First of all Joanne isnt my real name but its what I use on xSocial and HookupHangout (joannemc_69) so im sticking with it here! I joined xSocial years ago but stopped using it when I got into a relationship with my ex. We split a few weeks ago and I was surprised to see that its still going, so I joined up again and noticed not much has changed. Its still a good way to meet guys, I use 2 or 3 dating sites for this and it just makes sure that when I am in the mood for a good seeing to, I have a better choice theirs nothing worse for us girls than deciding we want a night of excitement to end up meeting a total arse. So I like to make sure I have plenty of options and the best way to do that is use more than one dating site (my tip if you do this is set up a new email though as you get so many messages that it ruins your usual email account). Anyway, Id say this is a good site and one ive been using for a long time and think its one ill always come back to whenever im single and fed up of relationships (probably forever then!). Thanks for reading x
For some unknown reason it just blanked out tent login cant reregister nobody will send you an email on password change your information it won't accept a password paid money for a piece of $#*! like this if you read this save your money go anywhere else but this site
Not happy. Decided to cancel membership as ive been paying for three (POF upgrade, Flirtydater.com and this one) and one of them had to go. The site is fine, easy to use and everything but ive had more hook-ups with the other two sites so made the decision to ditch this one. Found it really hard to cancel my membership and eventually had to phone customer service, wait on hold for ten mins and then put up with some dumbass trying to talk me into staying longer despite me making it very clear that I wanted to leave. Eventually got it done and better not get charged next month or there will be trouble.
Just like other reviewers here I have had no much luck using the site. I've been chatting with few real girls (which was quite challenging), but it has never gone any further then just naughty chat. I've had more fun using FlirtyDater.com and AFF... I'll keep my membership on xSocial for another week or two, but it doesn't look promising
Girls that supposedly live in my town I've never seen before leaving me messages saying they read my profile and seen my picture and liked what they saw?! I might be flattered if I actually had a picture uploaded or even put anything on my profile! So sad that this site even exists and if anyone wants to know if it's legit, it's not at all!
Are you clever? Are you seductive? Are you intelligent? For some women online, it makes no difference. These are the women with “fake identities” who never read your emails. They only send out “pick-up lines” calculated to keep you coming back. When you write back, they never acknowledge anything you said. They may refer to your profile but respond saying, “hot pic” or “attracted by what you say,” generalities that could apply to everyone. They never take time to address you using your screen name.
And why is this?
Here is why: They are online with fake identities and are being paid by the number of replies they get from the men they contact. They are the female “catfish” or the hired “trollers” who make men miserable while they gain recognition and earn hard cash.
Here are some of the fake personalities that I have spotted on xdating.com:
blondangeluv Foster, KY
Lucygamx Brooksville, FL
goldentuch33 Cincinnati, OH
VERYWET20 Cincinnati, OH
Sportiigirl Cincinnati, OH
DustyGirlSexy79 Goleta, CA
sassy33398 Covington, KY
Playfulgue Cincinnati, OH
dustiekisses Cincinnati, OH
Yahira57 Santa Barbara, CA
letmesuckit4u2 Trotwood, OH
Nilckax Columbus, GA
Q1. So how does one spot a false identity?
A1. If someone never makes reference to the content of your emails, you have the right to be suspicious. . . . Then you might try sending something like this:
Some of the "virtual women" on this site have no more reality than what their programmers designed them to be, like Samantha in the recent Spike Jonze film "Her."
So, as a reality check, please include the words "first kiss" somewhere in your next email. If I don’t find these words, I will know that you are not a real person. . . .
A2. If the words “first kiss” do not appear, then I write something like this:
I’m frustrated. You may have noticed that I have been reaching out to you with multiple emails. You, in return, send me generic replies that ignore my emails entirely. It appears that you paste a one-size-fits-all response to all your "favorites" from time to time by way of drumming up interest, but, in truth, you are hiding behind a mask. I even suspect that your profile pic is a fake as well.
Why would you want to do this? It's a cruel and heartless business. . . .
A3. If this does not prompt your “virtual woman” to come clean, your next step would be explore the “block” and “report” buttons found in the lower-left portion of her profile. The “report” button allows you to share your frustration with someone who can do something about it. Be sure to ask management to “send me an email telling me what you are doing as a follow-up on my complaint.” Keep a copy of your complaint for possible future use. The “block” button allows you to prevent further frustration for yourself.
Some dating sites do allow for “false identities” and they offer paid users some way to identify them. You have to read the fine print on the contract to learn this, however. So I would call this “fraudulent.” They, of course, would protect themselves by saying it was “my responsibility to read the contract.”
