Belinda S.

Decided to sign up in January. New Year and all that. Six dates in six months. Nice men but ZERO chemistry. The site is over-run with scammers and spammers. They will contact you with the same story: they really liked your profile and photo, that you seem like a nice person, and then want you to send them your full name, cell phone number and email address. Also, way too many men with no photos in their profiles! Our Time will match you with people who haven't been on the site for MONTHS; may not even be active profiles. The photos on the portal for the site is all actors and models; these are not real people. Don't believe their slick marketing campaigns. They are there to take your money.

I was on another site. Met a guy who told me about AFF. I signed up.

Have been on AFF for a little over a year and a half. Have nothing but praise. When AFF works, it WORKS! For the most part, I have met some truly wonderful men. Local men, business men coming through my area, couples. Overwhelmingly positive experience and exactly what I was looking for: no strings, no drama, casual sex. For this middle-aged, non-vanilla female, my inbox overflows. Every now and again there's a knuckle dragger or lunatic, but the MAJORITY of the men I've either met or chatted with have been funny, smart and kind. To the men out there, yes there are plenty of scammers, pros and fake profiles but you have to be patient, And yes, there are way more men on AFF then women. What works for me? Intelligence. If you approach me with that "wanna F***" crap, guess what, your email/message gets deleted. Do not expect a woman to f*** you that night. Use your other head, lol.