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SwingLifestyle has a rating of 2.2 stars from 68 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with SwingLifestyle most frequently mention customer service and free members. SwingLifestyle ranks 45th among Hook Up sites.
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Met a couple of real people here. Many message you and then disappear or they're just playing games on this site Lot of profiles with old photos - stressful to try and meet people
SwingLifestyle only lowers people's self-esteem and drains their bank accounts. It's designed on basis of deception and offers no real profiles. Don't let them fool and frustrate you. There are lots of platforms like AFFHot.com
Where you can easily find couples to meet with. It's time-tested, highly rated and very popular because it really works. When a site works well and gives results, it attracts more and more real people. And vice versa. All genuine couples left SwingLifestyle because nothing real ever happens there regardless of how good you look and how much you tell about yourself. So what's the point of wasting time and money?
I created a free account and I posted a post. It let me! If it wasn't for free members it will tell u and give you the option to upgrade. Then they shut my account down unexpectedly. I messaged and they said it was because I made a post. It's not for free members and they haven't fixed it. Ok so how was I supposed to know. I thought it was for everyone because it allowed me to do it. They shut me down and they are at fault. They should fix their issues or messaged me and told me I couldn't anymore instead of just shutting my account down.
The site is running obsolete software (circa early 2000s) that is buggy and often crashes. Many couples have stopped using the site due to harassment from the hordes of badly behaved users that have deluged the place. Chat software no longer allows for standard punction used in grammar.
Any complaints are met by a staff member, Wayne, who advises members to leave. I am sure the owner and Bliss cruises will be most pleased that a member of their staff just cost them a user that has spent over 30K on cruises in the past few years. Owner do yourself a favor and terminate this staff member before he costs you even more money. How many users have you lost in the last few years and you wonder why your site's rep is so poor in the community?
Do yourself a favor and avoid this badly managed site for one of the other sites that welcome users in the swing lifestyle.
They are so rude! The woman is a b****! She yelled at me in her email that she sent me and told me that I couldn't manage my profile myself and that she had to oversee it. Who does she think she is? No customer service skills.
It is not right because i have been a member for 20 and never had a date out of all that time and it seams like fraud and the government should look in to it or have a talk to them!
I'm a life member but months ago I was not able to login. The problem is on their end and they refuse to fix it. Save your time and money. AVOID THIS SITE!
The site is a total mess. It doesn't actually work and there is no one to explain why it is broken. They are a sex site and a solely threre to collect money. They do not care about the experience or the memebers. If they did, they would not charge hundreds of dollars for a site that doesn't work.
Don't bother with it! There is AdultsFinder.club and some other hook up sites that are way better options. There are a lot of swingers there, just choose an appropriate category. They have powerful search engine and your search criteria are always respected. But what really matters is they have actual people and they screen profiles, so they've got rid of scammers. Anyway, SwingLifestyle is just a ghastly rip off, nothing more. It leads to nowhere. They simply take your money and give you no service.
It's classic sex dating site scam: fake profile after fake profile, single men pretending to be couples or women, scammers asking for gift cards, rude and lazy customer support - they don't give a f#*k about anything.
We have been lifetime members of this sight for years now and have met several sexy couples and singles. SLS is well established and respected, and has a wide variety of members everywhere. There is someone for everyone. We especially value the certification process because it legitimizes the profiles of people who are reliable and true. Our interactions with technical support have been very positive. They are very helpful and very quick to respond. This is a sight for swingers by swingers.
I felt singled out from the start. I have at least 5-6 (maybe more) emails daily from these people telling me my profile is not acceptable... I have changed it Numerous times... after ignoring them this is their rude response...
Here is our SLS story. We paid lifetime membership and were fairly happy with the site. We had a house party and a few days before we sent out a reminder with the address, event and details to friends and friends of friends. It was the same info over and over so I copied and pasted it. Bam! SLS banned and deleted my account for "spamming"! They are a ghost so you cannot contact them. If they had read my email and all the emails coming back thanking us for the party invite they would have realized that we were doing what good swingers do which is get others together. Our advice to anyone is use the site but NEVER pay for it. Use it to make the connection and communicate and share elsewhere. That is what we will be doing.
