Seeking Arrangements

Seeking Arrangements

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Colombia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Not so great
July 29, 2019

1. Very few real "sugar babies", too many "working girls". Pretty sure this is eventually going to shut down imho.
2. Many fake profiles, scammers, "weirdos". People inquiring stuff none of their business. Internet anonymity is a great tool for criminal minds. They know you're not poor, that's your biggest disadvantage.

Date of experience: July 29, 2019
Texas
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Have tried this site several times and my experience has always been disappointing.

Yes there are photos and profiles of many beautiful girls. But they don't respond. My response rate was very low (1 response for 20 initial emails) and those women who did respond are either scam artists or hookers, and not very good ones.

The site may work for a tall wealthy handsome man in his 30's or 40's willing and able to spend $3000-$10,000 per month.

For the average guy in his 50's or 60's looking for companionship its a waste of time and money.

If you're still going to try it despite my advice, at least don't pay in advance for the girls and don't agree to pay travel expenses without seeing the woman in person-many of the photos are outdated.

Date of experience: March 25, 2016
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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If you even put one word wrong in your description they force you to watch this 3/4 minute long video which is CRINGEY as hell, and then they suspend your account for 72 hours anyway. Which basically ruins your conversations and leads. Thing is they don't flag it immediately, could randomly be 3 days after you write it.
I got banned for 72 hours just for saying "I also have an OF account" at the end of my bio.
Also they approve photos (literally email you saying they're approved) and then randomly flag the very same pics days later?

God forbid if you've paid any money on your account you will lose it.

Thanks for suspending me guys, definitely not getting premium now!

Date of experience: April 27, 2023
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Hi guys

I've used seeking on and off for about 3 years! I'm 33 years of age and didn't use the site for escorting or anything like that. More just dating without the hassle of a regular relationship. I've had some joy and obviously a lot of scammers trying it on.

But what annoyed me the most is I got an email regarding a permanent blocking of my account and they said they have verified criminal activity! I emailed them around 7 times and got 2 replies from different people just saying our decision is final we will not respond anymore and we will work with law in relation to criminal activity? I literally never mentioned sex or did anything like this! And for them to say we will no longer respond? Yet they take the money for the membership but just block my account! I thought Americans were big on customer service? It's a joke!

Date of experience: November 2, 2020
New York
1 review
15 helpful votes
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That pretty much sums it up... narcissistic selfish. Most are hustlers, out of probably a couple thousand messages I met maybe a dozen over a few months. The men here generally want and need an escort but are too cheap to pay the price... the couple I slept with were horrible in bed... what else can one say

Date of experience: May 20, 2020
Maryland
2 reviews
48 helpful votes
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Scammers and Liars
July 12, 2021

2 days after taking my money, they "suspended" my account, saying that I used "escort terminology." I emailed them 3 times, asking for specifics but they never responded. I never used any such terminology. Furthermore, I was solicited by several women seeking "pay per meet" arrangements. The site is filled with scammers and prostitutes. I also asked them to remove all of my information from their systems but they did not respond or confirm.

Date of experience: July 12, 2021
Netherlands
1 review
5 helpful votes
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No real girls. It's run by a pack of crooks who are somehow getting away with scamming people.
Don't waste your time on Seeking and other lame sites. Don't fall victim to this scam! They want you to burn money on chatting with their staff members. This is an utter scam thinly disguised as hookup site. They must be getting huge profits. All their female profiles are fake as hell.

Date of experience: July 8, 2023
Pennsylvania
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Bad site
November 21, 2022

This site is a joke. They permanently banned me for absolutely no reason whatsoever. And the person who emailed me back was rude. Yet it's ok to have creepy guys try anything they can to get with you. Here's an idea maybe your website should be banned and taken down permanently.

Date of experience: November 21, 2022
California
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I am a sugar momma!
February 4, 2021

Yes, I am a woman seeking other women, and everyday my inbox is filled with responses, so much so that I have a hard time discerning who I want to get back to. The women tell me that most of the men just want immediate sex and don't really want to give anything in return, not even a meet up dinner. I treat women with respect and can have multiple dates a week if I want it.

Date of experience: February 3, 2021
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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The men are horrible. 90% want to endlessly text and get free photos. Of the few who plan a date, the vast majority ghost the day of. I met only one man through the site, he was cheap and so terrible in bed I "fired" him lol. Definitely a big waste of time.

Date of experience: July 15, 2023
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Pain in the $#*!
June 13, 2019

Signed up and got banned three days later right before connecting with someone. Enjoyed the platform and site until I was deleted for absolutely no reason. What a waste of time, money and effort into finding someone.

