Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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Georgia
1 review
24 helpful votes
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Stay away
May 17, 2021

Site intentionally does sketchy actions to overcharge men.
The cheapest plan is $59 for 100 credits. They charge 10 credits to initiate contact, 10 credits to view private photos, 10 credits to share your private photos, when typing a message the system auto places a selection box to charge you 10 more credits to boost a message, sketcky, so for $59 you maybe can fully interact with 3 people. People I am convinced are fake or computer generated. You don't have any activity until you buy credits then alof a sudden you have messages to read, that may just be "Hi". Don't waste your money.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: April 17, 2021
Germany
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Legit site
May 5, 2021

I've been actively dating on Secret Benefits for a while now. I've dated a handful of men so far. Decent dates, some more luxurious than others, but mostly decent guys. I'm looking for something potentially long term, so I'm taking my time. Secret Benefits has been legit as far as delvering as a dating site should. Acutally, one of the better dating sites from my experience.

Date of experience: November 9, 2018
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Great customer service
December 16, 2019

Had a very pleasant interaction with Kira from the secretbenefits customer service today. Her response was quick, thoughtful, and professional. Idk, guess it really stands out to me when the customer service from sites like this one really take the time and training of their staff to convey that they really care. Makes me feel like I'm in good hands.

Date of experience: December 16, 2019
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over a year old

That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with our Customer Service. They'll be happy to hear the compliments.

Illinois
1 review
1 helpful vote
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We are engaged!
October 13, 2020

Met Marc on SB last year. He's everything and more for me. He asked me to marry him this weekend, and I said YES! Head over heels happy! A miilion thank you's to SB for helping bring Marc and I together!

Date of experience: October 13, 2020
Oregon
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I use secret benefits for free so only can speak from my perspective as I know dudes pay but I am on the site every day and I'm having good fun meeting successful and nice guys in my area so I would tell others that this site is worth trying out.

Date of experience: May 17, 2023
Canada
1 review
69 helpful votes
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Cmon guys really?
Every email says the girl viewed my profile then sent me a message. So EVERY girl who views my profile sends me a message and none responds back? Really?
Ima sucker guys dont get fooled this company has every appearance of not being honest.

This review is my opinion based on real transactions that I did with this company, Secret Benefits. It is my intention to give an honest review in contrast with this companies business model.

To secret benefits... I will not apologize for being honest. You have no business taking someones money based on lies.
I am happy to hear this review is negatively impacting your business and I hope it encourages you to make more honest policy changes to legitimize your business model. It is a good idea but dishonesty ruins it. Show some respect for your clients.

Finally stop complaining about this review and start figuring out how to not take what you haven't legitimately earned.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: October 3, 2019
Georgia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Good
August 26, 2019

This is a site that lets you meet rich guys. There are guys who say they are rich but they aren't but I am pretty good at sniffing those ones out. My favorite thing to do is meet the travelling guys. They let you call the shots and take you out to all the places you always wanted to go to.

Date of experience: August 22, 2019
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over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with SecretBenefits. I'm glad you've enjoyed yourself and hope you continue to do so.

Australia
5 reviews
17 helpful votes
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I used hundreds of credits that had had to be purchased messaging women. I WAS NOT ABLE TO MEET ANY OF THEM. Messages conversations would look very promising and get to the point of arranging to meet up or giving them my phone number. Then they would stop responding! EVERY single one of them. Not only did I waste my money on credits It wasted plenty of my valuable time. The people who set up these types of sites are absolute scum.

Date of experience: March 18, 2023
Georgia
1 review
8 helpful votes
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This site looks like a complete Fake. Seems like it exist only to get you to scribe and waste your credits. Don't waste your Money on this site.

Update (July 30th 2019) - The customer service of this site is actually great. I was really surprised that they not only refund my money for the credits I bought but they also give me much more credits for site to come back. This site is NOT a scam site. This is actually real site trying to get into this type of dating. This site trying to get launch, getting for men's and women's' into the site. They are not here to scam you. They are trying to get into business. I had upgrade them from one star to 2 star review. Still new, still not great, but they are trying and they have potential to be a good site.

Date of experience: July 20, 2019
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over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I'm sorry you haven't loved SecretBenefits but I'm glad you are continuing to give it a chance and hope you'll have more success in the near future.

Illinois
1 review
2 helpful votes
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"First off, (ahem, revealer), I'm sure I'm not as young as some other women on the site, so I may not be your typical gal here. Although I feel good, I think I look good, and no guys have complained yet, hahaha. My last date was about a week ago. He was like 12 years older than me. One of those that just did not vibe from the start (I actually made up an excuse that I didn't feel good and left). That was my first and only bad date from this site, so I think they are deserving of some recognition for that.
I'm actually doing a better job lately in vetting out the guys that aren't for me. My goal here is to find a life partner that can support and will hopefully give me a great reason to quit my 9 to 5. I feel like this site will give me the best chance to find such a partner so I'm keeping my hopes up high. I would recommend this site to others, but I don't want the competition lol!"

