If you are a male or female with their life together, meaning job, car, no baby mama drama stay clear of POF. I swear its nothing but people with mental health issues, no social skills, control issues, abusive, insecure, desperate stalkers, the list goes on, i met one guy a total psycho, after one date come to find out he had multiple dui-s and claimed he did nothing wrong the police had it out for him? And had a wife? There are very few decent people on this site anymore as there used to be. Its not for decent people its for creeps, psychos and abusive types. Not to mention the people that use photos from college and high school claiming thats how they look now---SMH, true denial of the insane over there. To anyone reading this, you are better then POF