Seeking ArrangementsReviews 391

"Website Seeking.com has become so trashy and scammy that 90% of its users are fake and fraudulent. Mostly, men are posing as females with fake photos. They start off all good, nice, and cordial, but soon they want upfront money for gas and whatnot. Your site used to be valid a few years back, but now it's a total waste of time and money. I have tried it for the past 2 weeks. All scammers and fraudsters are on it. It doesn't matter if I report them; they change their email addresses, use VPNs, and keep going. I looked for how to cancel my auto-renewal, but there is no visible option on the site to do that. It's obviously intentional."

I have been on the site for a number of years and have had very long term arrangements with some lovely members. Despite a large age gap I usually can find members who are unaffected by that. I'm not rich. Kind of in the middle of the road with a small business. I don't pay huge amounts, but the smart girls see the advantage of a years long steady income. And the arrangements are never one-dimensional. I like dinners, salon days, hiking, some travel, and just hanging out. Good job SA!

There was a time when you met a few legitimate women on the site. Today there are so many fakers. The site is a waste of time and money. If that's your only option to meet women. I would suggest you take up gardening and maybe be into a monastery.

The men are horrible. 90% want to endlessly text and get free photos. Of the few who plan a date, the vast majority ghost the day of. I met only one man through the site, he was cheap and so terrible in bed I "fired" him lol. Definitely a big waste of time.

No real girls. It's run by a pack of crooks who are somehow getting away with scamming people.
Don't waste your time on Seeking and other lame sites. Don't fall victim to this scam! They want you to burn money on chatting with their staff members. This is an utter scam thinly disguised as hookup site. They must be getting huge profits. All their female profiles are fake as hell.

Primarily now many of the profiles are fake or bot. Not because its created by some outsiders, but it seems like they are old profiles or profiles just spun up by seeking themselves. When you contact these women, which is a lot, you will initially see immediate response and interest. And after few lines of texting in few days you will see absolutely no response. Its like almost seeking wants to keep luring you with messages and after spending a week or so chatting even say 1-2 messages per day the messages will go dead. This is a strategy for them with bot profiles to keep you dragging and give the illusion of interests and keep you there to take your money for long term subscription! Total fraud. I have been there on and off for few years. But it has hit the bottom!

Just read a lot of the complaints. Yes, there are scammers, fake profiles, etc on the site. But to some degree, you have to expect a degree of that. Probably no different even on traditional dating sites like Match, etc. Overall, i have been very pleased with the site and have met a lot of truly special young ladies. How else does an older gentlemen like me meet anyone much less a drop-dead gorgeous young lady in her 20's. Yes, i did have to sift thru a lot of what would be considered proverbial "duds" but that is to be expected.

0 results. I wish Seeking had cleared out all their scammers, fakes and empty profiles with no pics. It has all the potential to be a normal dating service, but it's run extremely poorly.
Basic membership gives you nothing. But when you upgrade it, it also leads to nothing: fake views, outdated profiles, scant search results with no regard to your filters.

I prefer AdultsFinder.club for hook up or short-term relationship. You don't have to pay their girls, and the girls are super hot, super fit and super exciting. I used to think it was not my cup of tea, but you never know until you try. Anyway, SeekingArrangement does not work, except of the few escort girls. But then again, why pay for ads? You can find bunch of escort sites and classified ads, you don't need to pay an extra fee to SeekingArrangement pimp.
It does not work even for an ordinary fling. It's total fraud to wipe out people's bank accounts, with 100% fake profiles, stolen photos, catfishers. The few real women they have are escort girls – that's really the best thing they can offer. If you want more search elsewhere.

I made an account, had it deleted same day for NO reason, then had zero explanation for the deletion and was told by Zoey, that she would ignore all future messages. I find it highly irresponsible to have a support team that lacks basic communication and support. What if she or the team made a wrong decision? No consequences or apology for that? That is very sad for a company and not a good look at all. I was told to review the FAQ's which I did and nowhere there did it say anything i did to be permanently banned. Of course, god forbid they even tell you what you did in the first place. Whatever support team they are running is mediocre to put it nicely. Your support team can't offer assistance, feedback, or an apology for wrongdoing? That's quite laughable. Clearly this site doesn't understand what support means. Thank goodness I didn't pay for a subscription either or else I'd be out of money with no explanation. Watch out everyone, they can claim to delete and ban you for no reason and if you paid, say bye bye to your money. This site is run by scammers and incompetent folks, in my opinion. However, proceed at your own risk. But, I wouldn't use it knowing who runs it.

Seerking arrangements used to be ok.
There are 3 types in the site
1- escorts
2- dreamers ( they think they can find Mr Gray)
3-scammers or webcams girls

Now seeking mentorship getting lower and they creat make account to drag new members or they want you renewe your membership.
I found 10s same or similar account made under the same profile. Me and my friends were reporting those accounts and seeking didn't do anything. Because made by them. Mostly under Asian girls members.
Escort cost much less now and no headache. 8 years ago was just okay. As I find few girls there.
The only good about seeking was no condoms and you can find girls who take up in her $#*!.

