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Michigan
1 review
21 helpful votes
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I have been on and off the site for 1 1/2 years, and have met two men in person. It did not go well. There are some men on the site, as you will see, have been on there for years and not made a connection. That is because they are not looking for a serious relationship and either wants a phone pen pal or sex. If it's your cup of tea, go for it. It's not me for, and I will not try it again. Even men out of state are treacherous and not serious. I will try my luck in the grocery store. :)

Date of experience: October 10, 2013
Arizona
1 review
19 helpful votes
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A lot of the men on this site are liars and mentally $#*!ed.
Ladies be careful of some of the men on BMP. The pictures on their pages may not be their real pictures or who they are. The profile information are false.
Once you meet a guy and he is telling you about marriage or telling you things you were longing to hear, that should be a red flag. Some of them wants to get you excited and convinced of their love for you before they start to defraud you of your money and emotions.
Most of these guys are scammers, please be careful. Do not let your emotions lead you to what you will regret for the rest of your lives.
Once you meet a guy online and he starts to ask you for money, do not waste your time talking with the fellow.

Date of experience: November 18, 2014
Georgia
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Crazy Men
February 6, 2018

I have been on this site for quite awhile. I have gone out with some nice men and also some crazies. I engage them for two to three weeks in phone conversations before I actually meet them. I have been fooled a few times but not many. I have not met a match yet, but I refuse to settle. I have not had a problem with billing

Date of experience: February 5, 2018
Tennessee
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Worse dating app
February 8, 2023

I signed up and even got a membership, the first man that I said not interested, he started accusing me of being a fake profile. My account was terminated and I was contacted by a gentleman who I had given my number too that he got an email saying that I was a fraud. Funny thing is we met in person and I am exactly that person. I contacted the site and so far no one can explain to me why I was terminated and why did the dating app send a email to others not even bothering to contact me, but gladly took my money. Smh

Date of experience: February 8, 2023
Texas
1 review
14 helpful votes
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I never get any real messages on the site. All I receive are those darn flirts. Then when I reply to the flirts I never get a response back. The site is full of people who send pointless flirts knowing they can't receive or respond to messages because they haven't paid for the service.

Date of experience: April 28, 2013
California
1 review
24 helpful votes
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Horrible
April 30, 2020

The worst dating site ever. The guys on here are crazy. I have had multiple men go off on me for not responding to them, one guy that I never met but exchanged numbers with screamed on the phone at me because I would not tell him who I was visiting one weekend and demanded I tell him because we were "talking". I blocked him after that call. Another guy gave me his number, told me to text him when I'm available to talk, I did and he never responded and another guy I actually went on date with stopped talking to me because I wouldn't let him come to my home where I live with my child
To pick me up for a 2nd date. Do not waste your time. These men have issues and need help. And the out of state men that really think a relationship is going to happen. I know it does happen but with me it won't. I just do not like this website.

Date of experience: April 30, 2020
Texas
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Met my husband
October 29, 2020

Met my husband on this site. I was on it for 1 day and he messaged me. We met in a public spot days later and we have been together since then. We met in March and married in November. We have been happily married for 4 years on November 5th.

Date of experience: October 29, 2020
Arizona
1 review
13 helpful votes
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Scam
May 25, 2018

Once I checked the box in my profile to Not Auto Renew, everything in the details of my profile was deleted! Only my pictures remained.
The matches could not have been worse from the full preference profile that I created.

Date of experience: May 25, 2018
Illinois
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Be careful
June 21, 2017

All the dating site say the same with the same people and most of the profile are not real and too many people trying to scam. I know the site can't control the scammer but it's too much, that's why honest people just stay away. Plus it cost way to much to be members

Date of experience: June 21, 2017
Michigan
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Save your money
October 12, 2017

I joined to meet black men, I continuously get hit on by white men. I joined to meet men, there's a bunch of boys sending flirts and picture likes, no confidence, just cowards. I made it clear in my profile not to send a bunch of likes and no flirts. I also stopped bpm from emailing me every time on of these cowards send a flirt or like and they removed me and won't refund me. Go to POF, at least it's free. BPM is a joke!

Date of experience: October 12, 2017
California
1 review
13 helpful votes
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Good site
November 24, 2017

Not perfect but good. If u weren't lucky u may wanna use blacksingles4u highly recommend it. My opinion: u can't meet someone using one of those two sites u should really just go out and meet people in a bar. In that case online datin is just not for u. My opinion Those are the only 2 sites worth joining, forget the rest.

