Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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Virginia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Good stuff
May 9, 2019

I've met a few nice guys here and currently have a great month-to-month arrangement with a guy who really is very good to me. I highly recommend to any girl, honestly it feels a lot more normal than you'd think.

Date of experience: May 8, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear, I'm glad you've been able to find what you were looking for on Secret Benefits and thanks for sharing your experience.

Massachusetts
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I would say it was an incredible site except I'm still looking and hoping to finally meet "the one".
Site works great. They do have responsive customer support. The site noticeably has new profiles most times I look. Just nobody has really met all of my expectations fully. Happy to keep looking on the site, but I hope the right one comes into my life soon.

Date of experience: July 15, 2020
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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A step up from the rest.
February 8, 2021

Real nice. Top notch dating website that I find myself using nearly every day.
Women are very receptive and many hot options in my area.
I have been a repeat customer here and have purchased credits several times.
Lasts me some time as long as I am particular with who I want to have relations with.

Date of experience: February 8, 2021
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
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So far so good
August 17, 2018

Not a lot to say really. I thought being a sugar baby would feel different than a regular date but so far it has been very similar. I've met a few nice guys who I've gone out with. I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment so this suits me nicely.

Date of experience: August 14, 2018
Australia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I met someone on a different site while on SB but he was no good. Back on SB and very pleased with my interactions. Totally different caliber of men compared to Tinder. Also feels like more serious people looking for a real human relationship.

Date of experience: June 30, 2023
Tennessee
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Read some others reviews here. Glad to see most see Secret Benefits the same way I do.

It is a fine venue to use if you are looking to casually date. I'm on and off myself when I get bored with my personal life. Can't really go wrong as long as you play it safe and are smart in general with the ins and outs of online dating. Still one of my top picks as long as they don't start charging monthly fees like most date sites do.

Date of experience: August 10, 2020
New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Got me one!
June 22, 2021

Lots of love to SB for helping Tommy and I find each other. He's an amazing man and I truly don't know what I would do without him. Trippy to think we live in the same area and could have crossed paths many times.

Date of experience: June 22, 2021
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I'm on SB for a couple months now and seeing a couple matches but not yet swept off my feet. I do like that there are no charges, customer service does reply in a reasonable time and are not generic response. Not everyone is so direct so can be annoying to drag info out of certain people but is pretty much expected on these dating sites. Still yet, generally nice guys on SB.

Date of experience: March 27, 2023
Texas
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Very pleased
January 21, 2021

I have my 4th date with Crystal today. She's absolutely stunning.
My cousin first told me about this site. Joined up at first wanting to find a nsa deal but after dating a couple of other girls, Crystal contacted me and she changed everything.
Cutting to the chase, I love that this site has helped me find such a beautiful girl. Really pleased with my entire experience here. Thank you for delivering a great service.

Date of experience: January 21, 2021
Texas
2 reviews
28 helpful votes
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Nice looking site. But this whole buying credit thing is such nonsense. How about just a monthly membership? You need credits to do anything. 10 credits to read a message. 20 to send one etc. you could charge 20 a month and they would make a bunch of profits but like every site they want to get as much money as possible. Too bad. I deleted my account. Too much of a hassle. Uh so I guess the website is complaining about this review. Nothing in it is false. They never contacted me

Date of experience: April 24, 2022
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Real women. No real complaints
November 26, 2018

Secret Benefits has been a legit site for me to find a few hot young ladies. Doesn't hurt I live near a few colleges. There are a few thousand women listed in my area, but as you can imagine, there are all kinds. If you are a picky guy like me, you gotta do some searching. The search filters help narrow down potential profiles fairly well. I'm not looking for a relationship, but there are plenty of women that are also looking for NSA dating. I've managed to find a new hot date every weekend so far. Not bad at all in my opinion.

Date of experience: November 23, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for sharing your experience Jon. It sounds like you've been having a great time on the site. I'm glad you've been able to find the type of relationship you are looking for.

