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AsianDating has a rating of 1.5 stars from 149 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AsianDating most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and email address. AsianDating ranks 74th among Asian Dating sites.
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I am happy I found this site. I thought there was something wrong with me.
I joined AD about 3 years ago with a one year membership. I coversed with several people but got busy and did not have time to meet anybody. I took a year off and tried again. This time I did actually meet a nice girl from the Philippines. She was very expensive flying back and forth to see me and her money for school, famly issues and sick cow did take a lot of money. She then ended up going to the USA.
Since then I have been in contact with 3 lovely ladys. The first two are in Manila and we made plans to meet and see if we liked each other. I got to Manila and received a text from the first saying my aunt is having a birthday and I cannot make it. This is after a 14 hour flight and did not sit well with me. The second one I was going to meet had to schedule the next day as she suddenly was asked to work a Saturday evening. I did not hear from her for a week.
I have just started making plans with a third person. She is from CDO, so she needs to fly to Manila. All was going well, she sent her name and I found flights. Of course, all of a sudden, she has decided to book the tickets because she got a better price. She was right, her price was only half what I could find. All I need to do is send her the 4,500 peso and she will book and fly to see me.:-)
Anyway, I guess the next one will be better?
I think maybe most of these ladys from the Philippines are just playing.
Good luck to all just do not kick out the cash...
The site is clearly set up to entice men to engage in conversations that give some hope of meeting them and when arrangements are set up for them to come to your country, they ask if you will pay for their visa and their flight and on and on. The photos are mostly taken by professionals and one can never know if they are photos of the actual person (if there is one). It's a scam using disclaimers to protect the site from being sued. If you give one of the woman your email, the conversations begin with an "I'd like to know more about you" and, after two or three more emails back and forth, the woman is saying that you're her dream come true and talking about marriage. All they really want is to con you into paying for a flight to your country in order to be your partner for life. Give me a break! I saw through the scam and have learned how to turn it around, making a great profit in the process. They still haven't caught on and I am still turning a profit.
Without a doubt this is an absolute SCAM... don't get caught up in a conversation with one of these ladies... real or not... the cost for credits is insane.
Lets pretend these are genuine beautiful Asian girls, you would spend more than an airfare from Australia to Thailand just getting to know them, due to the crazy credit pricing.
I had a little look through, and paid about $4 AU for minimal chat time... however thankfully I had the brains to look on this site, and read that they take recurring payments of 10 USD a month on the fly... you agree to this on payment for your initial cheap chat time.
$#*! THESE SCAMMING $#*!S... GO INTO YOUR PAYPAL ACCOUNT AND CANCEL THE RECURRING PAYMENTS NOW... PAYPAL SHOW YOU HOW.
Hello Terry
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behaviour.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
If you have lost money to someone you have met through our site, we suggest you contact your local police for further assistance. You may also file a complaint at the following link: http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Please contact enquiries@asian dating.com if you have any further concerns.
What a load of bull****
{[Cupid M. [AsianDating Rep] We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a Report Abuse form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact *******@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.]}
The site is full of fake profiles and some are run by the site itself! I gave them proof of fake profiles and just kept getting the same response back every time saying they needed messages and proof etc etc. I gave them this and the profiles are still up and running weeks later and still being used as it tells you when they were last on.
I decided to put them to the test so I set up a fake profile myself I added no photo and I put no info in my profile whatsoever, within 2 days I had over 100 responses with the heading in the messages (you can only see the heading unless you pay to be a member) I love your profile or you are sexy I love your picture, your cute etc etc funny how my profile was empty and there was no picture.
The profile as been active now for 2 weeks and it has had 193 messages and only 1 profile view!
On my real account which I foolishly joined with and got gold membership every single women I have spoken to has turned out to be fake by at some point asking for money to buy them a laptop to speak to me properly or pay for their internet bill and loads more excuses, 1 women asked me for money for a plane ticket to come see me after only 2 messages are they for real (no pun intended lol) never ever send money for any reason its just a con.
I joined a forum once where you could download a script for your own dating site it came preloaded with 1000's of ready made fake profiles so it looked like the site was full of women and men.
In the forum they would give you pieces of code to add to the script that would automatically send new people messages from some of the fake profiles to make it look like you were being contacted so you would join up then when you do join you never hear from them again because they were fake also you were told to use some of the fake profiles already made to contact new sign ups to persuade them to join.
