I am sorry that I trusted George Noory, who promoted this site (and still is) on his nightly coast to coast program. Men seem to be confusing this site with a porn site, not sparing any opportunity to solicit and elicit sexual favors. I'm totally p**ssed of for having allowed myself to sign up for a 6-month deal. Every man who has contacted me were either not American (each one of them claimed to be "widowed," or. Tried to sell me me commercial item... or invited me to his place thousand of miles from my home state when writing his first initial mail to me. Alerting the administrators of the site is useless. Their answer, "we don't monitor communication" even when a certain vile mail is copied and forwarded to them. Women Beware! Save your hard earned $$$. If you are already on the site and something smells foul, be sure to look at their use of English and spelling. You can glean a lot from that alone. Also, not being a prude but being a female from and older generation, I am shocked at the non appealing selection of unkempt males available.