AsianDating has a rating of 1.5 stars from 149 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AsianDating most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and email address. AsianDating ranks 74th among Asian Dating sites.
They charged my credit card with over $300.00 of unauthorized charges. To keep you paying they deselected any info you send like email address and phone numbers. In addition, they charge you for any communications you attempted prior to your buying credits. Once you buy credits with a credit card, it's all out war in charging your card for unapproved purchases
If you give your bank account details to this site do so at your own risk they will clean your bank account out without you even knowing about it so don't give bank details to any of them
Dear Steven,
Please contact www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk with your concerns so we can assist you further.
You would think Cupid would do a better job monitoring their sites. Some of the scammers stand out to the point that only a blind person wouldn't see it. The most obvious are Filipino women working in China on a work visa. They all are under 40 yet are looking from men from 20 to 90 (not just a few, but 99% of them are looking for the same age group).
Here's how it works:
You write or they contact you. They spend a few messages telling you how great you are and you are the one. The contract with the people they work for is about to expire and you need to act quickly otherwise they have to sign another year contract. So send money so they can get a tourists visa (impossible to get) to come visit you and they can tell the people they work for they are not going to sign another contract to work for them.
The provide details where to send the money. Good chance they are working with someone else (male) and would split the money you send if you bite. OR you have been talking to a male the whole time who just happens to have some great female photos.
If you bite - your money is gone and so is the girl.
I'm sure there is a variance to the above scenario but in general that is how it works. There is not one girl who is working in China on a work visa that is legit. Why Cupid doesn't do anything about it is a scam in itself. I even wrote them and it was ignored.
Dear Jason,
We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. Kindly help us in reporting any suspicious profiles by submitting a ‘report abuse’ form or contacting us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
Just wanted to update my earlier review after reading several reviews here.
Yes, there are many fake profiles and many scammers. That said, I have met several beautiful young women through this site. I had to laugh at the mention of the filipinas in China. They are all scams and use the exact same MO. They all are pictures of extremely attractive filipinas that claim to be in their early 30's but look like they're in their early 20's. I know Asian women age well but it's ridiculously obvious.
A little common sense goes a long way. If you're a guy in your 50's and you're approached by a beautiful girl that's 23, you're getting scammed. If you know anything about Asian culture you'll know desirable Asian women rarely if ever make the first move. Now, that doesn't mean you can't find a real one on there. I have myself. But I made the first contact.
There are also plenty of (IMO) very unattractive girls, girls with kids... I would have to imagine they're real, although I don't have first hand experience with them because I tend to not respond to them.
The old saying if it looks too good to be true it probably is, was never more appropriate than for this site. Be careful guys and good hunting.
Dear John,
Thank you for your valuable feedback! We would like to hear about how you met your partner. Could you please email your story to lovestories@cupidmedia.com. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
I'd like to add a couple more observations to my earlier comment. While scammers I reported earlier were removed, I've noticed the last three or four have not been. This includes profiles that are using pics of models found in a simple google image search. Also, one that had been removed popped right back up using the same picture lol. I guess I'll just stop wasting my time reporting them and buyer beware.
Im from philippines and as what i have read from the reviews here, i agree that there might be some of the ladies in the site who's only there for relocation or an easy way to go to other country or maybe for money let's say. Not all are the same. We can actually find a decent lady or man if we'll just try to know them more.
I just recently joined the site and met a guy from ireland last month. Now he's planning to come and visit me here in dubai. Although it'll be a short period of time, i still hope that it will be enough to know more about him.
I never asked him about money or visa to come to ireland. I guess we cant really compare our experiences and we cant classify people based on what we have encountered.
I hope it works out for me tho? Haha anyway im just sharing my experience.
The site was ok. We just have to be careful. Scammers will always be there, we just have to be careful. I gave it a 3 cos i think it's ok for me as of now
Hi AJ,
Thank you for your detailed feedback. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
9.% of the women on this site couldn't order a beer at an American bar. They all want the golden ticket to the US, but they are too lazy to learn any English. The philippino women will descend on you like fat piranha. How many attractive women are here. The answer is 2, and they can say hi! Period, that's it... just Hi! You can't get any of these women back to the US because none of them can pass the consular interview. Don't be a chump! Oh, and there are internet scammers all over this site. Hold onto your wallet.
Hi Dan,
We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
I was here only couple hours then switch off my account. Oh man, i never ever experienced such of rude and uneducated like people in AD. I had my real pictures and in my profile i also suggest people read my profile first befofe send message. Gosh. And here we go, some man jumped in and in first message with no greeting or introduce himself. He said "if you want contact with me, don't ever ask money". So i reply "$#*! off". Or some man 50- 69 years old send me message without shame. Gosh, please show some respect.
Hi Tien,
We sincerely apologize for the unwelcome experience. We do not condone abuse or harassment on our sites. However, in order to take immediate action against this member, we need you to send us a copy of the evidence that you believe is offensive to www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
If you see a filipino girl who says she is in china she's a scammer full of lies and their intentions is to get money, avoid communication with them,
We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
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What a joke! I asked specifically for a certain age group and for women who live in Australia. All i have received is mail from older women who live overseas. I have written to AsianDating twice about this with no reply. The arrogance of these people is astounding.
Long story short, i paid for a three month membership and met my Filipina fiance in about a week after joining. My biggest regret is paying for three months instead of just one. We're now working on getting her a K1 visa.
