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Here’s what consumers have asked with answers from SwingLifestyle staff and previous consumers.
Hi PA T Well you need to show interest to all the groups you want to be able to see your profile. That is to say those gold bars for men, women, and couples. If you show no interest for any of those groups (for example single men) your profile will be blocked to that group. It's a quirk of SLS. Some people wrestle with that. On the advice of some other members I opened my profile to single males by showing a small bar. Then I point out that I am not bi or bi curious. I still get messages from the occasional idiot that can't read but I've networked with some great guys. Could this be your issue? If not, can you tell me how you know your profile is invisible? Have people told you that? And have you been on the site long enough that your profile has been approved? Can take a few days. Hope this helps. If not there are some settings functions that I would have to review...
If you're going to get a membership on SLS, definitely pay for it. Virtually all the serious members ignore free single males. And get certified even if it's someone you just met for a drink who can say "Seems nice and showed up". Also, if there are lots of single women in the lifestyle, I haven't found them. As a 54 year old single male I have met some very nice couples looking for a third. However if you think that, because you are younger, well endowed, and fit, it will be easy, I would guess again. The saying, oft repeated in the LS is that "Single males are a dime a dozen" Yes it's offensive. Bring a thick skin to the Lifestyle. Good luck and have fun! PS: If your FWB will go with you, a club might be a good option.
