Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.4 stars from 391 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and sugar daddies. Seeking Arrangements ranks 662nd among Dating sites.
Used this site about 8 years ago. Was ok back then, a few scammers but nothing like today, had 3 amazing arrangements that lasted over the course of eight years & we are friends for life.
Women complain about men? I'm one of the few honest men on this site, they say if you're too nice you finish last. Well I can say, I started two months ago, mostly scammers, a few dates were no shows, a few I met looked nothing like their pictures, few asked for the money up front in the restaurant & then just walked out. Most of the profiles either ask for money up front or want luxury items or go to the most expensive restaurants.
The last date was the worst, a 20 year old Latin girl with tattoos wanted a ride to the restaurant, I obliged, when parking to go to the restaurant, she pulled out a knife, threatened me with it & stole my wallet, luckily for me it was my cash wallet. $1200 gone but I live for another day. I did give chase but lost her, it seemed she had planned & probably done it a few times.
I did complain to seeking but it seems they don't care, her pictures are still up & preying on other victims.
You might find one or two genuine profiles out of a hundred but in my books it's not worth it!
All the proof was sent to SA & then deleted.
Lol, it seems that I got banned from SA for reporting a criminal.
THEY ARE A FRONT FOR SCAMMERS & CRIMINALS.
AVOID THIS SITE!
THE GOOD REVIEWS ARE PEOPLE FROM THEIR OWN SITE.
This website is a waste of time money and it's a scam. The men on here put fake net worth they don't make them verify anything and they are just regular everyday guys hell I have more money than them
I was suspended for nudity, when I posted none. I was sent many "D" pics and propositioned many times and nothing was done. The pic I posted was taken off the internet and was not R rated. I was kicked off for nothing, especially compared to what some men do. I'm guessing it's a good old boys society.
I kinda like Japanese idols recently, tried to find an Asian sugar baby, then I saw someone with photos of Asuka Saito, hilarious.
Google the image on the web, you will find many famous people or not-so-famous people on Instagram.
So many scammers and prostitute agencies using fake information to gather yours yet there's no report button, I even saw two different accounts using the same person's photo, one is 19 yr and another is 25, which made the whole website untrustworthy to me.
As a male you have to pay to even chat to the females on the website and once you do pay you are contacted by just prostitutes who want to get paid an hourly rate, this is definitely not a legit sugar babe websites
This site is terribly awful. Don't fall for any of it. Guys are nothing but SCAMMERS! Liars and disrespectful. This guy will meet you. Tell you to meet him somewhere and then you go there and he's no where to be found. Very unsafe. I wouldn't recommend you to meet this fat overweight tub a lard
You subscribe because the concept is to meet sugar babies in exchange of a financial support & when you start discussing the terms of the meeting, you get banned for solliciting sex. This website is simply a ripoff & once you get banned or suspended, it's almost impossible to get back your account or to create a new one
You have to sift through all the fake and scam profiles.
I connected with a 42 year old SB. She has one son. Early teen which she shares with the ex every second weekend. The boy lives with the ex.
She is a business professional, really easy going, athletic, C cup and on the kinky side! We agreed on $300 ppm.
Our schedules don't line up so we've only connected three times since. It's a challenge but we message regularly. And she sends me Titty shots on Tuesdays! Lol She's a great find and we connected!
The second SB's 26, hot, reasonably slim and C cup. We agreed on $300 ppm. Was amazing the first couple weeks! She hadn't been with anyone for three months and was so aroused. Introduced each other on the way to the bedroom and she stripped down and nearly tore off my clothes.
That was the first couple weeks. We agreed to a $1000 monthly allowance.
ALL Downhill from there! We lasted about eight months. Started slowly. Take her to pick up hair extensions. We get there and she said she needed $80. I hesitated... then gave it to her! Big mistake!
Sex was still really amazing! Then she'd ask for a ride to her nail appointment. I was to pick her up in 45 minutes. She comes out and says she needed $140. Crazy, I paid, then told her that this isn't working out and we were done!
She sucked up. I mean, the sex was really amazing!
We went along pretty good for about four months. Arguing, splitting up a couple times! Sex went from amazing to, she'd come four times in ten minutes. So, you have to drive me somewhere!
The demands started coming regularly!
Then, she tried to extort money out of me! Threatened me, my family, where she thought I worked!
She thought she knew more about me than I had revealed. She really knew nothing and there was nothing she could really do to me. She still messages every few months!
Gentlemen, do not let your SB know anything about you or you could be down that road.
Horrible site. Men pay 100 a month to get SCAMMED from men posing as women! Stay AWAY SCAM. And the women that are in there are prostitutes
You pay, and then they decide your account its not valid and they did not return your money. This website its just full of ESCORTS.
Don't waste your time on Seeking and other lame sites.
This is an utter scam thinly disguised as hookup site. They must be getting huge profits especially now when they can exploit the pandemic.
All their female profiles are fake as hell.
Staff here are like rent a cops- take min wage jobs super seriously and very rude. Good 4 escorts tho
I tried to open an account with this website and they ask for your government issued ID. No other dating website will ask for this. This is a big breach of security and privacy. If you send them your government issued ID and they are hacked you will surely become a victim of fraud and identity theft.