Reading some of these 1 star reviews... it's not really the fault of folks who run Asiandating that people create fake accounts, or that the foreign girls you meet might need financial assistance to come visit you. I live in the USA. My girl has never been to the USA and didn't have the money to travel, or feel comfortable traveling alone to meet someone she never met in person. I had to go see her in her country first. If you get involved with a foreign girl, you might have to do likewise.
Overall, the website makes it pretty easy to communicate and the paid membership fees are about on par with other dating websites I've seen. I don't know how likely you are to meet someone local, but there's plenty of foreign girls interested to meet a western man.
Congratulations to you and your fiancee! We would love to hear your story. Please emails us your story and photo to lovestories@cupidmedia.com.
This site isn't perfect by any means but I found my current girlfriend on this site and have met many other good women on this site before I met my girlfriend! Yes there are scammers and bad people on this site but you have to use your common sense and choose wisely if you decide to choose to use this site! Good Luck!
Hi Bryan,
Congratulations! We are glad to hear that. We would love to hear your story. Please email team@asiandating.com with your story.
I already pay, for one membership, wanna try out does this site fake or not. I have just paid for 5 days. Everytime i joined and want to chat with people, it always asks upgrade. Very dissapointed Well, it is proof
It is FAKE.
Hi Wanda,
For us to assist you faster please contact team@CupidMedia.com and provide your registered email address or member ID so that we can investigate your profile and assist you further.
I Dany from swizerland/Zürich and I love this side. Just be smart, choose wisely & everything will be alr8
Hi Dany,
Thank you for the positive feedback!
Been using all kinds of dating sites to meet asian women and it turns our that there were only two sites which were not 1) Expensive 2) Fake 3) Exensive and Fake... AsianDating.com and AsianGirls4u.com. Not saying that those sites will bring you what you are looking for but at least they worked for me and did not leave me broke and scammed.
Hi Arnold, thank you for the positive review!
First time I join dating site and only reason find some lady for married and only I know just fake people fake pictures and fake and fake and lie and lie
I paid my one year membership and still every single time I sign in asking for upgrade and block my setting part please before pay for this crap think you just waste your money and time. Good luck
Hello Shahram,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
I am a 19 years old girl that likes old man, I dated a 38 years old man from Ireland and he living in Perth, Australia. He talked nice and we met in Bali, he took my heart after his charismatic text and I was very trust in him. Unplanned sex happened. I was on my last day of period but he still hooked up with me. Like he doesnt care. He lost my virginity at that night (13 Oct 2017), he didnt wear condom. I was there being confuse, because I think it called "raped" when there's unplanned sex and he didnt wear condom. In next day, he changed so bad!
I still like him even he changed. But like days after we met. He being cold. I started to being so confuse. I found out I got womb infection.
I tried to contact him, but he acted like a stupid mother$#*!er.
Please becareful. STD everywhere. I am an asian Victim of him.
Dont easy to trust in anybody you found in internet!
I joined this site for a one month trial in January of 2017...
And decided not to renew due to finding a relationship outside of their site.
8 months later they automatically renewed my account for 3 months and without my authorization charged my credit card. To the tune of $69.95... I am currently fighting to get this refunded as I never authorized automation renewal... They use a fradulent process to do this and then do not respond to your dispute. Just as hard is to get your credit card to repatriot your funds... as to them it appear you chose to renew... BEWARE OF THIS SITE... They use misleading and downright fraudulent practices
Hello Andrew,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
If you have lost money to someone you have met through our site, we suggest you contact your local police for further assistance. You may also file a complaint at the following link: http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
I hate this site
They wouldn't approve my second photo because it was a little dark or something, 90% of girls are fake, and almost nobody lives near me. This site defines 'you live and learn what not to do'
Hi Brian,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Stay away from this site! Loaded with fake profiles and girls trying to get you to link to sister sites that cost even more money. Most are easily identified by a reverse image search. But many are not identified. Over 90% of the profiles were fake. This site is on big SCAM.
Hello, Tim
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
Answer: It's a minefield! Total scam! Every time you mention switching to a free site, women go from hot to cold and lose interest because in fact they are nothing else than paid staff members. You hear all kinds of silly excuses. You don't get to hear this BS on http://J4Love.net because ladies are real and wanting a relationship. You may want to check it out.
Answer: Dear Ruth If you wish to switch off your profile, choose "Profile Settings" from the "Settings" menu on your member home page, then click the "click here" link under the "Switch Off Profile" heading. If you have any feedback regarding why you are canceling your membership, you will be asked to provide this during the switch off process. Once you have switched off your membership in this way, you can automatically reactivate your profile by logging in again to the site (our system will interpret your login attempt as a request to reactivate your membership). Please contact us if you require any further assistance.
Answer: For over 10 years, AsianDating.com has connected thousands of Asian singles worldwide. As one of the first dating sites in the niche, AsianDating.com is one of the largest and most trusted sites around. Not many other sites can offer you a membership database of over 2 million members with the promise of introducing you to single men and women across the world. Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by: Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine. Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior. Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages. Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site. Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
Answer: I can assure you that in any online dating sites there will always be people out there who want to make money off of you not including the fees that you have to pay to use the services on the site. You just need to be mindful that there are people who scam for a living. Just like how you may get scam letters or calls to your home or email, you'll get them in your inbox for the dating site. If you can learn to interact and filter these people who are doing these criminal activities, then you'll make the site itself much safer for everyone by reporting them to the site's support. Good luck with your searching.
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Dear William,
We do not charge credits on our site. Please contact www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk if you have any further concerns.