Seeking Arrangements

Seeking Arrangements

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Massachusetts
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Excellent Resoruce
March 12, 2017

I have been a premium member with background verified for 5 months. 80% of the interaction i had been positive. Like any endeavor the more one put into something, better the outcome.
What do i mean putting in time? I have 6 photos and used full allocated space to detail my profile. Took me couple of days to finish writing profile.

My Rules: 1) I provide my latest STD report and expect the same. It eliminates majority of the fakers.

2) I meet for coffee at a public place and if there is chemistry, i show them my ID ( just real name) and expect the same.

3) I block if any one ask money for gas, money for meeting - so called a good faith token.

4) I let women choose netting place which is convenient and comfortable for them. The first meeting is ONLY to meet and greet. I pay for lunch/dinner/coffee. I do not fret about charges.

5) I have blocked around 60 women. It doe snot bother me. It takes one click.

In the end i believe you get what you are looking for. SA is the best.

Date of experience: March 12, 2017
Colombia
1 review
17 helpful votes
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This site is about prostitution mostly. Over 50% of the girls I contacted were offering hourly or nightly services. They want quick money, no hassles asked.

I got "mocked" for claiming I was looking for something else, some even told me I was not on the right website.

Date of experience: March 6, 2016
Allison H. Seeking Arrangements Rep
over a year old

Hi Doug!

I am so sorry to hear about that! We work diligently to remove any users who break our Terms of Use, especially those of whom solicit on our site!

It has been some time since you left this review, however if you are still using the site, we would love for you to report these users! Or better yet, you can send in an email to Support@SeekingArrangement.com. We will then be able to look into these users accounts!

We appreciate your review, and we are working hard to make the site fun and safe for all of users. Thank you for taking the time to leave a review!

Best regards,
Seeking Arrangement Support

Colorado
1 review
6 helpful votes
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BECAREFUL
March 18, 2019

Some women are posting on a predator board men's profile pics and the numbers that they give them. As you well know that their is no true agreement for confidentiality but this is a step beyond that. Buyer beware!

Date of experience: March 18, 2019
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Worst fake site ever!
December 31, 2021

This is by far, the WORST SD site ever! There are 85% catfish and 15% salt daddies on this site! First of all when you join their site they start sending you a fake verification to identify you when they know it's you! There are robots that work in this site not real people! When you get that verification your stuck you can't log in ever again! They don't even have an actual customer service phone number to chat with a real live person as some legitimate sites do! The co founder needs to change this option and stop sending fake verification to women who just happen to get in free with their pics! A lot of men from
This site had warned me of this lousy below average site but I didn't listen! Now I regret being ignorant! I highly DONT RECOMMEND this bogus site! You will get nothing but disappointment ladies and especially gents! Watch out!

Date of experience: December 31, 2021
Washington
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Effort Rewards
August 9, 2016

Last Thursday I had 140 inbox messages from sugar babies wanting to connect. (I'm real, not a company shill. I'm also not terribly handsome or wealthy.)

Put effort into developing an excellent and honest profile and you'll be rewarded. Demonstrate to the women that you live an amazing life (without overtly bragging) and they'll want a part of it.

SA has literally transformed my life because I use it to affirm and push my own success move it forward. I've also used it to transform the lives of some amazing young women because that's something I enjoy doing. In a nutshell, whatever effort you put into SA relationships, you'll get exactly that back.

Best,

- M

Date of experience: August 8, 2016
Maryland
1 review
20 helpful votes
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Insecurity
December 4, 2020

Honestly, I never knew I was that unattractive until I went seeking. I have sent messages to at least 100 out of that only 1 guy messaged me back stating he was not interested, this site had really took a turn in my life where I feel ugly. I understand every one has preferences but I would've thought some guy would have some interest

Date of experience: December 4, 2020
Singapore
1 review
4 helpful votes
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From the guy's perspective: this site doesn't give a $#*! about scammers. A lot of shady women there. If you intend to go in, I suggest you never transfer money to a girl - no matter the sob story or promises she makes - ever.

Date of experience: September 29, 2022
New Jersey
1 review
8 helpful votes
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It sound like the positive reviews are all fakes too...
This site is horrible.
I joined it for a few months only to find it all these women are prostitutes with criminal records, mental illnesses, many are into taking dope and alcoholics and some are smokers which is not my type of women at all. Most are dreamers in wishing they meet their rich men and spend money and having a good time.
Most are average to below average looking women that are brainless. Most use a ton of makeup and still look ugly...

Date of experience: August 13, 2016
Ohio
1 review
4 helpful votes
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These guys are worse then sexual predators. Only the men pay. Most of the women are either fake, prostitutes, or they work for these $#*!s to lure guys in and lead them on. As other reviewers here have posted, they take your money and they find ways to suspend you by saying there's been complaints but they refuse to provide details. These guys should be prosecuted

Date of experience: March 21, 2017
Wisconsin
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
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As Advertised
June 12, 2023

Just read a lot of the complaints. Yes, there are scammers, fake profiles, etc on the site. But to some degree, you have to expect a degree of that. Probably no different even on traditional dating sites like Match, etc. Overall, i have been very pleased with the site and have met a lot of truly special young ladies. How else does an older gentlemen like me meet anyone much less a drop-dead gorgeous young lady in her 20's. Yes, i did have to sift thru a lot of what would be considered proverbial "duds" but that is to be expected.

