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Japansdates is an online dating platform for those who want more than just conversation — it’s for those who seek meaningful connections through cultural exchange. Whether you're curious about new customs or want to share your own, this is a space to do so through respectful and open-minded communication.
The platform provides an opportunity to interact with people from different walks of life, allowing your social world to expand one dialogue at a time. From stories about daily life to insights into traditions, Japansdates brings a refreshing approach to online dating — one that celebrates diversity and curiosity.
It’s not about where you're from, but what you bring to the conversation. Here, each interaction can inspire new ways of thinking, spark joy, and even offer comfort through shared values and experiences. Japansdates is a welcoming environment where inspiring emotional growth happens through conversations that matter.
If you’re looking for a place to connect through curiosity and shared perspective, Japansdates invites you to experience dating with a more meaningful rhythm. Let every message be a step toward learning, self-discovery, and a deeper understanding of others.
Japansdates Reviews Summary
Japansdates has a rating of 4 stars from 21 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Japansdates ranks 575th among Dating sites.
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Don't have a laptop anymore and I mostly use an old tablet. A lot of sites break or act weird on it, like buttons don't work, pages reload. But this one runs fine. Messages go through, screen doesn't freeze, even the keyboard behaves. Nothing special but worth noting.
Not every profile is gold but i messaged three women and two replied back in full. That alone is more than i get on tinder lol. Just don't rush it or expect magic. Be smart and write like a real person
Hi Stanley,
Thanks so much for your thoughtful review. You're absolutely right — taking your time, writing meaningful messages, and approaching things with patience can really make a difference.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
I almost skipped this site after reading a few bad reviews, but I'm glad I didn't. It took a few tries, but I connected with someone who really listens. No weird pressure, no one asking for anything offsite. Just long messages that feel like they're actually written with care
Hi John,
Thank you for taking the time to share your experience!
It’s great to hear that you found someone you enjoy connecting with and that your conversations have felt thoughtful and meaningful. We’re glad you gave the platform a chance and appreciate your openness about the process.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
After burning out last year even small things like replying to messages started to feel like pressure. I was worried this would be more of the same like nonstop alerts, fast replies, too much energy. But it's not. The pace is soft, and it doesn't demand more than I can give. That matters right now
Hi Kim,
Thank you for sharing this. We’re really glad the platform is offering a pace and atmosphere that works for you — especially when you need it most. It means a lot to know it’s helping in a quiet and positive way.
Best wishes,
Harlow from Japansdates
I wasn't in a great headspace, just restless. Didn't expect anything, but reading a few lines from someone about their garden or their bus ride home grounded me more than I thought. It's small moments like that that made me stay
Hi Thomas,
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful experience. Sometimes the simplest exchanges can offer the most comfort. We're really glad the platform gave you a space to feel more grounded when you needed it.
Best wishes,
Harlow from Japansdates
I came on here mostly just to talk. Didn't expect anything romantic, really. But ended up finding someone I can share stories with. We don't talk every day, but when we do, it feels like someone out there actually cares what I have to say
Hi Tony,
Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s great to hear that even though you weren’t looking for love, you still found a meaningful connection. Having someone to share stories with and feel truly listened to can make all the difference, and we’re glad the platform could help create that space for you.
Best wishes,
Harlow from Japansdates
I love how customizable your profile is. You can really show your personality and interests, which makes it easier to attract people who get your vibe
Dear Cesar,
Thank you for your review! It’s a pleasure to know that you’re enjoying everything our platform has to offer. We’re here anytime you need, and we hope you continue to have a great experience.
Warm regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
Great for active, social users. The platform is perfect for active people looking for communication, travel buddies, or someone to work on ideas with
Dear Andrew,
Thanks so much for your thoughtful review! We’re glad to hear that Japansdates is a great fit for your active and social lifestyle. Whether it’s for conversation, collaboration, or future adventures, we’re excited to be part of your journey.
Warm regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
The platform is designed with user safety in mind, which is so important in today's online environment. From profile verification to privacy settings, everything feels thoughtfully planned. Thanks!
Dear Francisco,
Thank you for highlighting our commitment to user safety. Your feedback reinforces our mission to create a secure and respectful environment for everyone using the platform.
Best Wishes,
Harlow from Japansdates
Respectful and rule-following users. I always feel safe on this platform because users follow the rules and respect privacy
Dear Sven,
Thank you for your kind words and for highlighting the respectful and safe environment on our platform. We are committed to maintaining this positive experience for all users.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
The central issues are that the site's customer service is nonresponsive and the profiles are fake. None of the women engage in continuous dialogue. There seem to be different people responding to my messages.
