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DateYou Reviews Summary

The company faces significant negative sentiment among customers, with widespread allegations of operating a scam involving fake profiles and automated responses. Users frequently express frustration over the lack of genuine interactions, as most conversations appear to be scripted and aimed solely at encouraging additional purchases of chat tokens. The reviews overwhelmingly suggest that the platform prioritizes profit over authentic dating experiences, leading to feelings of deception and dissatisfaction. Overall, the reputation of the company is marred by claims of dishonesty and exploitation, indicating a critical need for transparency and improved customer engagement strategies.

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California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Bored.
May 11, 2023

I was a woman seeking a man. Well after I signed up. I kept getting messages to chat from 'women' I was getting bombarded with ridiculous messages. Seemed like some sort of AI chat or bot. I had to unsubscribe and block the site. Really sad that I can see how men get suckered into this stuff. Don't spend your money it's completely fake.

Date of experience: May 11, 2023
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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This site is trash, worst site EVER (hands down). All everyone wants to do is chat. No one wants to meet in a public place (for a date). I thought the point was to meet that special someone, but NO ONE, I mean one is actually out to do that. They just want you to just keep spending your money to chat. GARBAGE GARBAGE GARBAGE…

Date of experience: April 29, 2023
Illinois
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Bots constantly write you so that you will spend all your coins. Coins are used to chat with the women. So you cannot chat if you do not buy more coins. This is how the site makes money. This site is totally fake with not one real woman who will mutually leave the site with you. They try to keep you there so that you will buy more coins. A huge let down and biggest fraud out there. Stay plenty clear of these criminals!

Date of experience: March 6, 2023
Wisconsin
1 review
2 helpful votes
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COMPLETE FRAUD.BEWARE
February 27, 2023

A COMPLETE fraud...they use bots and answer center personnel.you are not talking to anyone real.Its a fake picture.just some bot or answer center person on a keyboard. Total scam... I wasted close to $1000 before checking up on them after seeing many red flags...broken english from supposedly college graduates you are talking to...BEWARE.ITS A SCAM

Date of experience: February 27, 2023
Norway
3 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Don't get engaged with DateYou. It's a big money scam to separate users from the cash! You don't get to meet real girls. You get to chat with their employees. They usually speak in short bursts and they are vague about giving any details. In all likelihood they are getting their commission for chatting with you. They pay the women for seducing men and chatting with them. Theoretically you may still meet someone genuine on DateYou website but chances are very low. It can take years. Are you sure you have that many years to waste? One day I just realized that my time was very precious and they just left DateYou without any regret.

Date of experience: February 15, 2023
Washington
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Costs Too Much!
February 10, 2023

I'm divorced and looking. Dateyou.com allows you to join for free and then soaks you per message speaking to potential partners. Not experienced in online dating, it seems there are more women seeking men (90% with children) than the other way around. I had a plethora of contacts. Most said they liked my picture. (I thought perhaps the site was paying the ladies a commission on the number of messages they could elicit from men. That's what it felt like, anyway.) All women who contacted me wanted a message back, you can't blame them. Following the purchase of $10.00 pack of "coins" each message I wrote was over one dollar per message. At $100 I was barely keeping up, in fact, I didn't keep up. This site is safe for women who just want to chat, ad infinitum. Unfruitful in the dating department for me because the women are a little fearful. Again, you can't blame them. To sum up, the site experience was expensive and unproductive. I finally pulled the plug. I had to cut my losses. You're better off buying a woman a drink at the bar. A lot cheaper and probably more fulfilling.

Date of experience: February 10, 2023
Ohio
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It's a scam
February 8, 2023

They pay women on this site to run the bill up for men.You have to pay per message sent and it's very expensive.So the women try to keep the men conversing.

