Once you paid, no more response at all. Totally scammed

The sight is a scam to. They used my profile on 14 other sights.so you never no if that person is actually on that sight.my bank file fraud charges on them.and they closed all 14 sights and repaid my bank. They were also charging my account. 6 different times and just changing 1 no# thinking nobody would catch it. They also charged me 1dollar 4times.
The bank said thats how they were sneaking in my account. But as soon as they got caught.the money was sent right back.
So. NEVER USE A SIGHT YOU HAVE TO PAY to meet someone.