as if they just rolled out of bed or worse, then by all means give them your money. They match you up with people who lie about their so called test on a compatible personality test. What a complete joke of a site. So I wrote this review to tell you what happened, so enter at your own risk. They wouldn't refund my 3 month membership, but willing to give me 3 months free. LMBO where does that make any sense what so ever.

Date of experience: June 6, 2022
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Only because I couldn't give them a 0
June 5, 2022

Watch out for the auto auto-renewal. $719 wasted dollars. Site isn't worth 17 cents. Pathetic company and employees. Jim M you suck.

Date of experience: June 5, 2022
Arizona
1 review
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What a rip off!
May 30, 2022

Signed up for their 3 month subscription. Contacted 52 women with not one response. Everything they advertise about the website is a lie! Don't waste your money. I think it's sick you take advantage of desperate people for their money.

Date of experience: May 30, 2022
South Carolina
1 review
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No Compassion!
May 27, 2022

I lost my wife and thought I was ready to date after signing up I realized within 24 hours I was not and could never replace what I'd lost. Upon trying to cancel I was told I had to fulfill my obligation, so lost my initial $131. Xx payment and now they expect me to pay the remaining installments. They have no compassion only a desire to line their pockets with your money.

Date of experience: May 27, 2022
California
1 review
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Awful - Same as Everyone Else
May 22, 2022

Same as everyone else - I signed up for the ridiculously expensive price of membership, chose the 6 month payment option, and there were ZERO people in my area within reasonable driving distance. I asked eharmony to cancel my service, and to stop charging me the remaining payments, and they refused. So I filed a complaint with the BBB, and will dispute the charges when they hit my card. Awful customer service.

Date of experience: May 22, 2022
Massachusetts
1 review
1 helpful vote
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E-Unharmony
May 21, 2022

First off I paid knowing I could cancel and get a FULL refund if I cancelled within 3 days. I called the next day to cancel and the woman(very thick accent) said NOPE! Could only cancel if you lived in certain states in America. And I did not live in one of those states! Wtf! Next I emailed customer service and I was told NOPE! I could only cancel in the first 3 days if I lived in the UK. I hate being tricked. And I hate this site. All I get is messages from men who live 19,000 miles away, when I specifically say range within 20 miles. Also, I'm matched with men who are 5'4" when I specifically say over 5'11 because I am 5'9. I hope people read this and I hope you do not waste your time or money. I have not seen one person who even lives near me that I would meet. Worst dating site out there

Date of experience: May 21, 2022

From the business

Los Angeles-based eharmony (www.eharmony.com) launched in the United States in 2000 with its patented Compatibility Matching System® which allows eharmony members to be matched with compatible persons with whom they are likely to enjoy a long-term relationship. Millions of people of all ages, ethnicities, national origins and religious and political beliefs have used eharmony's Compatibility Matching System to find compatible long-term relationships.

Customer Care Information:

Phone hours: 8am - 5pm, Monday - Saturday
Email: 24 Hours, 7 Days a Week
Refund Policy: Regarding the Singles Service, the buyer, may cancel the Agreement, without any penalty or obligation, at any time prior to midnight of the third business day following the date of the Agreement, excluding Sundays and holidays.


eharmony.com
Founded in 2000
Los Angeles, California, United States
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