Date of experience: February 8, 2023
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Date you is a con site
January 31, 2023

It is a con business. Women are not real but pics of cheap women who have sold their pics to to the site for which they seem to get commission even though it is site management which sends messages attracted by pics. A TOTAL FRAUD

Date of experience: January 31, 2023
Rhode Island
1 review
2 helpful votes
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So fake!
December 21, 2022

Hi, I'm back again. I sent in a review with the same title. But I just wanted to add to the first review that my second message to them was not sent. I'll attach it here. I wanted them to hear it from me. I needed to buy coins to send it and I wasn't going to put my credit card number in. I just can't chance that but I wondered if there was a way for that message to get to them because it infuriates me that it's fake. As I mentioned, what if I wanted to meet that woman for lunch today. She would never show up because it's fake OK you guys will do a good job investigating. Thank you.

Date of experience: December 21, 2022
Massachusetts
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Fake site
December 12, 2022

I literally am ripped w six pack no way 100 girls would say sorry I want to get to know u better first and drag me into conversation and when I texted the fake girls calling them out got weird responses I even told them $#*! off and they still text back which was supposed to cost them money? 20 cents a text to fantasize with a robot if that's your thing go to date you

Date of experience: December 12, 2022
Virginia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This site is fake
December 10, 2022

The women profiles are fake, they r pods, always online and always answer (strange, right). All have the same answers. Should have zero star

Date of experience: December 10, 2022
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Fantasyland and you lose
November 26, 2022

Good platform. The moderator gets you to text and away goes your money. One word is 50 coins. Good looking women but just a front. Read the reviews not lying.

Date of experience: November 26, 2022
Mississippi
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Scam
November 17, 2022

DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIM ON THIS SITE ITS B.S. NONE OF THE PEOPLE ARE REAL ON THEIR, TOTALLY FAKE SAVE YOUR MONEY

Date of experience: November 17, 2022
North Carolina
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Staaaay awaaaay!
October 21, 2022

Dateyou.com is 20% hoax, 30% scam and 50% fraud. In an apparent moment of weakness, I joined the site and immediately was deluged with likes and messages from good-looking women who wanted to meet me (and even wanted sex with me). And they all begged me to write back. That's the business model. Every time you write, it costs you money. The women on this site are less real than the ones who dance on poles. I'd bet the farm (if I had one) that the women on this site are actually employed by dateyou.com and are paid based on the responses they get. And the only way to cancel your membership is doing so by mail (an offshore corporation). I'd bet the same farm that the same women (I'm in North Carolina) will show up if you're in Arizona. Of all the dating Web sites, most of which aren't very good, dateyou.com is the worst of the worst of the worst.

Date of experience: October 21, 2022
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Fake profiles
September 15, 2022

Ive spoken to many many girls on this site and not one of them can answer a question relating to where their profile says they are one girl said she lived in the area all her life but didnt know where in the uk it was try it yourself to see then leave the site they respond like robots its all fake

Date of experience: September 15, 2022
Arizona
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Token hungry
September 5, 2022

Lots of bots interested but no real people so far waste of $$$.
Messaged lots of girls no one wants to meet. Just keep chatting for more token

Date of experience: September 5, 2022
New York
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Save your money!
August 30, 2022

I called them out on being a scam and the one admitted it was, I angered her of course because of the way I called her out. It's a complete scam and don't waste your time and money.

Date of experience: August 30, 2022
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Totally a falsehood. It's a Scam site. It is manipulation to steal your money. Don't fall for it.
They make you spend money and money to converse with someone. And that's a lot of money you have to spend.

Date of experience: August 10, 2022
Massachusetts
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Scam site
July 25, 2022

Biggest fraud and scam dating site I've ever tried to use. Bots and fake profiles trying to get you buy more coins. Not a chance in hell you'll ever meet a real person on this site.

Date of experience: July 25, 2022
Luxembourg
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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The only advise I can give is don't go anywhere near DateYou. It's fraud. They con you out of your money by flooding you mailbox with juicy messages written by bots. Most of the photos are stolen. I was trying to find a legit local dating app but it's definitely not DateYou. Anyway, DateYou is utter scam and money grubbers, trust me. I learned my fair share of lessons there and I don't recommend it to anyone. Don't believe these fake sexy photos. They are either stolen or belong to outdated profiles, in any case they are being misused by DateYou app.

Date of experience: June 25, 2022

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