I have been on and off the site for 1 1/2 years, and have met two men in person. It did not go well. There are some men on the site, as you will see, have been on there for years and not made a connection. That is because they are not looking for a serious relationship and either wants a phone pen pal or sex. If it's your cup of tea, go for it. It's not me for, and I will not try it again. Even men out of state are treacherous and not serious. I will try my luck in the grocery store. :)
A lot of the men on this site are liars and mentally $#*!ed.
Ladies be careful of some of the men on BMP. The pictures on their pages may not be their real pictures or who they are. The profile information are false.
Once you meet a guy and he is telling you about marriage or telling you things you were longing to hear, that should be a red flag. Some of them wants to get you excited and convinced of their love for you before they start to defraud you of your money and emotions.
Most of these guys are scammers, please be careful. Do not let your emotions lead you to what you will regret for the rest of your lives.
Once you meet a guy online and he starts to ask you for money, do not waste your time talking with the fellow.
I have been on this site for quite awhile. I have gone out with some nice men and also some crazies. I engage them for two to three weeks in phone conversations before I actually meet them. I have been fooled a few times but not many. I have not met a match yet, but I refuse to settle. I have not had a problem with billing
I signed up and even got a membership, the first man that I said not interested, he started accusing me of being a fake profile. My account was terminated and I was contacted by a gentleman who I had given my number too that he got an email saying that I was a fraud. Funny thing is we met in person and I am exactly that person. I contacted the site and so far no one can explain to me why I was terminated and why did the dating app send a email to others not even bothering to contact me, but gladly took my money. Smh
I never get any real messages on the site. All I receive are those darn flirts. Then when I reply to the flirts I never get a response back. The site is full of people who send pointless flirts knowing they can't receive or respond to messages because they haven't paid for the service.
The worst dating site ever. The guys on here are crazy. I have had multiple men go off on me for not responding to them, one guy that I never met but exchanged numbers with screamed on the phone at me because I would not tell him who I was visiting one weekend and demanded I tell him because we were "talking". I blocked him after that call. Another guy gave me his number, told me to text him when I'm available to talk, I did and he never responded and another guy I actually went on date with stopped talking to me because I wouldn't let him come to my home where I live with my child
To pick me up for a 2nd date. Do not waste your time. These men have issues and need help. And the out of state men that really think a relationship is going to happen. I know it does happen but with me it won't. I just do not like this website.
Met my husband on this site. I was on it for 1 day and he messaged me. We met in a public spot days later and we have been together since then. We met in March and married in November. We have been happily married for 4 years on November 5th.
Once I checked the box in my profile to Not Auto Renew, everything in the details of my profile was deleted! Only my pictures remained.
The matches could not have been worse from the full preference profile that I created.
All the dating site say the same with the same people and most of the profile are not real and too many people trying to scam. I know the site can't control the scammer but it's too much, that's why honest people just stay away. Plus it cost way to much to be members
I joined to meet black men, I continuously get hit on by white men. I joined to meet men, there's a bunch of boys sending flirts and picture likes, no confidence, just cowards. I made it clear in my profile not to send a bunch of likes and no flirts. I also stopped bpm from emailing me every time on of these cowards send a flirt or like and they removed me and won't refund me. Go to POF, at least it's free. BPM is a joke!
Not perfect but good. If u weren't lucky u may wanna use blacksingles4u highly recommend it. My opinion: u can't meet someone using one of those two sites u should really just go out and meet people in a bar. In that case online datin is just not for u. My opinion Those are the only 2 sites worth joining, forget the rest.
I tried this dating sight for only a month or so. Oh, how I wish I hadn't. I met a guy on this site that turned out to be a psycho. We went a couple of dates. I started to avoid him because I could sense severe mental problems. He started stalking me. I moved out of the area. Where I moved to he had a cousin. We somehow came in to contact for business purposes. I did not know that this was his cousin. To make along story short about 3 months after I conducted business with this psycho. I was raped by this psycho. Be aware be very careful people are not who they seem to be.
I signed up.It was okay, didnt get alot of responses.
When my membership ran out. I kept in as a member but not a paid customer.
Few hours after my paid membership expired. I looked in my inbox with them.It showed I had 99 messages and 35 flirts!
Impossible. They hold back views and send you fake likes and flirts. I learned that most of these dating sites do to get you back as a paid customer.
DONT BE FOOLED!
While I have met a few good men and remain "just friends" with them. The other 95% of men on BPM are shallow and superficial. I have given them the benefit of the doubt, and over and over again. Unfortunately, they fall short of my expectations every time. These men on BPM are such a huge disappointment and I would NOT recommend BPM to anyone. Waste of time!
Don't look for perfection. When I first saw my husband on BPM, it wasn't love at first site. But we exchanged "picture likes," talked on the phone and then we met. He turned out the be the sweetest man I have ever met. We will be married in 11 days and I am so happy. If I could have sat down and written exactly what I wanted, I could not have done better than what God has done. Thank you God and BPM!
This site runs and promotes fake profiles. If I block a profile it just comes back up and able to still communicate. Which is a security and safety issue. Women should be able to block harassers but this site just regurgitates a profile every 30 days or so. You will also know fake profiles are sending fake messages as their verbiage is all the same. Shame on you peoplemedia.
All them haters, LOL! No idea what all ya were expecting by joining a dating site but this is pretty much one of the best. I've used it in the past and it ain't perfect, but it's pretty damn freakin good. I guess using this one or BlackSingles4u will get the job done. Both are by far the freakin best dating sites and I've used both of em and theynever disappointed me. You ain't happy using one of those sites you're doing something wrong and should avoid online dating.
I cancelled my membership, didn't even go on the site for 9 months are more, then found out that they recharged my account after the first months for 10 more months for about $35 each month. When I reported it to a Supervisor, I was told that I should have written down the employees name at Customer Service and their employee ID number also, because the paperwork was not done. But since I did not know her ID number they would not refund my money, even though it shows I have not been on the site in almost a year. I would have to eat the $350 dollars.
... I'm seeking men, in a particular age group, mines... they put women out for me, NOPE! Don't wanna experiment. The things that come out these dudes mouths, b4 u even talk to them. YEARS AGO, they were the bomb.com, don't do it, and if you put yur main card in there, they will kindly take out for next month, rather you want it or not... DON'T DO IT... not worth it, the selection of men... OMG, & you know how most black men talk/treat us... DON'T DO IT, & you welcome.
2 years ago got scammed Big Time... My fault. Client name (supposedly) Douglas Mcarthur Goodgridge. Originally from Barbados... so he said. Scammed ( Or Talked me out of $2000. 00) 3 meets face to face. First meeting I believe I was drugged. Woke up with injured ear and toe with NO RECALL.He kept asking me if I had a headache? If I could post his picture I would. He should be criminally charged. DO NOT USE THIS SITE!
Answer: Yes you have to pay. You can send flirts etc. I agree with Alicia, it's legit if your looking for losers, bums, ex cons or emotionally unstable men. I would never in life go back up there. That site is disgusting. Please be very safe. Lol Tinder is the best site for dating.
Answer: You will have to get local police or private investigator involved. Most forensic teams can track the person down by their ip address and other forensic techniques that the public sector isn't aware of.
BlackPeopleMeet has a rating of 1.3 stars from 449 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with BlackPeopleMeet most frequently mention credit card, customer service and fake profiles. BlackPeopleMeet ranks 649th among Dating sites.