Asian Dating is clearly using the same tactics to get your money from you. Don't be fooled!
This site is a con.!
Hello Fred
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behaviour.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
I know online dating has different effect on different people and what you feel will depend on your intent of joining the website in the first place. Let us say you joined with the intention of getting a wife and it works out, you will feel good right? I joined online dating just to catch fun and I definitely feel good about it. I have always had a phobia for girls that my friends used to tease me that I was gay but when I am online, all the fear evaporates and the desire to catch fun takes over.
Don't join if you are a girl looking to meet with asian men.
Most of the male members are white, or black. There are a few asians, but they are old and ugly as hell or just boring.
I got plenty of messages, all the same: You are so cute/sexy/beautiful.
All came from men who are 45-60 years old, ugly, and so fat that they have bigger boobs than me.
We are sorry to hear that our site has not met your expectations. AsianDating.com has over 2.5 million members. Here are some helpful hints to help you find the perfect match for you:
- Complete your profile to 100%. More information about you helps us improve your matches.
- Use the ‘improve matches’ feature to let us know exactly what you are looking for!
- Add more than one picture, let eligible members get a better sense of who you are.
- Refine your search, if you are searching for a specific kind of person, our advanced search function will help you get results more suited to your needs.
We wish you all the best in your search for love!
I been on this site for few years, and they took lot of money from my bank many time and contacted bank and they dont cover it against fraud for this site, because its blacklisted.
The girls are using same dresses and same sentences and most of them are free to chat so they are real time wasters and they tell you they are billionaires. And girls are not allowed to call, when i called them the once the voice was of a old women but the profile was of a young girl.
Its a big scam on the internet one can ever imagine, and if some one post good reviews of these all related site its fake review.
We are sorry that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site, we have zero tolerance toward these members. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a member, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk.
This site is rife with fake profiles. Be wary of any women who contact you directly. Especially if they appear to be very sexy models. Scammers use photos of very beautiful women to lure their victims on this site. One scammer sent me profiles that was suppose to be two different women but the photos was the same woman. Scammer forgot to change photos for each profile. Be wary if they ask for your email address and phone number. Women on this site tried to get me to sign up for other dating sites so we could chat there. It was just a scam to drum up business for a dating site with the same owner as this one. If you are looking for a serious relationship and really want to marry an Asian woman, I recommend www.blossoms.com or www.tma-marriage.com. They are legit online dating sites. You won't find many beautiful or sexy women on these site, they are the exception rather than the rule, but you won't find many fake profiles either. They also are the exception rather than the rule on these sites. There are some very attractive women on these sites, just not very many and competition for their attention isn't easy. That is to be expected on legit sites. As long you don't expect to find Miss Universe on these two sites and are willing to lower your expectations, you would do better using these two sites.
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
So, I have registered one hour ago just to check it out. I have not completed the profile information, none of it, just the email and login name. But I have already more than 20 emails sent from Philippines and China, and still coming with the subject "you are cute" and "nice photo"... (no photo uploaded yet), and "I like your profile"... what?. Come on! It cannot be more fake than this... I think you all know what to do. And about the fake profiles? Well the administration is doing very bad... or not?.
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact team@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
Asian dating review
It's definitely better than it's sister ip, thaicupid. Beside the two Sharing similar
Features and aesthics, you'll mainly see women from the Philippines, Vietnamese and a few from Indonesia, china, and even a couple from all corners of the world. There's also less scam profiles than you see in other free sites (by fake I mean that one troll pulling photo of a hot chick with boobs, $#*! or other skins revealing, while saying little to none about "herself" in her descriptions.) and I gotta say, their were more people who responded to my messages and Skype requests here than in Thai Cupid, much less in other free dating sites like okcupid. To put in context, I got three skype contacts in the past year when I restarted my okcupid account when I opened it last year and shut it down a month ago. In Asian dating, I got more than several contacts. In less than a month after I signed up for the site gold membership subscription. And even more contact requests than the women I tried to meet on Thai Cupid. I would advise getting a month gold subscription. 3 months gold at the max, since these should be plenty of time to find yourself some friends or lovers. And beside, not only do the costs add up, 30 dollars for one month, 60 dollars for three months up, but some of the features you find as a platinum member, like being able to translate your English to a Vietnamese who speaks only Vietnamese, might just be a waste of money to you (cause what would be the point meeting her or him if you can't communicate from the get go? This thought bubble is coming from an impatient guy like me, but if your down with learning your girlfriend language for easy communication if your interested in language learning, go for t man! XD) . In short, easy to use website, very responsive, guarantee to get messages from real girls if their interested to you. And an awesome easy to use customizable search engine for your "ideal" girlfriend or person you want to meet if your willing to pay for gold status on this site. Happy hunting boys and girls :).
