BlackPeopleMeet

If you are a woman and you run across anyone named JT Mitchell or Mathew on blackpeoplemeet.com, stay away from them. JT Mitchell was a narcissistic con artist who claimed he was a DEA undercover supervisor agent. Yet when I checked his background, I discovered he gave me a phony name and birthday, and two phony addresses as no results matched my search. And his phone number was affiliated with a man who has a criminal history and run ins with the police. JT was also a womanizer and showed zero respect for women. He has a history of belittling and low-rating women and young girls in public and calling her out her name. He hated Everything about me: my appearance, the way I dressed, my personality, my glasses, the way I talked, and my hair. So he wanted me to basically change my appearance into something I am not because he didn't like how I looked. I ended all contact with him.

Then Mathew belonged to an extremist hate group so I didn't want to bother meeting him in person. He was also full of lies about stupid things so I blocked him, too. Save yourself emotional and mental turmoil and possibly personal safety compromise and delete your account on blackpeoplemeet.com and meet someone special the good old fashioned way In-Person and stay away from online dating sites. Your heart, mental health, and well-being will thank you later.

Just like everyone else I should have read the reviews first im have the same problems ITS A SCAM TO GET YOUR MONEY THE SEND FAKE FLIRTS AND MESSAGES ON YOUR BEHAVE WITHOUT YOU EVEN KNOWING IT UNTIL YOU START TO SEARCHING THE SITE FOR YOUR SELF YOUR OUT BOX INBOX, IM PISSED OFF ABOUT TO START A LAWSUIT! BE PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY SPENDING THEIR MONEY TO MEET NEW PEOPLE AND THE SITE IS TRICKING AND DECEIVING US THE ENTIRE TIME WHILE STEALING OUR MONEY!

I was on BPM for a short time several years ago and decided to give it another try. Unfortunately, I did meet a man on BPM and he turned out to be a VIOLENT Psychopath. Little did I know, turns out that he is a Convicted Felon! Served multiple years in JAIL! Of course, in the beginning he was the "perfect gentleman" until the mask came off -- A Real Con Artist! This Psychopath became VIOLENT and physically assaulted me -- OH NO! Thankfully, I got rid of this Narcissistic Psychopath, packed his belongings in a huge trash bag --- and told him to KICK ROCKS! Be gone! I have had enough of BPM and the crazy crazy men on this site. BPM is not worth the money, not one PENNY! I have learned my lesson and will avoid BPM forever! Never again...

I subcribed to this site a couple of years ago. The first turn off was a bunch of generic winks. So absolutely ridiculous. If this is a dating site, have something to say. Second turn off was getting email from same guy liking and winking@ every pic. Really!. After going on several dates it added up to be a big waste a time. Grown men, good jobs, w/no ambition, emotional baggage (worse than woman) and just wanting a booty call. Fast fowrad to present rejoined site after relocating to new area (Alabama) and OMG. Nothing changed. Winks and no dialoge. One guy got nasty cause I wouldnt give him my phone#,. End all did connect with a gentlemen, good long night conversation. After about a month Im puzzled why he was reluctant to meet. First meet was in a parking lot and he was a nervous wreck. Geez I surrender! Being single isnt as bad as this site!

Here's what people need to remember: Long gone are the days when dating online was taboo and so there were only genuine people on dating sites who were truly interested in relationships. Now that it's acceptable and common place, all of the nuts have come out to play. I met a gorgeous, seemingly nice guy on BPM and all was well until our first time alone. He went into a full blown violent rage over a a slight difference of opinion. It was so weird and frightening that I researched narcissm (based on some other traits of his) and sure enough he met the criteria to a tee. He has the personality disorder. Can't really blame BPM for that but this site seems to be a haven for them since I hear other women saying they've encountered these dangerous people as well. It seems the male reviews are centered around a woman's appearance. I wish somebody looking a little different than their pics was my only complaint. I think having your life threatened is far more serious than meeting someone with a few extra pounds. Be careful dating men on this site. I've browsed this site off and on over the years and some of the same guys are there. Gotta wonder about that. I will never date online again. It's not worth it. I'm actually taking a break period because that was so scary. Good luck and be smart.

I will be the first to admit that I can't stand this dating site, but to read some of the comments here that state this is racist site and how would people feel if they had a site called whitepeoplemeet.com, they do have a site as such. I will not name it, but they have a commercial on every channel every 30 seconds, 365 days a year so get over it. One person commented, what about white history month? Let me clue you in, every day is your day, wake up. Stop whining because they dedicated a month which by the way only has 28 days (29 days if it is leap year), to celebrate our heritage. I am so sick of people whining about race. Now about this site, run, don't walk away from BlackPeopleMeet. One of my meet and greet did not look like the picture he posted, and got mad when I questioned him about his dishonesty. One I met for dinner, conversation was good, we laughed, nice looking guy seemed cool, then here comes the question " so when was the last time I (you know). Then he proceeded to share too much information about himself, I got disgusted, offered to not only pay for my own dinner, but tip also and ended the date. I mean really?