Date of experience: June 14, 2019
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over a year old

I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site and thanks for taking the time to share your experience.

New York
6 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Great
February 18, 2021

I'd never heard of SecretBenefits but I came across it while Googling and I've been presently surprised. I'm not the best looking guy although I do take care of myself but the girls I've met here seemed to really dig my vibe. I'm happy to have found a place where I can find girls who are into me even if I don't expect to find my soulmate.

Date of experience: June 30, 2018
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Columbian Mexican flakey girl but knows how to put the charm on. Take it for what it is, if she wanted you 100% that'd be a red flag. Enjoy the girl you like and let them live their life unless you're ready to be their sole caretaker til they find deeper pockets. You can meet genuine women but alot of your outcome deals with what you're bringing to the table. I mightve spent 1500 over a year and hung out about 10x. Tons of intimate pics and pleasantries thats been fine for me since women are not the focus of a productive life to me, theyre an adornment of your good life and who knows maybe you'll meet an untainted feminine woman to make a wife and mother of your kids.

Date of experience: May 31, 2022
Texas
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Not many options in my area
October 12, 2018

I've learned not to have big expectations, but I was bummed when I went on secretbenefits.com to find a sugar baby, and I didn't find any of the women in my town to be very attractive. I looked outside my area in a couple of the larger cities that were closest to me and there is a handful of women that looked interesting. Might give it a try if I feel like traveling, but not very convenient for a guy as busy as I am.

Date of experience: October 11, 2018
Florida
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Too Pricey and a Scam
August 11, 2022

I have used SA for years. It is not a perfect site. Especially with the changes they have done over the years and gradual monthly price increase. $99 a month most recently. So I decided to try SB and I must say it is a GALACTIC rip off for the money. The credits and "a la cart" menu, in combination with OLD outdated profiles, BOTS literally scamming you into starting to dialogue to a fake profile is CRIMINAL and fraudulent in my eyes. Its nearly $6 a conversation with a bot. Beware. Your odds are EXTREMELY stacked. Have much better odds in Vegas that running into a legit profile.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: July 12, 2022
Illinois
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Bull$#*!
July 28, 2019

I have been on this site for 2months and have gotten 2 admirers but the 1st one wanted a threesome and 2nd.one, we talked back and forth for 2days and he wanted a topless picture of my boobs and i haven't heard from him since. But other than that. Nothing! Haven't had any real dates

Date of experience: July 25, 2019
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over a year old

I'm sorry to hear that. We have tried to reach out to you to offer some assistance but you haven't answered our messages. Please do check your inbox if you are interested in giving the site another chance.

Arizona
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I'm a man, 40s. The website has weak support services. I tried to message them to buy credits for more than a week in vain. You can't buy credits except for bitcoins and through their support system. Without credits, you do nothing as a man. I don't think a dating site with weak support to be a safe place for people. You can get a problem without any response from their side. This is riskful. I don't advise people to go there.

Date of experience: June 29, 2019
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over a year old

Sorry you had problems making a purchase. Customer support has contacted you in order to resolve the problem.

Texas
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
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That site is pure scam.
March 28, 2023

You will only have 1 way conversations with bots. It is a pure scam. If you find the one human on that site you just found the 1 needle hidden in a huge pile of hay. Stay away and save your money.

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Date of experience: February 26, 2023
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Personally, I didnt think sugar dating would work for me. Im in my 50s, and not a George Clooney nor a Daddy Warbucks, but after trying this site out my view on this has completely changed. Amazing women that were open and felt genuine. Im just dating for fun when I have the time, but I have my eye on a couple of special ones. Good on you Secret Benefits!

Date of experience: June 1, 2018
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Pretty happy
February 18, 2021

Been really pleased with this website, met some hotties, some uglies and some fatties and I love them all the same! I find it easy enough to avoid time wasters and the girls that just want you to tell them how sexy they are and beg them for a bit of steamy action, I can usually figure them out fast and move on to a girl that's actually game. And when you meet up with one of them in the flesh it's a pretty ace feeling as all the hard work pays off. Some of the girls thoughI thought I was a horny b*stard but they put me to shame!

Date of experience: September 21, 2019
India
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Recommended to me but not my style
February 18, 2021

Don't always trust your bff's judgment on everything. She told me about secretbenefits.com after I broke up with my boyfriend. I checked it out cuz I was curious if it was a hook up kind of site. I really didn't understand it was an actual mutual arrangement with a sugar daddy type of dating. I don't know what she was thinking.

Date of experience: August 18, 2018