Like so many others here, tried to log in one day to see that my account had been suspended. Tried emailing and got a bunch of cookie cutter responses about how I was reported as using their site for "journalism opportunities". Wtf. Not doing any research related to this, was only using for personal use. They made some comments about not being able to tell me what or why they came to this conclusion, because it could be seen as "coaching" people as to how to circumvent their terms. But I've contacted them repeatedly ever since just to ask that someone actually review my account and messages, because the claim is patently false, and it has been complete radio silence.
This site is full of lots of scammers and creeps, as others have also mentioned. I suspect that, if my account was actually reported at all, it was by a bunch of whiny, spurned profiles that didn't like that I wasn't using the site as a prostitute or that I'm just not looking to jump into having sex with people. Super dumb experience. CS may as well be non-existent. The fact that they make the guys pay for this is awful. Don't get roped in. It's a joke. A bad one at that.
These are the messages I received from CS. Never received any other replies with any info other than this. And the last 5 messages I have sent have been completely ignored by CS (it has been over the course of a month, so not like they haven't seen them).
2 days after taking my money, they "suspended" my account, saying that I used "escort terminology." I emailed them 3 times, asking for specifics but they never responded. I never used any such terminology. Furthermore, I was solicited by several women seeking "pay per meet" arrangements. The site is filled with scammers and prostitutes. I also asked them to remove all of my information from their systems but they did not respond or confirm.
Dudes - Here's the con... you pay around $100 a month to look at the online catalogue of all the potential sugar babies, prostitutes, and scam artists in your area. Some are real, most are fake, but Brandon gets paid no matter what. Most messages sent to the really hot women will go unanswered, those are the bots. The prostitutes will reply, that's why they are there, just realize you are messaging back and forth with the pimp most of the time. The scam artists come in two varieties; a) the pre-pay through Venmo or PayPal type or b) say what you want to hear, meet, collect, underdeliver, then ghost type. One in every 30 women on the site may be an actual sugar baby, but they won't look like a model, just an FYI. Playing sugar daddy is a lot like gambling, if you can't afford to outlay some serious cash, maybe you shouldn't do it. Getting scammed is part of your risk, you can minimize this, but not entirely. If you don't want to get reported, be the first to block the sketchy pots.
Women - Brandon has worded everything very carefully in order to get you to make up a profile, because he needs men paying him to view your pretty pics. He actually has more men online than women, they're just not sugar daddies. In many ways he is 'grooming' you to believe that you have some kind of feminist control over an arrangement and men will pay you just to have the privilege of taking you out to dinner. Rich, powerful men simply don't tolerate this idea or concept. Most of the real sugar daddies have moved on from SA. It's been a huge waste of time lately, even more than it's been a waste of money, and our time is much more valuable than yours. Rich men do this because they want a sure thing and don't want to be with an everyday ratchet type of woman. The wining and dining, gift giving, exotic vacations all adds to the thrill of the chase and minimizes the dirty, transactional parts of an arrangement. No real sugar daddy will tolerate a 'Platonic' arrangement for any length of time, only the inexperienced or salt daddies will agree to to this. Another pretty face is just a click away.
I have a baby face and don't look my age. I've tried creating an account 3 times. The 1st account they told me my pics were fake and not me even thou I linked my social media page. The next 2 accounts were approved and my pics were approved. Within 1 hour of me never sending a message nor doing anything on the site, both accounts were deleted with the following message "Your account has been deleted" and "Reasons for denial are: Fraud Deleted". They asked me to send in my photo id front and back to prove I'm real and still told me I was a fake person when I did.
I was banned from the website within an hour of creating a profile. I was threatened when asked why!
I got my account suspended. No reason given. For some "suspicious activities".
I just lost 100 usd after 2 weeks, no meeting, no sugar baby.
THANKS i only bought 1 month membership.
I'm a college student looking for someone fun to date that can also help me out. Unfortunately, on this site all the guys want is a hooker. I'm not sure why they think that someone like me would be so desperate that I would perform sexual favors for money. They're only getting hookers that are pretending to be a college students. The jokes on them. Gross. LOL
They can and will ban you without warning for saying anything at all about money. Of course, almost every profile mentions money, and somehow that's not a problem. Neither are the tons of messages that involve money, until they one day arbitrarily decide to ban you for mentioning money, pocketing your $100 premium membership fee.
Answer: Hi there, We believe that any person of legal age should be able to find an arrangement that works for them. There is always someone out there who will want to be in the company of you! Best regards, SeekingArrangement Support
Answer: Hi Robert, I am sorry that you had issues with some of the users on our site! We work diligently to remove any members who misuse the site! If you have a member complaint you can reach out to us at Support@SeekingArrangement.com. It's an important part of being able to uphold community standards. Make sure you give us the username or link to the profile! We appreciate your feedback and will work hard in the coming months to make SeekingArrangement easier to use. Best regards, SeekingArrangement Support
Answer: Hi Howard, At this time, we do not have offer phone support. The best way to get into contact with us is to reach out to Support@SeekingArrangement.com, we will be more than happy to assist you! Best regards, Seeking Arrangement Support
Answer: Hi there, If you believe your account was removed in error, please contact support@seekingarrangement.com and provide the email associated with your account. Best Regards SeekingArrangement Support Team
Answer: I understand it is free for females if they post several photos.
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