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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.


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Secret Benefits Reviews Summary

Secret Benefits has a rating of 3 stars from 443 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 652nd among Dating sites.

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1 review
2 helpful votes
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I admit that I spent a lot of time just looking at the women and considering options. Guess you can call me a tire kicker. Once I finally gathered myself and decided to get credits to message a beauty that grabbed my attention in particular I realized that this site was legit as we struck up a great convo and are currently dating on the reg.

Date of experience: January 22, 2024
Illinois
4 reviews
15 helpful votes
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I enrolled on SB, wrote a profile with my preferences such as women between 50-65, non-smoker, etc. Not one of the responses was from a supposed woman in this age group (almost all were in their 20s-30s -- I'm not interested in a woman young enough to be my daughter or granddaughter), about half or more were smokers, etc. It was as if the responders didn't read what I had written or were bots automatically responding to every new man on the site. I got off the site quickly, spent nothing, and was glad.

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Date of experience: January 18, 2024
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Snatched up my hunny
January 12, 2024

Sorry ladies but I just scooped up the best catch off here and he is rockin my world! My expectations have been fulfilled and the some. Bye🥰

Date of experience: January 11, 2024
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Successful match
January 6, 2024

Found my baby boo bear on SB. He tske such good care of his princess. All I could hope for and more with him!

Date of experience: January 5, 2024
Illinois
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Scam site, stay away
January 24, 2024

Pretty much all baby profiles are fake. I bought about 200 credits and messaged a total of 20 sugar baby profiles who either messaged me first or Favorited me first. And ZERO replied back. Now, if I was randomly messaging people out of my league, then I understand the low rate of reply. However, I only messaged the profiles that either messaged me first or favorited me first. And the majority of those 20 profiles were considered "Verified" by the site's standards. So among this sample set, my reply rate is 0 / 20?

More evidence that it's all scam. A few of the baby profiles, although they never replied back, they still granted me access to view their "secret" photos. The catch is, it costs money to view their secret photos. Now, if you are so uninterested that you wouldn't even reply back to my message, why then reveal your "secret" photos? The only reason is so that the dumb bloke pays more money.

It's a scam site, stay away if you don't want to throw your money away.

Date of experience: December 31, 2023
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I am giving a shout to Secret Benefits for their service particularly support today getting back with resolution.
I haven't found serious log term but there are some real people looking for connections from my experience.

Date of experience: December 21, 2023
Indiana
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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A real gem
December 20, 2023

I've been trying new sites and SB has turned out to be a great surprise. I've been on several sites and best results has been this one by far.

Date of experience: December 18, 2023
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Better over time
December 13, 2023

I Can appreciate that SB has grown and now has many more profiles within my area.
I have come back to the site, and finally meeting up for real dates.

Date of experience: December 11, 2023
Ireland
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Don't waste your money
December 10, 2023

You will receive short, ambiguous, bot generated messages from fake users. You must pay to open the messages.
When you pay and respond you don't get a reply.
Sucked into a waste of money...
Don't be fooled.

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Date of experience: November 17, 2023
Florida
1 review
10 helpful votes
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DO NOT USE
December 8, 2023

This is definitely a scam site. My guess is that the girls get paid a commission to up charge you. Example: They send you an email. You pay to read it and respond. They don't respond to your email. Instead they share their additional photos which you need to pay to see. But they never respond to the email.

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Date of experience: November 15, 2023
Canada
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Scam
December 8, 2023

Gave it a try. Only 1 out of 10 had a meaningful message exchange, other presumably bots just shoot a message, but if you respond with whatever witty or funny stuff, they never come back.
Don't waste your money and time.

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Date of experience: November 14, 2023
Virginia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Had some early issues, but their customer service was right on top of things. They were very helpful and now things seem great in here.

Date of experience: November 3, 2023
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It works
November 1, 2023

All that really matters to me is if I can meet attractive women, and that I am. A lot less nonsense from women that go back and forth or just straightup ghosting me on other dating sites

Date of experience: October 31, 2023
GB
2 reviews
43 helpful votes
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Scam Central
November 10, 2023

This site is hilarous. I really don't think I've encountered a site so full of scams in my life. It's just so blatantly bad… and as for the reviews, I mean come on, who's writes this nonsense.

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Date of experience: October 11, 2023
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The best imho
October 7, 2023

Fantastic option for those looking to arrange an agreeable relationship without the drama or expectations of something more taraditional.

Date of experience: September 25, 2023
Canada
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Met my love
October 7, 2023

My sincere thanks for helping Marie and I find each other. 6 months into our relationship and could not be happier!

Date of experience: September 20, 2023
Washington
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I like it
September 11, 2023

Recommended by a friend, SB has proved to be a very straightforward and effective dating website. I am able to meet new people with ease and I think the oricing structure is fair.

Date of experience: September 11, 2023
Canada
5 reviews
12 helpful votes
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Depending upon where you are located is going to dictate how many possible Daddy's or Baby's you'll have in your local area.

I live an 1.5 hour ferry or 20 minute float plane ride from a greater city of 2.6 Million.

Thousands within a 100 mile radius.

Unfortunately, if you're not going to them or bringing them to you the number may vary considerably.

Within my local area of 30 miles there are, at the time of this writing, 210 SB's and 31 SD's.

Taking into account the last year and a half of rising interest costs, SD's have dropped to a 1/3 from last year and SB's have over doubled.

Needless to say, play money is drying up for SD's and SB's are having financial difficulties!

There still is a variety of SB's but many have the experience of being renumerated the same as last year!

Although, I have found some SB's that are more willing to negotiate they're rate.

Do you're research by opening an account and not funding it until you have a good idea of what you're getting into. Disable the account when you're not on it so you're not tempted to fund only to find out that those individuals have been on the site for a very long time. Or, there are only a few members on the site in your local area.

Good luck!

Update:

Should add that I've had several Baby's since December 2022.

You'll have to be patient with them. Some will waste time and effort. But, if you do score a chance, like I have, I've had great, good, ok, not so good and not a chance!

Secret Benefits has been more productive than Ashley Madison or Seeking Arrangements.

For my local area AM is a complete waste of time over the last 3 years and SA, although I'm still in a two plus year arrangement from that site, if has been a blow out since last year.

Date of experience: September 4, 2023
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Free and fun
August 24, 2023

Hello. I really like this dating website. I started with my friend last week and had a dinner date last night that was super fun. The guy was a bit older than me but he looked and smelled great and treated me better than any guy has my age.

Date of experience: August 24, 2023
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Yes, Secret Benefits is an out of the ordinary site to meet men compared to a site like Tinder or Bumble, but what I personally have found here are men who seriously want to meet and are eager to impress. They may not all be super handsome or young but they make up for it with charm and class.

Date of experience: August 17, 2023