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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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Germany
37 reviews
196 helpful votes
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I read a few reviews and agree with what was said. You *can* get dates and meet up with people no matter where you live. Currently, I'm in Europe and there are plenty of people. Not necessarily what I'm looking for but they're there. But it is all about money with this site. You can't respond or read a message fully unless you're a gold member. If you're a gold member you can pay an extra $10 I think for other members to contact you. When you first join as a standard member you get a lot of winks, flirts and a message which to read it or contact anyone requires you to upgrade. Once you upgrade it's about putting in the work to reach out to people. Everyone that came to you first automatically seems to not respond. At the top of the page it has a banner that tells you to extend your membership which leads you to believe it does not auto renew. This is false. It WILL auto renew. I have been charged twice after I emailed them asking to turn off auto renew. And I had to threaten to qualify it as a fraudulent charge if it happens again for them to say "your account will not auto renew". We'll see what happens but I will not use or recommend this site ever again

Date of experience: August 22, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Im a bit disappointed but I like the way the site works, super simple which rocks. But not got lucky yet. Been trying hookuphangout.com since around the same time n thats a bit better, defanately more chicks to chat too. Hope that helpz!

Date of experience: August 21, 2017
India
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Really takes some time and effort to figure out the best approach but after a few weeks I started seeing results. Hooked up with two nice chicas and chatted with a few I am about to arrange a date with. Together with CasualDating4u it is one of the best I have used so far.

Date of experience: August 18, 2017
Maine
1 review
11 helpful votes
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I had actually been a member for approximately 15 years. Here is what I learned. You dont need to pay to get a stripped down service, however once you do pay they automatically renew your membership until you figure out how to shut that feature off. AS a paid member with an extensive profile I could go a week or two without receiving a message from anyone. However Once I signed up under a second profile which had no information and no photo I was receiving multiple daily emails form people that were supposedly interest in the phantom member they knew nothing about. This is a procedure they use to grab your attention. The emails form supposed members are funneled to you as a new member to get your interest since the only way they can be fully read is for you to get a full membership. A sort of illegal bait and switch if you will. As soon as you become a member emails will be sporadic once in a while. I had a charge show up on my credit card for AFF in August for $107. Although my membership didnt expire until December of that year. I challenged it with my credit card company and as a result my profile was removed with no explanation. I sent 3 emails asking why and never received a response to date. They are essentially a large corporation that wants to separate you from your money and could care less about you as a customer which is a toxic combination.

Date of experience: August 15, 2017
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Makes My Top 3
August 7, 2017

So ive been doing the online dating thing for like six years (jeez, im totally giving my age away here y'all!) and I gotta say that AFF is consistent. It's been around since forever and even now id say it ranks just behind hookuphangout.com and maybe one other site but it makes the top 3 for me, definitely no doubt about that. When you've been around as long as those guys you have all that experience and knowledge I guess and they clearly use it. It's not perfect hell what hookup site ever works fast and regular? But if you're happy with semi regular hookups and T&A on demand (with plenty of sexting to be done in between actual sex meets) then as I say, there aint too many that can compete. It's damn addictive though, so watch out for that LOL!

Date of experience: August 7, 2017
India
1 review
5 helpful votes
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No scam!
August 2, 2017

You get out what you put in! As a man you sure need to catch attention. Been a member of AFF for three years perhaps. Had plenty of dates and hookups. IMO not a great site but a good site. If you weren't lucky I guess CasualDating4u is a good alternative. Been lucky on there too. But really, AFF is pretty good.

Date of experience: August 2, 2017
Maine
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Have not been able to get in for almost 24 hours. And this is not the first time. Half the time when i could get on, you could not see the photos or videos.

Date of experience: July 30, 2017
Washington
1 review
8 helpful votes
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What the hell do i want girls that are anything form 100 to 5000 miles away for. I have had two conversations that were girls on the other side of the world playing me that they are in London and just a simple IP address search showed them up! Fake fake fake just DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY! All I did get is a load of unwanted and unwarranted spam. I took a screen shot of the promise of a shag as they put it in three months or my money back this i will be taking them to task on.
I will be taking a trip t'o London to confront them and will be writing another review.

Date of experience: July 27, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Amazed this site is still going. I've been using hookuphangout (brill site, check it out) the last few years but noticed an ad for AFF last week so decided to go for it. Been a long time since I was on AFF, not much has changed but it's still a good hookup site no doubt, lots of women (not hard to avoid the time wasters/ cam girls, always easy to notice) and price is what you'd expect from any sex search site really (they do offers too, worth keeping an eye out). Not the best but AFFs been going so long it has to be given some respect for that (clearly it's getting some folks laid)!

