Seeking ArrangementsReviews 391

I wish I could give a lower rating. I had actually used SA in the past with mixed results. Well, in late 2019, I signed up for the service after like a 2 year absence. I had stopped using it because there were clearly working girls and escorts on there and I had no interest in that. I wanted to see if it had changed. I sign up and pay the 3 months or whatever it was. I probably communicated with 2 women and all of a sudden, I can't log in anymore and I get an email saying my account was banned for solicitation. No explanation and no way to contact anyone to dispute this. They just took my money. A year late, I tried signing up again. I was able to sign up and create a profile. I waited a couple of days before paying. Once I paid, boom, same message telling me the account was banned due to solicitation. That's fine but why not do that before taking my payment and even if the cc was linked and banned, don't take payment from my card but they did.

This used to be a good site and I had about 6 or 7 good SB relationships from it but it's turned into nothing but a bunch of escorts and internet hookers who will get mad and report you if they don't get what they want.

I used Seeking about a year ago (results were OK) so decided to try it again. I immediately discovered how poor the software is for searching! You can't set filters to refine your search; e.g. can't say you want non-smoker or athletic body type.
Geez, this is 2021 so there's NO excuse for a subscription site to have such PATHETIC search function!
I've decided it's NOT WORTH PAYING the monthly fee for Premium member if I can't even search in an efficient way. I'm going to stick with Secret Benefit; that site has much better search capability!

I renew my account and on the same day they banned my account and charge for the full month... Scamm

Ivey tried to upgrade my account to a higher tier twice, and they've suspended my account both times blaming my bank. My bank has disputed this claim, and said it is on their end. What business bans users who are trying to pay for their services? This is the second time I've tried this site, and now I'm done for good.

Seeking.com is about Old Men Perverts are looking for Young women who want to sleep with them for money. I can't believe the Feds allow this website. So if your a John or a prostitute the site is for you!

I've been a member for over 10years but will no longer be renewing my subscription.
Most profiles are fake with girls just looking for some online cash.

This site was full of very inappropriate men.

It truly is just a sight for prostitutes and John's.
When I realize this after two days I completely deactivated my account.

Imagine my shock when I was charged another month even though I had absolutely no profile on the site.

When they refused to return my money I had to dispute it at the bank level and change my card number. Total pain in the $#*!!

These men are psychologically sick and quite scary so save yourself the trouble and go on match.com

--------------------Prostitution runs all over on this site and management does not care------------------------

Its waste of money & time, they say Atlanta has lots of Sugar babies but all of them seems bots...
They seems like a computer generated fake pictures. Atlanta, Georgia and near by females add me on IG: raviatl2020 or on snapchat bobbybaby2020

Yes, I am a woman seeking other women, and everyday my inbox is filled with responses, so much so that I have a hard time discerning who I want to get back to. The women tell me that most of the men just want immediate sex and don't really want to give anything in return, not even a meet up dinner. I treat women with respect and can have multiple dates a week if I want it.

It is a scam pure and simple. They utilize fake accounts to send you messages and "likes" in order to keep your interest. I must have been Favorited by every woman in Columbia and Venezuela. And you will notice that all of their fake interest increases as you membership expiration date approaches. As for their collection of sugar babies, they should call them sugar scammers as is all that they are. Most just want to sell you their pictures or to be paid ahead of any face to face meeting. None have any interest in actually meeting face to face. I even had one go so far as to attempt to blackmail me. SA was unwilling to take any action other that to delete her account which she quickly re-established. But I manged to track her down by way of her social media accounts and made her family and friends aware of what she was doing. Ala in al, SA is a waste of time and money. Don't believe their BS ads.

