Warning!
Are you clever? Are you seductive? Are you intelligent? For some women online, it makes no difference. These are the women with fake identities who never read your emails. They only send out pick-up lines calculated to keep you coming back. When you write back, they never acknowledge anything you said. They may refer to your profile but respond saying, hot pic or attracted by what you say, generalities that could apply to everyone. They never take time to address you using your screen name.
And why is this?
Here is why: They are online with fake identities and are being paid by the number of replies they get from the men they contact. They are the female catfish or the hired trollers who make men miserable while they gain recognition and earn hard cash.
Here are some of the fake personalities that I have spotted on xdating.com:
Blondangeluv Foster, KY
Lucygamx Brooksville, FL
Goldentuch33 Cincinnati, OH
VERYWET20 Cincinnati, OH
Sportiigirl Cincinnati, OH
DustyGirlSexy79 Goleta, CA
Sassy******* Covington, KY
Playfulgue Cincinnati, OH
Dustiekisses Cincinnati, OH
Yahira57 Santa Barbara, CA
Letmesuckit4u2 Trotwood, OH
Nilckax Columbus, GA
Q1. So how does one spot a false identity?
A1. If someone never makes reference to the content of your emails, you have the right to be suspicious... Then you might try sending something like this:
Some of the "virtual women" on this site have no more reality than what their programmers designed them to be, like Samantha in the recent Spike Jonze film "Her."
So, as a reality check, please include the words "first kiss" somewhere in your next email. If I dont find these words, I will know that you are not a real person...
Hug,
Your FreeSpirit
A2. If the words first kiss do not appear, then I write something like this:
Im frustrated. You may have noticed that I have been reaching out to you with multiple emails. You, in return, send me generic replies that ignore my emails entirely. It appears that you paste a one-size-fits-all response to all your "favorites" from time to time by way of drumming up interest, but, in truth, you are hiding behind a mask. I even suspect that your profile pic is a fake as well.
Why would you want to do this? It's a cruel and heartless business...
FreeSpirit
A3. If this does not prompt your virtual woman to come clean, your next step would be explore the block and report buttons found in the lower-left portion of her profile. The report button allows you to share your frustration with someone who can do something about it. Be sure to ask management to send me an email telling me what you are doing as a follow-up on my complaint. Keep a copy of your complaint for possible future use. The block button allows you to prevent further frustration for yourself.
Some dating sites do allow for false identities and they offer paid users some way to identify them. You have to read the fine print on the contract to learn this, however. So I would call this fraudulent. They, of course, would protect themselves by saying it was my responsibility to read the contract.
I am not aware that xdating.com officially allows false identities. On the other hand, I have no evidence as of yet that xdating.com closes down those known to be using a false identity. Lets be frank. It may be in their interest not only to allow but to deliberately overlook false identities...
This person is completely fake. Was just being a bit to friendly once I actually thought someone was going to message me... let alone by my email instead of the sites message server.
Total scam DO NOT PAY ANY MONEY TO THIS DEATH CHAIN SITE...!
After I had to erase my credit card schist, I wanted to do some investigation work to see exactly who is "sxyluv30" and what kind of woman is ditzy enough to do something criminal if she claims she works in "Government: Office/Shops" on "Xdating.com". The trail had burned out.
The next day she emailed me saying she wants to meet up for drinks and a bar... initially, I thought FREE MIMOSAS 4 TONGHT!
In quick retrospect, I rethunk and asked her when could i pick her up... time and day since she claimed she was off next week.
Then the day after around midnight, she emailed me reinstating that she tried to send me earlier but failed and that she wants to check the time, then promised R-rated pics from a "yourcupidmatches.com" link.
All this link does is "redirects" you to MORE scam sites ["freelifetime$#*!book.com", "Milfaholic.com", "flirtlocals.com", "nostringsattachedcougars.com"]
***Notice how all of these sites end in ". Com":
When most people hear. Com the jump to assumption that it's an all-clear site...
I MUST Warn you that those who think this way Are... GRAVELY MISTAKEN...
From an IT perspective; All that. Com means is that it's widely used by Businesses of ALL WALKS OF LIFE...
*THIS INCLUDES SCAM: [SITES, SERVERS, GAMES, ADS, GIFS, PICTURES AND FREEWARE...]
Surfers please Do NOT swim past eight o clock due to: sharks, mines, sickness, and/or DEATH...
You have been advised...