I know I'll probably be burned at the stake for this but I had to write a review just to clap back at some/most of the women writing reviews here. I'll preface by saying yes there are absolutely horrible men on the site who have no clue how to act and write terrible things to you ladies. With that being said, you ladies go on there with only dollar signs in your eyes and offer nothing more than a hand held out and a laundry list of insane expectations. Telling complete strangers to "buy something off your wishlist" or expecting a gigantic allowance for him to treat YOU out to dinner for a greet. Then you wonder why guys are just writing to you at 2AM telling you to go to their hotel rooms and other filthy things.

Because of these bad things (again we men aren't completely free of guilt here) this site has taken an absolute nosedive in the last 4 or 5 years. It's been really noticeable in the last 2. These girls expect you to just offer them hundreds and thousands of dollars in your first message to them or they'll just leave you on read. Clearly a ton are bots who just write Hey or if it's a real person they string you along until the desperation plea "I'm out of gas or can't afford lunch can you cashapp me" comes along.

Start charging these girls to be on the site...even if it's a tiny fraction of what we men pay. I don't care if it's $10. Once you do that these girls will take their 30 day memberships a hell of a lot more serious and not treat it like a free online ATM machine. Giving 2 stars because the site DOES work and I've met wonderful women on here but those days are clearly over.

This site has made me have a grossly hatred towards men that I have never had before in my life. I have been on and off the website now for two years. My first experiences and my experiences now have not changed a bit. I've been sexually assaulted and humiliated by men off that site. And whenever you report it to the site (whoever it goes through) they rarely ever take action. It is disgusting. Guys on there either want the cheap hooker experience (ppm what they call it) or nothing at all. The men on the site are very sexist and racist as well. As a black mixed race women I've either fetishized or flat out ignored by the color of my skin. I can go on and on about the cons of this site but I won't. Just please stay off here. Meet your guy in real life… and not online. All these men are predators and live in an unrealistic state of mind.

I've personally had several girls that are under the age of consent approach me from their seeking accounts.
I also had my account hacked on Seeking.com and instead of appreciating that I told them about these things, they banned me for life from their site!
So let's get this straight, I tell Seeking.com about them having under age girls on their site and hackers in our accounts, and they actually sent me an email saying they were aware of this, but decided to delete my account and not allow me to get back on their site. How is that them wanting less crime or caring for the young girls that are being trafficked on there!

I was a faithful supporter of seeking.com. I had great arrangements from it, so I wasn't complaining to them about anything, I actually thought that I was helping them in their mission to protect girls and our personal info. But instead of them appreciating my notice and thanking me, they chose the hackers and traffickers!

I'm a legitimate pres/ceo of a company, and for 4 years enjoyed the site. I guess as long as I don't tell them what they already know, but don't want known publicly, I could have been a member?!

I do have proof of purchase and membership.

I tried Seeking for the second, and last time this month. To cut to the chase, it's an open sewer of scammers, fraudsters, fake profiles and people begging for money. In my current one-month membership, I was asked to purchase passports, pay for medicine, cellphone bills, apartment window replacements in the Ukraine and on and on. No matter what kind of deal Seeking is offering, just say no.

If you even put one word wrong in your description they force you to watch this 3/4 minute long video which is CRINGEY as hell, and then they suspend your account for 72 hours anyway. Which basically ruins your conversations and leads. Thing is they don't flag it immediately, could randomly be 3 days after you write it.
I got banned for 72 hours just for saying "I also have an OF account" at the end of my bio.
Also they approve photos (literally email you saying they're approved) and then randomly flag the very same pics days later?

God forbid if you've paid any money on your account you will lose it.

Thanks for suspending me guys, definitely not getting premium now!

Yes, there are female scammers. Sireneyes in rochester is such a scammer, but there are others. College students offer a meetup at their place with a night of fun. Dont let them get up front pay or your phone.

Reported her to seeking, but they didnt do anything about her. In fact, she became a 'featured member'. Its unfortunate because there are some good women on here. Just hard to tell.

Its not a safe place

This website has gone completely downhill and is absolutely not moderated anymore. Most of the women are fakes, scammers, BOTS. Probably about 50% now

Just look at the profile names. It's so obvious

Comicalmusican
Prettygirlie
Enchantingmarathoner
Stunninggirlie

I signed up for Seeking and the very first time I tried to log in - suspended. I wrote to support, they sent me a link to verify my identity. Ok no worries I verified and got back in. The second time I logged in to start my profile. First picture (a professional headshot) rejected because the ai said it wasn't me? Whatever. I uploaded two other headshots and suspended! No warning no email what I did wrong, just suspended. Emailed support, no response. So apparently professional photos are not allowed, only bad lighting and unflattering angles. This website is a total waste of time! I'm so glad I hadnt paid for a membership yet. There's no wonder the reviews are so low. They need to fix their AI. Their bad attempt at security is targeting new and paying members for no reason. Go somewhere else, this site is rubbish!

Found this girl on sa from Bangalore. Tg I'd loyaltypls,Worth the time and fun. Would suggest you guys
If you looking for a great time. Charges more but worth it n well behaved girl. Very sexy