Communication with the site and access to emails is sketchy at best. I have been a paid member and a free member and it doesn't seem to make a difference. And... the site offers basically NO HELP with problems.
No other lifestyle website allows free members. At least SLS does but your access is limited and rightfully so. Why should free members have the same access as paid members? I've been on other websites and SLS is by far the classiest of all of them. I want to see more than just someone's genitals which is what you see on other sites. All of our closest friendships are a result of meeting on SLS. This is an amazing site that deserves to be deemed the most respected Lifestyle website in the industry.
Well, I think leading swinger sites like Swinger69.com have a larger member base. But this site seems to be ok as well. I will keep using it and will update my review soon.
This site is for those folks who are not cheap and join full membership, do not waste your time with a free membership
You will get frustrated and not be happy like most of the reviews on here. They joined as free members. This site works, if you create a profile that really is you and what you are looking for, beside sex.
We always request Face pics before we meet anyone. We have identified 2 sex offenders on the Michigan sex offender list. We notified SLS but they weren't interested in deleting paid members account. So my husband sent them message to remove themselves or police would be notified. They disappeared. Always get full names and face pic before you meet anyone off sls. Otherwise you may be asking for something you don't need.
All they care about is money. The website itself has terrible navigation especially the mail piece of it. We have been on most of them in the last 15 years and this is the lowest in all areas. The members for the most part have no idea what the truth is. Age, weight etc. was always a poor meeting experience for us. All in all its an example of poor owner trickle down. Pick one of the other ones there are plenty to choose from.
It's 100% real, but you have to pay for certain things like unlimited messaging and more, but the prices seem fair. Here's what was frustrating; they have an app for this in the App Store but there is not an option for in app purchases. It's really frustrating knowing that there is an easier way to pay but you can't use the App Store with money from your iTunes account. I recommend waiting when they have the option for in app purchases in the App Store to make it easier.
Has anyone tried www.lonestarswingers.com? We just signed up, it's Texas based but people from other states have profiles on there too. I find it easy to use, not too complicated. So far so good. It is a paid site just fyi, but $29.99 a month is better than dealing with BS from the other sites.
Answer: Hi PA T Well you need to show interest to all the groups you want to be able to see your profile. That is to say those gold bars for men, women, and couples. If you show no interest for any of those groups (for example single men) your profile will be blocked to that group. It's a quirk of SLS. Some people wrestle with that. On the advice of some other members I opened my profile to single males by showing a small bar. Then I point out that I am not bi or bi curious. I still get messages from the occasional idiot that can't read but I've networked with some great guys. Could this be your issue? If not, can you tell me how you know your profile is invisible? Have people told you that? And have you been on the site long enough that your profile has been approved? Can take a few days. Hope this helps. If not there are some settings functions that I would have to review...
Answer: And this question illustrates why there are so many negative reviews - their tech support is non-existent, the site breaks all the time.
Answer: If you're going to get a membership on SLS, definitely pay for it. Virtually all the serious members ignore free single males. And get certified even if it's someone you just met for a drink who can say "Seems nice and showed up". Also, if there are lots of single women in the lifestyle, I haven't found them. As a 54 year old single male I have met some very nice couples looking for a third. However if you think that, because you are younger, well endowed, and fit, it will be easy, I would guess again. The saying, oft repeated in the LS is that "Single males are a dime a dozen" Yes it's offensive. Bring a thick skin to the Lifestyle. Good luck and have fun! PS: If your FWB will go with you, a club might be a good option.
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Thank you for your review. Our site gives people within the lifestyle a place to meet. Members finding a match is not always quick or easy. You get out of it what you put into it. Our site has a Forums section with areas that give information to our members on how to create better profiles and how to increase your odds of success. If you believe that another member is not real, we provide a way to report them and we will investigate. We recently added the picture upload date to each picture to help members determine how long a picture has been on a profile.