As one of the comments below said: if you aren't trying to be a hooker, they will ban your account and take your money. I was banned in there, and all the sister sites and everything a support can do - threaten me via email (see screenshot attached)

Joined to try out sugar dating but honestly it was a waste of time and energy. Didn't trust it from the beginning, messages sounded to generic for me, with men asking me to contact them on kik or whatsapp. Added one on whatsapp and still felt pretty weird about it so I proceeded with caution. He had up no display photo or anything else that might give me an idea that this is a legitimate person. Anyway he offered me $800 usd as my weekly allowance if i just be a companion to him, no sex. Not that I was willing to give some stranger sex for money, but I found that as very odd. His reason for this was because his wife had died and he was just so sad. So he said he's ready to help and asked for my credit card statement because he wants to clear that up for me ofc I didn't send him anything like that. Two days after he asked for that he says that he is ready again to help me financially and he's gonna send me money but can't do it through paypal or zelle or anything like that. I asked him to send it through western union which he ignored. So he directed me to some website about checks, telling me which one to choose and whatever then telling me he will send routing number and account number and that I must have $64 to pay for them loool I came up with some excuse and blocked him instantly. So just saying this to say, if you hear this story don't buy it. They're just tryna rip you off, don't get caught

Seeking (formerly SeekingArrangement) used to be a fairly decent place to find sex workers (AKA "sugar babies"), but over the past few years, this site, in my long and mostly trying experience there, has become overrun with criminals pretending to be attractive women, using stolen photos from who knows where, with the ultimate goal to either:

1. Scam you out of money, no matter how large or small the sum;

2. Keep you on the site, so you think there are plenty of available women there, or

3. To troll and frustrate you (the motives for this remain unclear)

That's all I really need to say about this site. My suggestion is to stop feeding the trolls and don't bother. You'll likely be wasting a fair share of your time and money attempting to find something real there. If you are truly interested in finding a whore, simply point your browser over to Eros, Slixa, or similar websites, and skip the expensive, time-wasting games that Seeking inevitably tangles you in. It's not worth the trouble.

Its very expensive and you join free and are bombarded with sugar baby profiles but when you pay and its near one hundred per month it dries up and you end up out of pocket, customer services are rude and unhelpful and its the most dishonest site to date i've been on, save you money and dont fall for it like i did

This website caused me so much stress and trouble. Men who claim to want to spoil you end up being con artists and scammers who want to get you in financial trouble with banks and fraud. The website does nothing to limit or prevent these people, it's a shame. I had to get questioned and my bank account closed, now in extreme debt because someone wasted my time and scammed me on this website. Do not believe or trust anyone on this website and by all means DO NOT DEPOSIT OR TRY TO CASH ANY CHECKS SOMEONE SENDS YOU! Please take my advice!

So, I decided to try seeking.com for a month, They had a sale and I could afford it and was a bit curious and honestly was just bored.

I open my free account about 2 months ago and paid for a month a week ago. Here's my feed back.

Within few days of actually paying for the account the daily interest went from 10-15 to 0, which leads me to believe that seeking uses bots to make the guys think they have all these available options, which you don't.
Next I went thru my list of girls that had shown interest in the past, got almost no response. I was nice and respectful in my texts which again leads me to believe that they were bots.
The few that did respond fell into these categories.

Probably under age, when asked if they are above legal age, the communications stopped.
Ex strippers/ escort/ just scammers. Most of them want you to pay their rent or start giving them allowance before they do any meetings. I don't mind helping but why would I pay for something that I can get for free.

The few that want to meet will refuse to send a picture proving that they are actually who they say they are and if you ask for just a headshot proving themself, well that's the end of that.

There was only one that seemed interested and I even offered to meet in public place of her choosing and take her Christmas shopping, and she kept canceling the last minute.

I can be wrong but Just solely based on my experience I would tell the guys to save your money and stay away.

I hope this helps.

I signed up on seeking, wrote a profile, uploaded a pic etc. Then I try to log in a few days later.
My account was deleted. They determined the photo was "fraudulent ". So I guess I'm not me?
It's likely because I'm black, not that they're racist but many tech companies don't account for black folks in their machine learning. GIGO.
There was no way to respond to this. If the company was concerned with their customers' experience they'd have contingencies in case they were wrong. Must not be a possibility to them.
Anyway, they saved me a grand a year in membership fees so maybe I should thank them? From the other reviews it seems they did me a favor.