Date of experience: July 24, 2017
GB
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Wrote over a hundred messages to local contacts only got 1 reply and that was someone over 3000 miles away, i suspect most profiles are fake. Dont waste your money on this site.

Date of experience: July 21, 2017
India
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Single Guy Review
July 20, 2017

I have been using a few hookup sites (adultfriendfinder, casualdating4u) for almost three months with good results. I am a single guy who is seeking couples to get laid and for that purpose those sites are absolutely ok. Beware of some fake profiles and some African scammers. Use your common sense and you will have a blast.

Date of experience: July 19, 2017
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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My girlfriend and I joined hoping to meet other couples for "fun". We chatted with a few couples but mpst of them were a little scary. We did actually meet a really nice couple for drinks. Everything seemed to be going okay. They said they would call us again soon, then nothing. Oh well.
Even through we clearly stated on our profile that we were only interested in other couples we were bombarded with messages from single males. And seriously, do these guys really think a $#*! pic as their profile picture is sexy? If I wanted to hook my girlfriend up with a guy it wouldnt be a problem but that is not what we came looking for.

Date of experience: July 18, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Not sure about this site tbh. Heard it used to be a lot better and get the feeling its not what it once was. Will stick with hookuphangout.com I think.

Date of experience: July 17, 2017
South Africa
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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Fake
July 7, 2017

Adult friend finder is part of the Dating Factory and there is EXTREMELY strong evidence most if the profiles on their sites are fake. This was my experience with two of their websites I unfortunately wasted time and money on

Date of experience: July 7, 2017
Minnesota
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Stole profile and loaded it to their affiliated sites. Including gay male finder. I had friends that found my profile on there, the exact one I used for aff, even said I had logged in that day. Never signed up for it, and had women selected for my aff preferences. This is illegal and likely one way how they set up their fake profiles on their sister sites

Date of experience: July 7, 2017
New Jersey
2 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Well of COURSE, the reviews FROM women from AFF will be like. OH i met some GREAT guys.of course they did! Hell, since THEY have the PIC Of the litter, THEY just sit back and say. OK, I; ll take THAT one over there!

Date of experience: July 1, 2017
Maryland
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I've become more and more suspicious of AFF.

Multiple times I've gotten responses to inquiries with "women"... when I bring up whether they're "real"... they'll say yes... BUT... suddenly as we converse... their English becomes very broken (supposedly local women)... or they consistently cite tech issues as an excuse... or...(my two favorites)... they'll say they've met somebody on AFF...(but when questioned as to why they keep their profile online - no response)... this happened three times... THEN... another favorite... they'll say..."oh... I've been chosen as an AFF 'ambassador'... and if you do this you'll be more successful... blah, blah..."... basically saying their profile is false...

I personally think AFF is a massive fraud... sorry... that's the truth... it's not about more men than women... again... blah, blah, blah.

Date of experience: June 26, 2017
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Aldershoot
June 24, 2017

Didn't know Aldershoot was so popular, there towns all across the country apparently from Hampshire to London called Aldershoot and that's where all the women on this site come from lol so fake

Date of experience: June 24, 2017
New York
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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I was on another site. Met a guy who told me about AFF. I signed up.

Have been on AFF for a little over a year and a half. Have nothing but praise. When AFF works, it WORKS! For the most part, I have met some truly wonderful men. Local men, business men coming through my area, couples. Overwhelmingly positive experience and exactly what I was looking for: no strings, no drama, casual sex. For this middle-aged, non-vanilla female, my inbox overflows. Every now and again there's a knuckle dragger or lunatic, but the MAJORITY of the men I've either met or chatted with have been funny, smart and kind. To the men out there, yes there are plenty of scammers, pros and fake profiles but you have to be patient, And yes, there are way more men on AFF then women. What works for me? Intelligence. If you approach me with that "wanna F***" crap, guess what, your email/message gets deleted. Do not expect a woman to f*** you that night. Use your other head, lol.

Date of experience: June 20, 2017
India
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Patience
June 20, 2017

Every guy using a hook up site should be aware of the fact that there will be more men than women. That's a fact! Wo what can you do if you want to get laid? Patience and chose your hookup site wisely. Aff can be quiet a good choice! After all it is a reputable place to pick up girls. Also CasualDating4u which is known to have loads of real female members.

I have been using both sites with good results but onyl for one reason: I was patient! I knew that you will find more male profiles on any site so I did not expect to get laid with 2-3 days. It does not work that way!

Also approach every woman with respect! Yes, they joined a hookup site but that does not mean they will hookup with the first guy who approaches them.

Date of experience: June 20, 2017