I have subscribed to BPM twice over a two year period for six month time frames. I spent most of that time browsing the profiles of the same men over and over. I also found that most often even if I was interested in a person, they were non paid members who cannot respond to messages. For that reason I feel that BPM offers very few real opportunities to meet someone. Unpaid members are the majority of the so called daily matches they send, but what good is that if you really can't communicate with an unpaid member. Also, each time I was near the end of my subscription BPM would open my profile up to people far outside of the area I personally set in my preferences and bombarded my views with up to 50 or more views per day from men across the country. I feel that was a deceptive move to get me to reconsider not ending my subscription. I got more views in two weeks than the entire time I was on BPM. Overall, although I did meet a couple of men, there were very few real options and I would suggest a site where only paid members who can contact each other are on the site. Otherwise, it's just a picture gallery of men not really interested enough to pay but get accces to your profile for free. 2 stars only because I made one friend that I keep in touch with but he has made it clear " he is not interested in marriage", while I am searching for someone who is, we still communicate as friends. Don't waste your time on BPM if you're seriously looking for a partner...

What a site thite date site clearly favors the woman reason why
First off a woman's size is important
In reading there profile but on black people meet you won't even find it listed second most woman on this site have one head shot picture which
Means that there hiding there weight
Most likely with those two important things I suggest finding another dating site not a good site for a man..

BPM, SBPM & CBPM are all scam dating sites IMO. I have been reviewing those sites for over a year and a half and the exact same photos of men and women appear for over a year. There have been reports of outright pathological lying, threats, money stolen and lives ruined by indivividuals who lack honor, integrity and character. There are several other valid and honorable dating sites where you can speak to customer service representatives if requested, and you are not charged automatically unless you request it. No dating site is perfect, but unfortunately from the many emails that I have received, most of the men on these sites that I have just posted, are scam artists and just out for sex, and out to fleece you.

They steal your money and rewrite comments for you when you did not ask them too. Ladies be leary of all these sites because these people do not have a clue to what should be done on BPM. The men are insane and the staff will not give you your money back. This site and others like it are only going to take your money. It seems to be catered to the wacky males that are on this site. LADIES BEWARE, MEN ONLY WANT TO KNOW IF YOU HAVE A PLACE FOR THEM TO FLOP AND USE YOU AND HAVE SEX... GET AWAY FROM THIS SITE AND OTHERS LIKE IT. U R BETTER OFF MEETING SOMEONE ON THE STREET OR AT YOUR JOB!

I'm a single male who signed up for this site and have been having the same issues as other men. Most of the profiles are fake! Most start out with "I'm obsessed with eating out", or "I usually know what I want and won't stop till I get it". I paid for the site and while it was paid, I barely got any flirts, messages or likes. EACH TIME I cancelled my membership, I would get about 90+ notifications. 30 flirts! 18 messages! 25 Photo Likes! 30 people made me their favorite. When you pay to read the messages, they came from nowhere. No one replies! Then POOF! No more messages... Until you cancel again. This site is a SCAM! Today i got a photo like, a favorite, and a flirt from a woman on the site. It showed that she was available for chat. I went to chat with her, but it said that she was offline in chat. I still sent her a chat asking her if she actually sent me those messages, then she replied and said she never sent anything. Then I look again and that message was gone from my inbox. Then her profile was gone. This site is a shame!

Just meet a guy named Playboyace203

Give him my number, he rushed to text me was I ready for marriage and he would take care of my kids. This is his message: let me introduce myself I'm Aaron fromColumbus Georgia. I'm 27 and have no kids, I'm Brazilian and yes I speak Portuguese and Spanish. I been single forthree years my ex died from cancer after she died she told me to promise her something and I did as I look into her eyes (she said promise me u won't have sex oror kids till your married and I said yes I promise). So three years it been for me and I held that promise ever sense. Now I'm ready for marriage and love and ready to Seattle down. It's goes on but when I asked why was he telling me this soon and had a few more questions no response. Be ware of him, I think he's scamming.

-10 IS MY REVIEW
System would not take my debit card. Credit card only. Really! I contacted customer service got an email that I could call payment in the 1-800 number just to be told phone are down. Then I got email to mail a payment in really! Debit card is just as good as a credit card. I even try my PayPal won't take that also. DO YOU WANT MEMBER OR YOU ALL IN THE BUSINESS OF TURNING PEOPLE DOWN. People could be missing out on there mate because they use a debit card and not a credit card WOW!