I have been on and off of this site for a couple of years. I have dated several different men and some were really nice guys but no love connection. I have also experienced men who were just on the site for there own gain, but that didn't discouraged me. Within the last year I have been dating a gentleman that I met on the site and hint the word gentleman. My point is sometimes you go through men that are full of the bull but there are some men who are for the right things... You just have to stay positive...
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Special precious.
I was on the site 5 years ago and thought I met the man of my dreams... got married and found out that he had been married 3 times before he married me, was irresponsible, couldn't do anything but lie about any and everything. I left last year and I am now filing for divorce.
BEWARE! This site is full of scammers in the Dallas area. Came across several guys attempting to get money from women. I guy stated he was a preacher and needed money to keep from getting evicted from his apartment. The next guy stated he was the personal doctor of the Bush family. He needed some tax write off for his business. So he offered to purchase you a car and you would only be responsible for the taxes on the car. BEWARE! - The doctor goes by the name of Micheal Williams. He will send you pictures of him and the Bush family together, him in his scrubs, etc. The other guy goes by the name of Malcolm
Well first of all i joined thinking it was going to be for 1 month. Did not notice but then i started thinking its been more than a month. Thats when i found out i was Auto Renew for 3 mos. I was able to cancel the 3rd month but it took a bit of a fight. Of course shortly after i cancelled i have a ton of Flirts and messages. I never met anyone and only had 1 brief conversation through the App. No one else ever responded to my messages.
There are a lot of rip off dating sites on the internet now days. A lot of them have fake photos, fake profiles, I don't know about this one but I have my suspicion. This is my last payment to blackpeoplemeet.
9.% of the men on the site are looking for Sex, one night stands or friends with benefits. It's a fun place to meet guys if your bored but don't expect e real love connection or to meet a good man that is marriage material. It's good for free food, boring conversations and flirty text if your bored. Philly0609 seemed to be a catch but after face timing me while he was masturbating and sending me $#*! pics I knew he was in it for the sex. He called me babe and baby from the beginning which is a No no. He took me out on a date and attempted to have sex with me without a condom. I didn't let that happen. No sir. Plus I think he has a gambling problem. Lol I've dated emotionally unavailable men & short men on this site and a lot of fake acting men which is horrible in itself. I'm attractive and a real catch but I'm also smart enough to know that this is just fun. Nothing more. Sorry Ladies. These aren't good men but thirsty bums. Proceed with caution.
I joined bpm twice. I was looking for a friend that could lead to something special. I went through the men with a fine tooth comb. It was like a needle in a haystack. I don't like to judge men but I come to realize we're living in the last days. The word is filled with so much lust and pervertiness Worldly possession the love of money being the root of all evil. Real love is no where to be found. God has blessed me so much if I never find my soulmate it probably was a blessing in disguise. Bpm is not the way to go. If it is meant to be god knows. Wait on him he's never failed us yet LADIES! Never settle
Blackpeoplemeet site has been useless from the time I joined. They have charged my credit card $16.95 each month for something I don't use. They want to charge extra for something call boost I guess to have greater use. The only thing I want is to cancel and I don't see where on this site to do that.
I cancelled my membership for renewal on a section of the site that allowed it but they renewed it anyway and for six month, then I was told that there was activity on my page after renewal so they could not help me. The activity they were talking about was someone sending me a flirt, sending flirt are as easy as just liking someone's picture, that flirt is in message form so that you think the other person actually messaged you. Well I ask to speak to a manager but was told non was available and that they would have someone call me back, there was never a callback and my future calls somehow got dropped.
I don't usually write reviews, but I don't any women to feel the way I did on this site. I had to " report" and " block:" two males within 1 month for harrassing me. Their profiles were not removed. The one created a new profile and continued to harass me. I called customer service and was told that they could not refund the rest of the balance because I wanted to get off the site due to the harassment. I checked today and both males still have profiles on the site.
