Seeking Arrangement

SA can be the real thing; I would say after a few years on the site and numerous meet-ups, a few relationships and numerous contacts with SA "support" that they try really hard, too hard maybe and they're over-controlling with men and letting a large number of pay-per-meet females dominate the roster. The girls ask for $300-$500 just for a dinner date if they'll do it at all, most are not interested in anything other than a big ticket hotel room meet-up, usually offering themselves at $800-$1000 before they even know what you want, and they have it timed to the minute at one or two hours, which amounts to illegal pay-for-sex and I took a stand and wouldn't do that, and eventually left the site as that conflict dominated the interactions and they were not shy about it. Expensive, inconsistent, management is arrogant - with all of that there are real Sugar Babies on there, some are exquisite, and some keep up the communication and actually meet, and they're eager to have sex so the money starts to flow and maybe they're juggling 2-3 guys and you get some cancellations which are obviously for more lucrative clients. Those are from the girls who are trying to do it right.Here are signs of a true scammer: maybe 10-15% of the girls: only one photo with face not clear; wants age range of men from 30-60+ or 50-60+ even though they're 28 or 30; they want to get off the site and into personal texting right away so that there's no "official" record; they often need to pay a baby sitter, get gas for their car, get their hair done for you, refill their asthma medicine... quite a few play at being deaf so no phone calls are possible. So in conclusion - complicated like the world. Don't want to put down the really cool women who know what a SD/SB gig should be and really care and do it right, but it's nearly impossible to control the abuses and management is rightfully concerned with predatory men so the rest of the problems get worse.