Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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India
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Easy start-up and messaging
September 21, 2018

The signing up process was really easy. I need to still verify my profile, but nothing hidden or confusing so far. I was able to message a couple of men I noticed. No hidden fees or anything fishy. I'll see how it goes.

Date of experience: September 19, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for sharing your initial experience with Secret Benefits Angela. Hopefully you'll update this review at a later date with your dating experiences when they happen.

California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Great site, good fun
May 5, 2021

I love the guys I've met on SB. In my experience, I've been wined and dined at some of the coolest places in town by guys who I never would have met otherwise. How else would you meet a millionaire? I'm not sure how this would work if I was looking for something serious as most of the guys I've seen or chatted with are married or too absorbed in work for anything like that. You do have to be patient, sift through the guys who are just trying to collect hot pictures, and be prepared to spend a few hours to find the right type. Now that I have my system down, I can literally login and have my kind of guys chatting with me almost immediately.

Date of experience: August 28, 2018
Tennessee
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I think the point here is if the dating service on this site works or not?
Personally, it's been doing the trick for me by helping me meet beautiful young women around me and just enjoy life more and have a great time.

In this sense, Secret Benefits is delivering on exactly what I want from the site.

Date of experience: June 15, 2022
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Too expensive
May 5, 2021

Met a couple girls but having to pay to write them a message seems kind of lame to me. I'd rather just purchase a subscription instead of messing around with credits just to talk to someone. The girls I've met were hot though so it's not a total disaster, I just don't like having to be selective with who I contact. An all-you-can-eat subscription, even if more expensive would probably do well.

Date of experience: August 4, 2018
Utah
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Met my boyfriend here.
December 20, 2020

I am a 23 year old single mom, going to school, working full-time and I really needed a solid man in my life. Joined SB this past summer. Dated around for a few months until I met Andrew back in September. It has been going great with him. He takes very good care of me and has been great with my 5 year old son. Many thanks to Secret Benefits for helping me find a truly great man!

Date of experience: December 18, 2020
Texas
1 review
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The reputation for Secret Benefits is good so I took a chance and really enjoying it so far. Guys have been very chatty and proactive in messaging me back fast and usually asks me for a date.

I have not spent a dime to utilize the site or on any dates with men from here.

Date of experience: March 30, 2021
Florida
1 review
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Havene't snagged one yet
September 21, 2018

I'm totally on the fence with this site and sugar daddy dating in general. I've been on SB for several weeks, and I'm not having much luck. I am kind of picky, and I would rather just find one sugar daddy to see on the regular, but none of the guys I've gone out with have really matched the bill. I'm hesitant to put everything I really want on my profile because I don't want to come off a certain way. Maybe that's what people really have to do with sugar dating? I dunno. Maybe I'm over thinking it. Glad to see others are having some luck.

Date of experience: September 19, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Hi Melissa, the truth is that if you don't share a bit about yourself on your profile guys will be less likely to contact you. A complete profile garners far more interest as it shows potential suitors that you are serious about the site and being a sugar baby.

South Carolina
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Not For Everyone
October 11, 2018

First off, the site functions just fine. I think I gave it a good try, but ultimately, I can't get used to sugar dating. I found that I am way too shy to ask for help financially without feeling weird about it. I've always struggled financially and thought this would be an answer to my prayers, but the guys I've dated don't put themselves out there to help, so I know I need to ask for their help first, and I just can't manage to do it. Sugar daddy dating is sadly just not for me.

Date of experience: October 10, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Sorry to hear that but perhaps you just haven't met the right person yet who will make you feel comfortable. If your experience changes please update your review. Thanks!

Florida
1 review
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SB may not be a site you want your colleagues or family to know you are using, but as far as being a quality site that encourages beautiful young women and successful mature men to find happy win-win relationships, this site delivers.

Date of experience: May 4, 2023
Ohio
2 reviews
33 helpful votes
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Fake accounts galore
March 10, 2022

There are a few individuals on SB that are genuine and looking for a SD, but the large majority are fake accounts, created by, I presume, the parent company to entice guys to spend their money messaging the non-existent ladies. These messages never get read by anyone. Don't waste your time or money on Secret Benefits.

Date of experience: February 8, 2022
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Generally positive experience
November 23, 2018

My experience with Secret Benefits has been generally positive. Most of the women I've seen from the site have been who I expected they would be based on their pics and general personalities. I have been stood up once and met a couple of chicks that were just not who I thought they would be. It would be great if the site was able to encourage more women to verify their pics... However, I understand anonymity is important for some as it is for me.
The website functionality is top of the line. Smooth, fast, and thoughtfully designed. I was alright with purchasing credits once I found some women of interest. Beats paying for a monthly membership.

