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OK - a relative of mine was married from a match on this site. She got lucky.
Very, very lucky after culling out a lot of poor candidates. I am still sifting, putting up with their antiquated matching algorithm. Do you really want someone much, much heavier than you who is miles and miles away? (There are very few local selections and the good ones don't respond!) Then if that person sends you a "smile" (he/she has done so only from seeing your pics and reading a few sentences) -- do you really want to block that person or see his/her pics -- revealing in their activity list that you looked and then blocked that person? Ouch! Who needs to waste time plowing through these so-called "matches?" eHarm should add more selection criteria. If a girl wants hunky guys, give them to her. If a guy wants fit babes, bring them on. EHarm could apply picture recognition algorithms to help find true love. Someone who is an "8" really doesn't want to sift through "2s." This might sound superficial but it is part of the "quality" equation. Someone who eats pizza and drinks beer all day won't feel comfortable around a health-conscious, fitness maven. EHarm keeps milking their old standby "psychological" matching when they should invest less in advertising and self-promoting and more in research and development, bringing themselves into the 21st century. The only reason I am still there is because they took my money in advance -- am waiting for the membership to expire. Not inspiring!

This is not a good site! Seriously folks - they matched me with defunct profiles to get me pumped up... but I searched the users and found from the back door when they last logged in... may as well be talking to the wall. Also, many times the message box gets highlighted... but there is no message... In general, the matching criteria are garbage and their sorting of messages/emails/matches are defective. I mean -- why spend time emailing to defunct profiles and waiting for a response... which their own algorithms just matched you with? They hide a lot of this by not providing the sorting capabilities to quickly see these scams. Save your money.

Their matching algorithms are inferior. Their screening criteria & filtering capabilities are quite primitive and limited. Your highest response rate comes when your membership expires. I had very poor quality contacts on this site... Save your money...

Started a profile... submitted my pics... they suspended... yes - I am real and look great... Thought it was a fluke. Did the same with my work email. Same thing happened. Tried and tried and tried to find out why they suspended me. No response. I want to meet a good Christian like myself. Very disappointing. 'Tis not the Christian thing to do...

Very sophisticated BOT programming. Tons of fake profiles always online. One in five LIKE you back then never respond to your messages. And there are NOT that many girls nearby online who would NOT respond to a great pic and profile... Worst part is they have sister sites that present ads and you think it is part of this site matching you, but it actually takes you to another site and replicates your profile --which you cannot delete! Very clever and sophisticated programmed money machine! Lock these mo' fo's up and drill their asses with their own bots! Total fraud!