I am not aware that xdating.com officially allows false identities. On the other hand, I have no evidence as of yet that xdating.com closes down those known to be using a false identity. Let’s be frank. It may be in their interest not only to allow but to deliberately overlook false identities. . . .
It's funny. I signed up then looked at then Googled the pics of some of the women "in my area" only to find their profile pics were hijacked from various other internet dating sites, facebook profiles, porn star blogs, etc. Tells you everything you need to know right there...HUGE SCAM.
HOW do you Google pics you ask? Simple. Using Google chrome browser, right click the pic & in the drop-down menu, select "Search Google for this image" and more often than not you'll get a LIST of sites using that same pic.
If you don't get that selection from the drop-down menu as described above, right click on the picture first then select "Open with" on the drop down menu and choose "Google Chrome" and THEN right click on it again in the new opened browser page & you'll get the search google for the image option.
Even if you don't like Google (like me) it's useful to have the browser for this option alone. Good Luck!
It's a total scam their getting rich by ripping you off it should be illegal I don't know how this is not criminal. How the can not be facing criminal charges against they is beyond me!
Everyone keeps saying they cant get there money back..this is what i did.i told them i was going to my bank and file fraud charges.i recieved no responce.so i went to bank ..they looked up my account.. called the number on the billing..talked with them saying i was fileing fraud charges.
The bank gave me back my money....
Next thing you no after my bank filed fraud charges on them ...they sent every penny back..
So theres your proof...yes is all not real.
Yes this site is very questionable, originally they got my profile from xdating.com or meeting. Com
without my permission and yes most profiles are fake ...use with caution. I'm sure some females go here thinking it's legit but don't pay to respond and if left any weird email address that's not a well known one(like Gmail , yahoo etc) you'll get spam saying go to another site to contact them .These people trying to get you started on new datingsites that are very questionable too , they bug you for years even if you ignore them. Always put any email in Google search with review after it and it'll tell you if it's been reported as spam or a scam.
This is a total scam site, my experience suggest you that do not pay
This person is completely fake. Was just being a bit to friendly once I actually thought someone was going to message me... let alone by my email instead of the sites message server.
Total scam DO NOT PAY ANY MONEY TO THIS DEATH CHAIN SITE...!!!
After I had to erase my credit card schist, I wanted to do some investigation work to see exactly who is "sxyluv30" and what kind of woman is ditzy enough to do something criminal if she claims she works in "Government: Office/Shops" on "Xdating.com". The trail had burned out.
The next day she emailed me saying she wants to meet up for drinks and a bar...
...initially, I thought FREE MIMOSAS 4 TONGHT!
in quick retrospect, I rethunk and asked her when could i pick her up...time and day since she claimed she was off next week.
Then the day after around midnight, she emailed me reinstating that she tried to send me earlier but failed and that she wants to check the time, then promised R-rated pics from a "yourcupidmatches.com" link.
All this link does is "redirects" you to MORE scam sites ["freelifetime$#*!book.com", "Milfaholic.com", "flirtlocals.com", "nostringsattachedcougars.com"]
***Notice how all of these sites end in ".com":
When most people hear .com the jump to assumption that it's an all-clear site...
I MUST Warn you that those who think this way Are...GRAVELY MISTAKEN...
from an IT perspective; All that .com means is that it's widely used by Businesses of ALL WALKS OF LIFE. . .
*THIS INCLUDES SCAM: [SITES, SERVERS, GAMES, ADS, GIFS, PICTURES AND FREEWARE...]
Surfers please Do NOT swim past eight o clock due to: sharks, mines, sickness, and/or DEATH....
You have been advised...
Just got my email from Margaritagrl off of Flirtgirl.com directing me to email@example.com and when she said she lived near by I mentioned places in the area she lived and she rolled over the subject. She sent me a more generalized message but acted totally interested. Said she wanted to stop all the chat stuff and just meet this next week she had time. However she now sent me to another website called your cupids match.com. And look for sxyluv30 promising me we could communicate better and that she would have more photos naughty ones that I might like. The sites are all alike I have seen the same girls pictures from different cities with different names. Keep your credit card in your pocket where it is safe because these sites will bill you over and over again and the cancellation of them is a lot harder than you think it is. I have had to cancel credit cards in two different places and have new ones reissued to keep from getting billed over and over again don't waste your money.
Tip for consumers: Once you give up your credit card number to the site you might as will have a pair of scissors handy because you're going to need to do that to keep any more money in your pocket.Ask John about xSocial
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