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I met two guys on there one use to be a thrug and and drug dealer but he was rude and arrogant and insensative he was to quick to call a woman out of her name when he was mad at her he was crazy he went by the name james34 he had a lot friends I think he was a hoe He was very ignorant rude. He lives in Hyattsville, MD I am glad I got rid of that crazy fool. Another person I met was separate at the time he told me that He was also arrogrant and had too much going on in his life with his soon to be exwife full of drama had to get rid of him as well There are no good people on that site. If you are looking for someonw thats not the site to be.

Hell yeah, i go to sign up and it takes me to Match.com of which i am already a member. Total BS people.

Red flag one; one guy said he loved me after the first date.
Red flag two; going to his house was a $#*!hole. Cat $#*! on carpets all over the house.
The place was horrible.
Red flag three; he still had his wifes photo with him in the kitchen where you eat.
Red flag four; he started dating three months after his wife died.
Red flag five; he gave me an STD and lied to me saying he didn; t have sex with anyone but his wife. I found out he did have a woman at his place and they were having sex.
Red flag six; he ended up in jail in her state for stalking and terrorist threats because she stole money from his dead wifes credit card.
This guy can lie to you to your face and I knew he was full of $#*!. He tried to make me feel guilty. He's out on bail and two years probation and has to take anger classes.
He wanted me to move into his $#*!ty house. He slept all day and never took good care of his health with his insulin. His body was so thin with a little pot belly that was unbecoming. No sex here even after std's!
Need I say more?! Here's his datehookup id name; 52scadoo.
He is a wolf in sheeps wool. Watch out. He'll sweet talk you with words that he used to call his wife. He's not healthy nor good for any woman who has respect for herself.
I also found printout copies of local hoes looking for sex on his desk.
He said he wasn't cheating just wacking off to them. What a liar to my face.
He wants to control and have a woman live with him, but he doesn't care to listen to you.
He doesn't care about you.
I'm glad I opened my eyes wide. Then he started stalking me by using text messages.
I had to block him from email and from my phone.
Such is life.
Keep looking but take your time.
Peace out.
Tired of mens $#*!.

Someone needs to file suit against datehookup.com. What a scam! I signed up with datehookup one evening and then the next morning I tried to log in. I got an error message saying that due to inactivity, I had to reset my password. Hmm… 12 hours of inactivity and I need to reset my password? I tried & the email never came. So, I emailed *******@datehookup.com. No response to date. I want to know for SURE that it was deleted. So, I tried creating a new ID and doing a search. Every time I tried it transferred me to match, ourtime, cupid, and others with a profile already set up that I had to delete. Now, I used the same ID & PW to delete those accounts but then couldn't get back on datehookup with the same ID & PW. Then I tried to log in a few days later and got the error message that my account had been deleted. Another email to *******@datehookup.com. No response to date. Today I spent 2 hours with a different computer, location, IP address, email address and ID trying to get to datehookup.com to do a search and make sure my profile and photos had been deleted. Every time I tried to set up a profile on datehookup, it sent me to match, cupid, ourtime, and several others with a profile already set up. Today I called match.com and was told about 10 times that they were not affiliated with datehookup.com. Well, if you do a "who is search" you will see that Match.com, LLC is the registrant on www.datehookup.com. That means that Match.com, LLC PAYS for the URL www.datehookup.com So, Match.com OWNS datehookup.com but they are not affiliate with them? I have no way of knowing if my profile and photos have been deleted and I am sooooo ticked about it. I won't use match.com or datehookup.com

There are a whole lot of problems with this dating site that needs to be outlined here that others have pointed out.

1. Failure to cancel subscription when one requests this (story from the complaints board)

Author: paul4ucols

Date: Posted: 2010-09-18

Topic: Won't allow me to unsubscribe, datehookup.com, Columbus, Ohio

"I suddenly could not access my account (think they blocked me for some foolish reason; I never used profanity nor did i insult anyone), nor could I then access the unsubscribe page. I gotta problem here. Who is the government agency I complain to about this?"

2. Prejudice (story from the complaints board)

Author: Madwoman

Date: Posted: 2008-11-13

Topic: Racism, datehookup.com, California

"I too have seen the racism spread at DateHookup.com. I went in there for a dating experience and found the forums to be very hateful and race filled. I have personally witnessed members who try and combat this racism, but their threads get pulled right away while the racial threads last months. If you stand up to racism there you are shunned and harassed until you leave. It often makes you wonder why you are getting your account deleted or getting on suspension. Peace seems to be a crime to this dating site while racism runs rampant and is rewarded. Many of the good clientele get sick of it and leave from the harassment. I am just wondering why there hasn't been some kind of investigation to this dating site. There have even been people commenting on death to a certain race and their thread still did not get pulled. It makes you wonder if this is even a dating site at all."

3. Profiles that are False (story from the complaints board)

Author: P. J.

Date: Posted: 2009-02-28

Topic: Fake Profiles

"A VERY good percentage of female profiles on datehookup are "fake" and I'm very tired of it. I'm assuming that it's the site administrators who respond to most the messages. You'll also notice, that there are quite a few profiles who have a "decent" pic of themselves but in the self description box, it says, "(no description provided)". When you send these people a message, asking them some basic questions, most of the questions are "dodged" and the respond back is so vague and impersonal that one can only assume that it is being answered by a site administrator."

Even though I like free sites I do not like all especially those that may be fraudulent. Datehookup.com needs to be completely halted because it is seems to be more about being a hindrance to others rather than about actually "hooking up."