Dear Robert,
We're sorry to hear about your concerns. Our platform is committed to maintaining real connections, and all profiles go through a verification process. If you encountered any suspicious activity or had issues with customer support, we encourage you to reach out directly so we can assist you. Please contact our support team for further investigation.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
The website is playing on your feelings pretty well. If you are not careful you will be out more than $100 PER DAY. Oh, don't lose connection to that special someone, pay just a little bit more! Messages seem to be either AI generated or AI translated. Most likely there is one operator per several accounts. If a woman sends you a video or can be sure it's not her. Opening that video will cost you $10. A woman sent you mail? It's another $10. Not 10 credits, $10. Most of the pictures that you are going to get will be modified versions of publishes online copies of erotic magazines.
The operators behind those accounts have to receive some benefit from this activity. Therefore, they are likely to be compensated by japansdates.
In short, this is not a dating site, this is a modern version of a phone sex service.
Dear Mahony,
Thank you for sharing your feedback. The credit-based system is designed to ensure that users access high-quality features and connect in a safe and secure environment. While some services come with costs, this approach helps maintain the platform's standards and the authenticity of interactions.
We take concerns about profile authenticity seriously, and all media shared undergoes verification to prevent misuse. If you encounter anything suspicious, please don't hesitate to contact our support team at support@japansdates.com, and we’ll investigate promptly.
Your input is valuable to us, and we’ll continue working to improve the experience for all our members.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
There is no way in the world this is real. Being on this site will make you feel like your God's gift to women because you will get messages Non stop from the most beautiful women. Their photos are all PERFECTLY shot, perfect lighting, and centered, totally unrealistic. Every girl looks like she is straight off a runway. I am sixty years old and was getting 20-30 msgs a day from girls in their 20's...? You say "hello..." to them and the next msg from them is how much they love you and how "we are meant to be together " lol. Or.how they are rich and want to put their billions in your name, lol. Another interesting thing is many will list their occupations as Dr,, yet they are 21 or 23 yrs old.? I could go on and on with examples to prove it's just a scam but I will stop and plead with you, just save your money and stay away from this site.
Dear Bob,
Thank you for sharing your concerns. We understand your frustration and appreciate you taking the time to share your experience. If you’ve encountered any suspicious activity or have concerns about profiles, please feel free to reach out to our support team at support@japansdates.com. We’re committed to ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience for all users and take feedback seriously.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
Fake women, prices unaffordable, impossible to go on on an other application (WhatsApp for example). The worst dating site ever
Dear Cat,
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. We regret that your experience with the platform did not meet your expectations. We take all concerns about authenticity and pricing seriously and aim to provide a safe and honest environment for our users.
If you’ve encountered any issues with fake profiles or difficulties using the site, we encourage you to reach out to support@japansdates.com with your concerns so we can investigate and address them appropriately.
We understand your frustration and are committed to improving your experience with us.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
The side is fake and the womens start to talk about sex in the first message. Very expensive. I don't recommend. They want only money,maybe the women's work to make the customers to pay for credits.😡
Dear Michael,
Thank you for sharing your feedback. We sincerely apologize for the frustration you've experienced, and we take such concerns seriously. Our goal is to create a genuine, respectful environment for our users, and it’s disappointing to hear that your experience did not meet those standards.
If you believe any activity on the site violates our guidelines or if there have been inappropriate interactions, please reach out to support@japansdates.com with further details. We are committed to investigating all claims and taking the necessary steps to address any issues.
We regret any inconvenience caused and are here to help resolve any concerns you may have.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
Worst dating site I ever checked out!
Its called Japandates, but only a couple of the women there are Japanese, most girls are from China and the old russian southern states like Kazakstan.
All the women there are fake, claiming to live in countries they dont know anything about, a lot of them claiming to be doctors without knowing anything about medicine! When you expose them they tell you they are only there to be entertained!
After asking them to delete my profile and information, customer service send em a questioner and then just ignored me, not deleting my profile!
So I changed my photo with a black women, and changed the name and interest presenting the profile as a black, lesbian and married woman from Sweden! Still the same "women" kept writing me over and over not taking any notice of the complete twist of the profile!
Now Im convinced that most of what goes on on that site is AI...
Best advise is to just stay away from there!
Dear Claus,
Thank you for sharing your experience. We are genuinely sorry to hear about the frustration you have faced, and we take your concerns very seriously. Our platform is committed to ensuring a safe, authentic, and enjoyable experience for all users.
We would like to let you know that the profiles of our users are verified according to our Terms and Conditions. We believe in fostering genuine connections and encourage you to contact us if you have any doubts about the legitimacy of your interactions. Contact us at support@japansdates.com if you notice any suspicious activity.
Regarding your profile, please note that once a request is made to delete personal information, we aim to take action promptly. If there have been any delays, we will certainly look into this to ensure it is handled correctly.
We regret that you feel dissatisfied and are here to support you should you need further assistance.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates
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Hi William,
Thanks for sharing your experience! It’s great to hear the site works smoothly on your tablet — we know how frustrating tech issues can be, so we’re glad it’s running well for you.
Best regards,
Harlow from Japansdates