Date of experience: June 11, 2023
Florida
1 review
13 helpful votes
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Once you sign up and pay they permanently ban you by saying you violated term, I never said anything that was inappropriate. No warning, they just shut you down. I was only talking to 2 people with maybe 5 messages sent between the 2 then banned, big scam stay away.

Date of experience: January 3, 2019
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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They said that constitutes commercial activity and is in violation of their rules. I think that's ridiculous! Don't they have bigger fish to fry? How about all the guys and gals who are looking for sex with someone for a quick cash turnover. Seeking probably is too busy to check into that, but they want to make sure no one makes money video chatting. Or how about the fact that around 50% of the men on that site are married and are cheating on their wives and looking for some action with a younger woman? That doesn't seem to bother them either, but my offering to pay someone to video chat is a major offense to them. What a bunch of hypocrites!

Date of experience: March 15, 2022
Virginia
1 review
57 helpful votes
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I met this man named giver man 00 located in Potomac Maryland is name is Bryan and drives a black truck. He kept telling me how he was going to give me a weekly allowance of 1000. I should have known something was off. I'm 5'3 about 125 pounds this man is at least 6 feet and about 250 if not more. This man raped me and took videos and pics. I contacted the site and he still has a profile. Lady's please avoid this man at all cost I've gone to the police please be careful

Date of experience: December 6, 2015
Allison H. Seeking Arrangements Rep
over a year old

Hi there,

We were unable to locate anyone by this name on our website. We take matters like this very seriously, and would request that you contact support@seekingarrangement.com with any details you can provide. Please provide us with any evidence you have including any police reports you may have. This will allow us to make sure this person is removed from our website.

Florida
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Full of scammer. They will ban you for no reason. I am not joking.
I will report them to

Consumer Fraud and Identity Theft
Contact the Federal Trade Commission at 1-877-FTC-HELP, 1-877-ID-THEFT, or online at https://ReportFraud.ftc.gov/#/?orgcode=TFMICF.

You have been warn

Date of experience: January 24, 2024
Netherlands
1 review
10 helpful votes
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SA is a good site and IMO the only legit site together with SugarDating69. Don't understand why so many people complaining?!?! I think it is maybe the biggest "Sugar Daddy Site" you will find. Yep, maybe a little expensive, but hey: You get what you pay for! I don't see no reason to not give it 5 stars!

Date of experience: April 10, 2016
Nevada
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Horrible
November 27, 2022

I know for a fact seeking arrangements hires people to pretend to be interested hence why 95% of the dates are flakes or they stop responding! This site is a waste of money and energy and honesty should be shut down

Date of experience: November 27, 2022
California
1 review
17 helpful votes
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Rip-off!
June 4, 2021

They can and will ban you without warning for saying anything at all about money. Of course, almost every profile mentions money, and somehow that's not a problem. Neither are the tons of messages that involve money, until they one day arbitrarily decide to ban you for mentioning money, pocketing your $100 premium membership fee.

Date of experience: June 4, 2021
Germany
0 reviews
4 helpful votes
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I don't even know where to start. A ton of the SD on there are scammers who will ask to switch to another messenger very quickly to ask for free nudes, sexual video content and/or waste your time texting without ever compensating in any way. Then you have the SD that seem to have missed the definition of what it means to be a SD because I can't even recall the number of times I read "I will not financially support you" "You will not get an allowance or gifts, I will just pay if we go out to eat" while expecting you to basically be a free or cheap escort/prostitute for them. Absolutely horrible, have wasted weeks of my life trying to sift through messages but found nothing but garbage. Most of the men seem to despise the idea of sugar dating which begs the question of why they would sign up for it in the first place.

Date of experience: January 14, 2022
Pennsylvania
2 reviews
18 helpful votes
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The Site is a Joke!
October 31, 2015

Its worse than any free dating or arrangement website out there. No one is serious about meeting or they have an excuse why their car broke down, their busy, they want tons of money up front for nothing. Most think you should just give them free money for nothing. Its unreal

Date of experience: October 31, 2015
Allison H. Seeking Arrangements Rep
over a year old

I'm sorry that you haven't had much success on the site thus far! Finding the right Sugar Daddy for you is a process that probably won't happen over night, but if you're willing to put in some time and have some patience, we're sure that you'll eventually find the one for you.

Please note that the more you log in, the more detailed your profile is, and the more photos you have, the more views, favorites and responses you will receive. We suggest updating your profile with more different information about yourself and the relationship you're looking for, uploading more photos or different photos, or messaging/winking at more members.

For any additional assistance, please contact support@seekingarrangement.com so that we can better assist you.

North Carolina
1 review
3 helpful votes
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This site has made me have a grossly hatred towards men that I have never had before in my life. I have been on and off the website now for two years. My first experiences and my experiences now have not changed a bit. I've been sexually assaulted and humiliated by men off that site. And whenever you report it to the site (whoever it goes through) they rarely ever take action. It is disgusting. Guys on there either want the cheap hooker experience (ppm what they call it) or nothing at all. The men on the site are very sexist and racist as well. As a black mixed race women I've either fetishized or flat out ignored by the color of my skin. I can go on and on about the cons of this site but I won't. Just please stay off here. Meet your guy in real life… and not online. All these men are predators and live in an unrealistic state of mind.

Date of experience: May 8, 2023

Overview

Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.4 stars from 389 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and sugar daddies. Seeking Arrangements ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
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