If you're going to get a membership on SLS, definitely pay for it. Virtually all the serious members ignore free single males. And get certified even if it's someone you just met for a drink who can say "Seems nice and showed up". Also, if there are lots of single women in the lifestyle, I haven't found them. As a 54 year old single male I have met some very nice couples looking for a third. However if you think that, because you are younger, well endowed, and fit, it will be easy, I would guess again. The saying, oft repeated in the LS is that "Single males are a dime a dozen" Yes it's offensive. Bring a thick skin to the Lifestyle. Good luck and have fun! PS: If your FWB will go with you, a club might be a good option.

There are plenty of couples that enjoy the company of single males. Pay your membership and get certified- there are way too many fakes in the site. We block free members for that reason as many others do.

A free profile on SLS (or at most paid but not lifetime) should be fine. A few pictures and a visit to mingle at a party or two should work well. In shape helps and plenty of couples are trolling for a quality sm.

I would not waste the money for a membership - you can attend some events in your area and get certified by paid members to generate interest in your profile regardless if you are paid. There are plenty of single women in the lifestyle in addition to couples seeking NSA. If you are as good looking as you say you are and you are willing to Tango or Facetime you should have no issues getting dates.

Sls.com is not a bad site. There is another on call swingerzonecentral that is less money. The sites do provide exposure that is difficult to gain without a profile page. You will need to provide a write up and pictures. Paying also helps. I do not respond to free members without pics because the site does have its share of fakes. You asked if there are a lot of couples looking for SM. I have found that there are indeed plenty to approach. There are also a lot of married men who enjoy watching there wives have sex with SM. I have had 4 such types in 2015, 2 that I play with regularly. You need to be honest with yourself. Ae you really fit and handsome. Some SM claim to be both but are not. Good muscle tone, and abs? You'll stand a chance of connecting. Thick around the midsection? Probably not. I joined SLS and SZC. It can be frustrating at times but I also just had a great weekend. Meet close to the hottest (and I mean hot) married women at funboomers and then a regular couple on Sunday. It works for me.