Date of experience: November 23, 2017
Texas
1 review
55 helpful votes
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Beware of Psychos!
October 24, 2015

I tried this dating sight for only a month or so. Oh, how I wish I hadn't. I met a guy on this site that turned out to be a psycho. We went a couple of dates. I started to avoid him because I could sense severe mental problems. He started stalking me. I moved out of the area. Where I moved to he had a cousin. We somehow came in to contact for business purposes. I did not know that this was his cousin. To make along story short about 3 months after I conducted business with this psycho. I was raped by this psycho. Be aware be very careful people are not who they seem to be.

Date of experience: October 24, 2015
New York
1 review
63 helpful votes
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Fake messages
March 18, 2020

I signed up.It was okay, didnt get alot of responses.
When my membership ran out. I kept in as a member but not a paid customer.
Few hours after my paid membership expired. I looked in my inbox with them.It showed I had 99 messages and 35 flirts!
Impossible. They hold back views and send you fake likes and flirts. I learned that most of these dating sites do to get you back as a paid customer.
DONT BE FOOLED!

Date of experience: March 18, 2020
Nevada
1 review
33 helpful votes
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While I have met a few good men and remain "just friends" with them. The other 95% of men on BPM are shallow and superficial. I have given them the benefit of the doubt, and over and over again. Unfortunately, they fall short of my expectations every time. These men on BPM are such a huge disappointment and I would NOT recommend BPM to anyone. Waste of time!

Date of experience: June 25, 2020
Illinois
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Go in with an open mind
February 19, 2018

Don't look for perfection. When I first saw my husband on BPM, it wasn't love at first site. But we exchanged "picture likes," talked on the phone and then we met. He turned out the be the sweetest man I have ever met. We will be married in 11 days and I am so happy. If I could have sat down and written exactly what I wanted, I could not have done better than what God has done. Thank you God and BPM!

Date of experience: February 18, 2018
Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Fake Profiles
January 1, 2021

This site runs and promotes fake profiles. If I block a profile it just comes back up and able to still communicate. Which is a security and safety issue. Women should be able to block harassers but this site just regurgitates a profile every 30 days or so. You will also know fake profiles are sending fake messages as their verbiage is all the same. Shame on you peoplemedia.

Date of experience: January 1, 2021
France
2 reviews
20 helpful votes
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Gets the job done
November 14, 2016

All them haters, LOL! No idea what all ya were expecting by joining a dating site but this is pretty much one of the best. I've used it in the past and it ain't perfect, but it's pretty damn freakin good. I guess using this one or BlackSingles4u will get the job done. Both are by far the freakin best dating sites and I've used both of em and theynever disappointed me. You ain't happy using one of those sites you're doing something wrong and should avoid online dating.

Date of experience: November 12, 2016
Texas
1 review
16 helpful votes
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I cancelled my membership, didn't even go on the site for 9 months are more, then found out that they recharged my account after the first months for 10 more months for about $35 each month. When I reported it to a Supervisor, I was told that I should have written down the employees name at Customer Service and their employee ID number also, because the paperwork was not done. But since I did not know her ID number they would not refund my money, even though it shows I have not been on the site in almost a year. I would have to eat the $350 dollars.

Date of experience: February 28, 2015
Pennsylvania
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Don't Do It
October 2, 2021

... I'm seeking men, in a particular age group, mines... they put women out for me, NOPE! Don't wanna experiment. The things that come out these dudes mouths, b4 u even talk to them. YEARS AGO, they were the bomb.com, don't do it, and if you put yur main card in there, they will kindly take out for next month, rather you want it or not... DON'T DO IT... not worth it, the selection of men... OMG, & you know how most black men talk/treat us... DON'T DO IT, & you welcome.

Date of experience: October 2, 2021
Canada
1 review
28 helpful votes
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2 years ago got scammed Big Time... My fault. Client name (supposedly) Douglas Mcarthur Goodgridge. Originally from Barbados... so he said. Scammed ( Or Talked me out of $2000. 00) 3 meets face to face. First meeting I believe I was drugged. Woke up with injured ear and toe with NO RECALL.He kept asking me if I had a headache? If I could post his picture I would. He should be criminally charged. DO NOT USE THIS SITE!

Date of experience: December 8, 2020

Overview

BlackPeopleMeet has a rating of 1.3 stars from 449 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with BlackPeopleMeet most frequently mention credit card, customer service and fake profiles. BlackPeopleMeet ranks 649th among Dating sites.

service
65
value
70
shipping
11
returns
11
quality
69
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