Date of experience: November 21, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for sharing your experience Bob. I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed Secret Benefits and have been able to meet up with a few ladies. Lots of women and men verify their pics and we do our best to encourage them to do so but you can also play your part by asking them to verify their pics as well. Thanks.

South Carolina
1 review
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Give it to me, baby
February 20, 2024

This hasn't been my first choice, but 2nd time giving SB a try, and I'm actually meeting women now.
This site is restoring my faith in finding someone special to share my very fortunate life with.

Date of experience: February 19, 2024
India
1 review
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Off to a good beginning
February 18, 2021

I had my 1st date with a very nice man I found on the Secret Benefits website. I was a bit skeptical as I originally found this dating site from an article I was reading online. Who knows nowadays? I tried the experience from beginning to the end of the date last night. No tricks and no frills. I'm not the best or most patient on the internet and especially with a dating site, so I found this one easy to get started with. I found to my amazement that I was getting messages from guys after the first couple of days. Long story short, I had this date last night. A+ experience. Looking for a date next week, so I'll keep you posted if needs be. Ciao

Date of experience: August 10, 2018
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I joined in late January with the hope of finding a match to go on trips with me. I had a couple of great prospects but clearly with everything going on, no one is going anywhere anytime soon.
The chats I have open are fun for what they are, but the purpose of why I joined is not being fulfilled at present moment. Will update once this passes and find out if these women are going to follow through or not.

Date of experience: March 18, 2020
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

I'm glad to hear you have enjoyed your experience. Looking forward to your update when things soon (hopefully) go back to normal in the world.

Canada
1 review
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I had my 1st date with a very nice man I found on the Secret Benefits website. I was a bit skeptical as I originally found this dating site from an article I was reading online. Who knows nowadays? I tried the experience from beginning to the end of the date last night. No tricks and no frills. I'm not the best or most patient on the internet and especially with a dating site, so I found this one easy to get started with. I found to my amazement that I was getting messages from guys after the first couple of days. Long story short, I had this date last night. A+ experience. Looking for a date next week, so I'll keep you posted if needs be. Ciao

Date of experience: October 4, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Sounds like you are really enjoying the site Alexandra, very glad to hear that. Thanks for sharing your experience.

New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Hit and miss
December 20, 2018

All around decent dating site. I've had a few great dates with legit women. I've also been stood up once, and I think I have a couple of chatty women I most likely will never meet in person. Basically, it's the same kind of run around you might expect from all online dating sites. You win some, you lose some. I guess that's all part of the game.

Date of experience: December 17, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I guess the dating game is always "hit and miss" but I hope you have more hits than misses in the future.

Georgia
1 review
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Good
February 18, 2021

Not really sure what I'm supposed to put in here but it is a legit site that I keep going back to. I met a guy on it and we now see each other once a week, I stay active on the site because honestly, the money is always nice and I could probably fit one more guy into my schedule

Date of experience: August 28, 2018
Michigan
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Well a few ladies were there to "be there" I'm thinking. To help grow the site. I was scammed three times in different way. Be careful and think with the rite head!
I can't stress this enough... make sure she's 18!

Date of experience: September 4, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Hi Kevin,

Sorry you had some bad experiences on the site. We have a large team dedicated to weeding out scammers and ensuring that Secret Benefits is a safe place where our users can have fun. I hope that you have reported any user who scammed you, doing so helps us remove them and also stops future similar attempts.
Secret Benefits is intended SOLELY for adults so if you happened to find somebody who is underage please report that as well and we will deal with it immediately. In all cases, feel free to send us a PM here or to do so via our support on the site. We take these cases very seriously and have zero tolerance.

Pennsylvania
1 review
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I love using SB
March 24, 2021

This website has served me well. I've made several new guy friends and a couple of hot love affairs along the way. I always stay safe and in control and their support is very proactive in respondíng to any concern or issue but you need to email them as they don't provide a hotline.

Date of experience: March 23, 2021
Oklahoma
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Worth the effort
October 12, 2022

I've been using sites like this one for a long time. I'm currently using 3 including Secretbenefits.

I am on everyday and despite half my chats or more not going anywhere, when it's good, it's really good. They consistently attract new members many of which are exceptionally beautiful.

Date of experience: October 11, 2022