Date of experience: June 13, 2019
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This site is a rip-off. I've been an on and off subscriber for a few years, and while it started off okay it has really gone downhill the last few years. The vast majority of women are scammers, undercover escorts, or suffering from mental health/emotional issues, ie. Crazies. Customer service is worse than none. They don't respond to complaints, and they will cancel your account at the slightest perceived infraction of their rules at any time with no warning. Don't even ask for a refund. You won't get one regardless of the circumstances. All they want is your money. They take it, and they keep it. Period.

Date of experience: February 11, 2022
Switzerland
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I was looking to try to find a rich boyfriend without to beg for money or try to ask for sex against money, and the dude called Shan Kim from Manhattan said yes to all I said before like that we won‘t have sex until we know each other better and met up more than once, we met up and after lesser than one hour he already broke his promise in the hotel room he raped me, crazy $#*! liar.
I was scared alone and I haven‘t met a man in years nor dated any ever since. I‘m scared of men for life. Thank you for nothing but trauma.
November 2016 I will never forget. Worst scammer and rapist website ever. Stay away if you don‘t want to end up like me.

Date of experience: October 27, 2021
Netherlands
2 reviews
36 helpful votes
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There is no point in using Seeking unless you are ready to pay upfront to some scammer prostitute who doesn't even agree to show her face on Skype. I think Seeking was created by a pack of crooks who prey on people's money. They use fake photos, stolen identities and bots when they need to work you into buying membership. They deliberately don't ban scammers. I don't know how they are still in business, they should be shut down!

Date of experience: August 17, 2020
Luxembourg
1 review
5 helpful votes
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You pay, and then they decide your account its not valid and they did not return your money. This website its just full of ESCORTS.
Don't waste your time on Seeking and other lame sites.
This is an utter scam thinly disguised as hookup site. They must be getting huge profits especially now when they can exploit the pandemic.
All their female profiles are fake as hell.

Date of experience: August 2, 2021
Virginia
1 review
19 helpful votes
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Changed Company
February 22, 2019

I just terminated my membership to SA after being a loyal member for over 3 years. It was great in the beginning, with high quality women seeking more out of life. Unfortunately, ever since Backpage was shut down, the prostitutes and scammers have flocked to this site. Don't be fooled, SA is now a prostitution website. This is why Apple banned them from having an app. If you're looking for a hooker, this is a great place. If you're looking for a SD/SB arrangement, you'll have to look somewhere else.

Date of experience: February 22, 2019
Pennsylvania
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
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Well, I was banned today, after 8 days of a 30 day membership for "requesting sex for monies". Nowhere in my messages was this mentioned. The site is full of fakes and scammers the first being seeking.com itself.Of course I could have prevented the loss of $90 by reading these reviews. Lesson learned.

Date of experience: May 12, 2019
Netherlands
2 reviews
35 helpful votes
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I was kicked off this site just for sharing few fantasies with a woman a week after I paid them. I see it happened not just to me. There are plenty of other sites who value their paid members. You won't get blocked there for talking about sex. Moreover, there are many stunning girls, open to talk about anything. They are looking for a sugar daddy, but they're truly beautiful, adequate in communication and not too demanding.

Date of experience: September 3, 2019
New York
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
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I do not recommend this site. It is a waste of time and money. Most profiles are fake. The site is infested with scammers that will ask you for your bank account info or for a credit card, or they will make you buy one.so Beware! Honestly if you're looking for a sugar daddy seeking arrangement is the wrong place.
The reviews on their website are fake; don't trust them. Anybody who's really been in seeking arrangement will not recommend it at all. Also nobody there likes black women.

Date of experience: June 12, 2019
Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
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So a friend of mine said I always dated the traditional way and got nothing in return. Try Seeking arrangement says the friend! Most of the men on here are either cheaters or old saggy $$&$ trying to get a piece of something younger. A week ago, thought finally met a gentleman? He turned out to be a cheap bipolar creep too! First date he was a full sweet heart. By the second? He was cheaper! Told me he'd take me for a coffee? Instead he sat down so I'd pay. No prob! Just a coffee right? I'm broke but not that broke. Then he flipped out at me nagging that I'm not allowed to leave even a lipstick behind. That's just invading his space? I said I didn't and if he saw anything of mine throw in the trash...

This website isn't a place for the well-established to find company of younger women. It's a place where cheap men want to get freebies by the young, naive and desperate!

Date of experience: February 6, 2017

Overview

Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.4 stars from 389 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and sugar daddies. Seeking Arrangements ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
110
value
115
shipping
8
returns
8
quality
116
This company does not typically respond to reviews
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