If these web sites for dating are so eager to say you will find love then back it up. As I dont think anyone should have to pay to find love ex specially when you say there are people in the area we live and it turns out there hundreds of miles away. People are getting sick of putting there money out there with no success. You you believe so highly in your dating site then why not let a person try it for 2 weeks to see what is really on there before taking their money?? Each city would be better off just getting a singles group together and do things as a group and if you connect with someone thats great but at least you would not be obligated of spending any money and being disappointed as singles we wouldnt be alone and could still go and have fun with other singles!!!!!!!!