The company faces significant negative sentiment among customers, with widespread allegations of operating a scam involving fake profiles and automated responses. Users frequently express frustration over the lack of genuine interactions, as most conversations appear to be scripted and aimed solely at encouraging additional purchases of chat tokens. The reviews overwhelmingly suggest that the platform prioritizes profit over authentic dating experiences, leading to feelings of deception and dissatisfaction. Overall, the reputation of the company is marred by claims of dishonesty and exploitation, indicating a critical need for transparency and improved customer engagement strategies.
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I was a woman seeking a man. Well after I signed up. I kept getting messages to chat from 'women' I was getting bombarded with ridiculous messages. Seemed like some sort of AI chat or bot. I had to unsubscribe and block the site. Really sad that I can see how men get suckered into this stuff. Don't spend your money it's completely fake.
This site is trash, worst site EVER (hands down). All everyone wants to do is chat. No one wants to meet in a public place (for a date). I thought the point was to meet that special someone, but NO ONE, I mean one is actually out to do that. They just want you to just keep spending your money to chat. GARBAGE GARBAGE GARBAGE…
Bots constantly write you so that you will spend all your coins. Coins are used to chat with the women. So you cannot chat if you do not buy more coins. This is how the site makes money. This site is totally fake with not one real woman who will mutually leave the site with you. They try to keep you there so that you will buy more coins. A huge let down and biggest fraud out there. Stay plenty clear of these criminals!
A COMPLETE fraud...they use bots and answer center personnel.you are not talking to anyone real.Its a fake picture.just some bot or answer center person on a keyboard. Total scam... I wasted close to $1000 before checking up on them after seeing many red flags...broken english from supposedly college graduates you are talking to...BEWARE.ITS A SCAM
Don't get engaged with DateYou. It's a big money scam to separate users from the cash! You don't get to meet real girls. You get to chat with their employees. They usually speak in short bursts and they are vague about giving any details. In all likelihood they are getting their commission for chatting with you. They pay the women for seducing men and chatting with them. Theoretically you may still meet someone genuine on DateYou website but chances are very low. It can take years. Are you sure you have that many years to waste? One day I just realized that my time was very precious and they just left DateYou without any regret.
I'm divorced and looking. Dateyou.com allows you to join for free and then soaks you per message speaking to potential partners. Not experienced in online dating, it seems there are more women seeking men (90% with children) than the other way around. I had a plethora of contacts. Most said they liked my picture. (I thought perhaps the site was paying the ladies a commission on the number of messages they could elicit from men. That's what it felt like, anyway.) All women who contacted me wanted a message back, you can't blame them. Following the purchase of $10.00 pack of "coins" each message I wrote was over one dollar per message. At $100 I was barely keeping up, in fact, I didn't keep up. This site is safe for women who just want to chat, ad infinitum. Unfruitful in the dating department for me because the women are a little fearful. Again, you can't blame them. To sum up, the site experience was expensive and unproductive. I finally pulled the plug. I had to cut my losses. You're better off buying a woman a drink at the bar. A lot cheaper and probably more fulfilling.
They pay women on this site to run the bill up for men.You have to pay per message sent and it's very expensive.So the women try to keep the men conversing.
It is a con business. Women are not real but pics of cheap women who have sold their pics to to the site for which they seem to get commission even though it is site management which sends messages attracted by pics. A TOTAL FRAUD
Hi, I'm back again. I sent in a review with the same title. But I just wanted to add to the first review that my second message to them was not sent. I'll attach it here. I wanted them to hear it from me. I needed to buy coins to send it and I wasn't going to put my credit card number in. I just can't chance that but I wondered if there was a way for that message to get to them because it infuriates me that it's fake. As I mentioned, what if I wanted to meet that woman for lunch today. She would never show up because it's fake OK you guys will do a good job investigating. Thank you.
I literally am ripped w six pack no way 100 girls would say sorry I want to get to know u better first and drag me into conversation and when I texted the fake girls calling them out got weird responses I even told them $#*! off and they still text back which was supposed to cost them money? 20 cents a text to fantasize with a robot if that's your thing go to date you
The women profiles are fake, they r pods, always online and always answer (strange, right). All have the same answers. Should have zero star
Good platform. The moderator gets you to text and away goes your money. One word is 50 coins. Good looking women but just a front. Read the reviews not lying.
Dateyou.com is 20% hoax, 30% scam and 50% fraud. In an apparent moment of weakness, I joined the site and immediately was deluged with likes and messages from good-looking women who wanted to meet me (and even wanted sex with me). And they all begged me to write back. That's the business model. Every time you write, it costs you money. The women on this site are less real than the ones who dance on poles. I'd bet the farm (if I had one) that the women on this site are actually employed by dateyou.com and are paid based on the responses they get. And the only way to cancel your membership is doing so by mail (an offshore corporation). I'd bet the same farm that the same women (I'm in North Carolina) will show up if you're in Arizona. Of all the dating Web sites, most of which aren't very good, dateyou.com is the worst of the worst of the worst.
Ive spoken to many many girls on this site and not one of them can answer a question relating to where their profile says they are one girl said she lived in the area all her life but didnt know where in the uk it was try it yourself to see then leave the site they respond like robots its all fake
Lots of bots interested but no real people so far waste of $$$.
Messaged lots of girls no one wants to meet. Just keep chatting for more token
I called them out on being a scam and the one admitted it was, I angered her of course because of the way I called her out. It's a complete scam and don't waste your time and money.
Totally a falsehood. It's a Scam site. It is manipulation to steal your money. Don't fall for it.
They make you spend money and money to converse with someone. And that's a lot of money you have to spend.
Biggest fraud and scam dating site I've ever tried to use. Bots and fake profiles trying to get you buy more coins. Not a chance in hell you'll ever meet a real person on this site.
The only advise I can give is don't go anywhere near DateYou. It's fraud. They con you out of your money by flooding you mailbox with juicy messages written by bots. Most of the photos are stolen. I was trying to find a legit local dating app but it's definitely not DateYou. Anyway, DateYou is utter scam and money grubbers, trust me. I learned my fair share of lessons there and I don't recommend it to anyone. Don't believe these fake sexy photos. They are either stolen or belong to outdated profiles, in any case they are being misused by DateYou app.
Answer: Never! Disgusting rip off! Now I'm in relationship with an honest woman. I met her on J4Dream.com This is one of the few honest dating sites, it was really difficult to find such site. My recommendation is: don't waste your time and money on Dateyou. All they can offer to their members is beautiful pictures of fantasy women and plenty of scammers who are there to milk men for money! Women (and men who use pictures of hot women) get paid by the site. Don't trust these scammers!