It shows that I viewed people who I have not. I can hide my profile and it shows how many people viewed it (how can they view a hidden profile). Good site but need to be honest. I have met friends which is a good thing but hope BPM will stop trying to make a sale by doing these sneaky inside jobs. I contact them but they are in denial.
I never signed up for this site, but I have been charged for almost 6 month. I would try contacting them after 4 months they finally answered, said account was canceled but another month and my bank statement says differently. DONT DO IT!
I'm not a member her but I know many guys that are. Ladys be careful. These men are desperate with low self esteem and self worth. There is a guy with the initial GLS he is a black fat pig. That poses as a handsome friendly guy. On when he is standing up and sucking his stomach in. Lost of these guys move from other states with non visible diseases to stress them and there pain. There are broke as a joke. With the illusion of wealth. Don't be fooled. Drives a black Christler 300: Comes to sex you up and tried to take your money. And when he can't. Will do everything in his power to destroy you. Why th lots of threat to harm you in ever way. Be careful ladies. And men. I believe he is also bi sexual
That's kind of odd how a person put in there choice of age group preferences of men but the only messages that you'll receive is from ugly old broken down men that know one want or have Interest in & that's not on your preference age group of choice bpm lie about how many messages you received and send ugly old men false messages saying a female viewed them or likes them the whole site is a lie bpm also hold back all the messages that men sent you that you really would be interested in, that dating site sucks! It's boring & lame infestation of old unattractive men & they wouldn't even allow me to post a picture quote and every dating site have pictures quotes really strick rules considering the high membership fees
I met my husband on blackpeoplemeet.com. I had to surf through a few frogs to find my prince but he was literally the only person I'd met in person. It was definitely worth it. We had a connection from our initial contact.
Filled wit overly aggresdive, psycho men, with anger, gross sexual issues, rude, false. The site using the system to send flirts for you, review profiles on men you never look at. Just to generate conversation with loosers. Waste of money stay away. All of he profiles are not real.
This is a racist website ran by a racist company. They also own asianpeoplemeet.com and whitepeoplemeet.com. Guess which one of the 3 they don't use? That's right, whitepeoplemeet.com isn't used, but they own it so no one else can use it. I'm mixed, white and Asian. I will not use any site geared towards a specific ethnicity. If someone would have registered that name first, this site owner would be pissed saying it's racist.
The absolute worst! I was new to online dating but scanning through all the profiles I just did not feel comfortable. So after three weeks I had enough. When I originally signed up I saw they had removed 6 months of payment. I called customer service and explained I was uncomfortable and did not wish to continue the subscription please refund the balance. To my surprise no refunds under no condition I explained I did not want free service I want to pay for what I used but I should not be force to spend my my money on service that I did not want. This went from the customer service -rep all the way up to the manager on duty.
The end of my story is now I am paying 5 months of service I am not using.
BEWARE. They do not give refunds
I thought I met the man of my dreams, only to find out later that he is a con man, serial liar and serial cheater. His name is Antonio Davis from Lithonia Ga. He is diabolic and narcissistic. He disarm you with his charming personality and sweet talk but he is an evil character. Ladies beware of Tony Davis. I would try BPM again, I think there are good men on the site the only problem is making the right connection. I won't give up because of that poisonous apple!
I was also on BPMeet off and on for 3 years, and each time my subscription expires I get a lot of e-mails. Now mine you when my subscription is valid I don't get any e-mails at all. That's what they want to keep you paying. The worst site there is.
Answer: Yes you have to pay. You can send flirts etc. I agree with Alicia, it's legit if your looking for losers, bums, ex cons or emotionally unstable men. I would never in life go back up there. That site is disgusting. Please be very safe. Lol Tinder is the best site for dating.
Answer: You will have to get local police or private investigator involved. Most forensic teams can track the person down by their ip address and other forensic techniques that the public sector isn't aware of.
BlackPeopleMeet has a rating of 1.3 stars from 449 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with BlackPeopleMeet most frequently mention credit card, customer service and fake profiles. BlackPeopleMeet ranks 649th among Dating sites.