Indiana
1 review
3 helpful votes
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New member
January 28, 2020

I signed up to Secret Benefits just over a week ago. I like it. Just sent in a video to get verified and the customer support approved me pretty fast. Lots of talkative guys. Seems like a lot of active profiles. Hopefully can find someone worth my time here. Fingers crossed.

Date of experience: January 28, 2020
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear Terri. Video verification is a great way of showing guys that you are serious and I'm glad you found the process straightforward.

Florida
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Top notch sugar dating site
May 22, 2018

I've been on a few different sugar dating sites. All in all I think this one has been my favorite. I like only having to buy credits vs. a monthly membership. I didn't have to spend a ton of time creating an elaborate profile. Easy to navigate. Lots of beautiful women to choose from. Only giving 4 stars instead of 5 because I've been on the site for just a couple of months now. If this good experience keeps up I would happily give it 5.

Date of experience: May 21, 2018
GB
4 reviews
9 helpful votes
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One of the best
November 13, 2017

Ive joined a few of these sites in the past which havent really worked out for me, but its been different with Secret Benefits. Its easy to use and Ive had lots of interest from men that Im also mostly interested in. I like that the members can verify themselves as real people, and there are lots of men in my area. Im going on my first date tomorrow!

Date of experience: November 13, 2017
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Hi Jane,
Thanks for the great review. We hope you had a blast on that first date and that there are many more in the future.

Ohio
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I joined this site on a whim 6-months ago and I have been using it off and on since then. It's pretty easy to meet guys and most of them seem to understand what the site is all about which means less time with time wasters. I don't really have any complaints but it would nice to be able to filter guys out by their income or job type.

Date of experience: May 14, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to submit a review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you're enjoying the site and have met the kind of guys you are looking for.

GB
6 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Happy customer
May 5, 2021

I like secret benefits, it's free and there are nice guys. I've been a sugar baby for a few years now so I guess I've gotten pretty good at screening out the riff raff. I met Bill 2 months ago and we've really hit it off, he's kind, smart and successful and it's great being his arm candy! I can't really comment on anyone else cause I met Bill so fast but it looked like there were lots of good SDs.

Date of experience: July 12, 2018
Florida
2 reviews
27 helpful votes
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Not The Greatest
August 17, 2019

I joined a few weeks ago and at first it was really interesting but it did force me to verify while I was in the middle of an allergic reaction so I hate my video. There are not many verified guys, I have been stood up twice and no one really replies to messages.

Date of experience: August 14, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Sorry to hear you haven't had a great first impression. Customer support has tried to provide you with some tips and I hope that helps you have a better time on the site.

Illinois
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Scam! Don't do it!
May 21, 2022

After reading a previous review I now understand why my SB account is bitcoin only. What a shyster company this is. I've written a bad review elsewhere and they won't take my credit card now.
It's infuriating that you have to spend credits to send or read a message or view photos. Often a woman reaches out to me in a message, I have to pay 10 credits (roughly $10) and when I do, I can read the message and reply, yet 3 of 4, AFTER contacting me, will not then reply. They also freely share their private photos (usually they look just like their public photos) and that also costs 10 credits!
I've complained about their scammish practices, they claim they've given me back credits for these situations, yet I've never, ever seen my account get an actual credit.
Hilariously now that I've complained to them, they remove my edits on my profile. It's what it looks like if people like Donald Trump ran the internet.

Date of experience: April 21, 2022
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Having a blast
August 14, 2023

Guys, this is a highly recommended site if you want to go out with high value beautiful women that take care of themselves and respect a mature man. Very happy with everyone that I've taken out so far.

Date of experience: August 14, 2023
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Picky girls
February 18, 2021

The girls I've tried to get with have made me jump through hoops for a date. I'm not a bad looking guy and I have money but their expectations seem to be through the roof. Firstly, they all want my phone number but I need discretion (clearly stated on my profile). Secondly, they seem to think I should pay them just to meet up for a coffee which I don't think is fair. I have no problem coming to an agreement but after meeting to see if we click.

Date of experience: August 8, 2018