I have travelled four times to China to meet women from this site. I have always heard excuses why they could not meet. They promised me to meet and suddenly they do not come to the airport or they do not come to the meeting. I find this site to be a scam. I have proof of it.
Hi Michel. Please email us on team@chinalovecupid.com with your member I. D and email address registered and we can assist you further.
I joined this site a few month ago, in the beginning it was so excited. Some members sent interested, also they sent messagel to me.
But, when i asked them to communicate by video calls, some of them rejected it or they gave thousand reasons to avoid it.
As the result, i fed up to meet people in such kind of online sites. Or perhaps i am not lucky.
I dont want to waste my time to meet fake people eventhough i believe some of them are real.
Thanks for reading.
Dear Belo,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact team@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
There was a bald, $#*! ugly white police officer named Will that contacted on that site. He insulted my race, said some vulgar crap to me. He was an ignorant ugly bald idiot! He is pathetic that's why he insults people for his own ignorance. I wish the site would edit emails that people send!
AsianDating.com (yes Dating, not Date, it is with an ING at the end) is a scam. They scammed me twice and they also have double standards and are racist. They will reject your photo because you are male, same photo of a female they accept! For example: face in profile. Male: reject, female: even with dark sunglasses and in profile: accept! I tested it many times and they do it all the time, also with different races as well. They favour Asian women and they reject male and other races a lot. For no reason! Don't feed these scammers your money.
Further to my previous comments below. I am delighted to report that exactly as promised in A. D.'s business reply, I have received a full refund of my membership fee.
I still do not understand all of the jiggery Pokery with withdrawal of access, then reinstatement then further withdrawal.
Also the various requests for personal ID verification, and would strongly advise NEVER to give info of this sort to persons on the internet whoever they say they are.
Still, it is only fair and honest to say I was offered a refund and have received it.
Dear Steve, Kindly note In order to prevent fraudulent payments on our websites, our billing department reviews certain transactions. Unfortunately, for some transactions we require additional verification to prove that the person making the transaction is authorized to do so.
CREDIT CARD PAYMENTS: we request that you email us proof that you are in possession of your credit card.
To do this, please send us a scanned copy of your credit card (front and back) or your card statement AND a copy of your government issued photo ID to team@asiandating.com.
We must clearly see your name, the expiry date and the first 6 numbers and last 4 numbers on the front of your card. You may censor the middle digits on the front of the card and the CCV (the last 3 digits) on the back of the card for your protection. If sending your card statement we must clearly see the name and billing address, you may censor the transaction details.
Remember to also include the following details: - Member ID or email address - AsianDating
If you used another person's credit card to make your payment, you must ALSO include a signed letter of authorization from the card holder, stating that you are authorized to use their card for your payment.
PAYPAL PAYMENTS: we request that you email us a copy of your photo ID that matches the name on your PayPal account.
To do this, please send us a scanned copy of your government issued photo ID to team@asiandating.com.
Remember to also include the following details: - Member ID or email address - AsianDating
If you used another person's PayPal account to make your payment, you must ALSO include a signed letter of authorization from the account holder, stating that you are authorized to use their account for your payment.
Please note that you will only be required to verify your payment once. However if you use a different credit card or PayPal account in future, our system may require verification for some transactions.
Once we receive your verification, we will confirm that your verification is acceptable and begin your membership. We apologize for any inconvenience caused, however we have been forced to introduce additional verification steps due to payment from some of our members.
If you do not wish to do this, please advise us and we will cancel your membership and issue a full refund to your account.
Total scam. Girls are full of it if they are real at all... cost me thousands to find out... you can meet 'em but they have no ambition to even get up out of bed... forget about finding a job... and never contact any of them in China... a $2K mistake. Fake travel... fake everything. Fake visa. Should be closed down and someone prosecuted
When I upgraded my membership to AsianDating.com to become paying member they accepted and took $34.95 right away from my visa card. 10 minutes of browsing and my account is cancelled by their computer. They apologized for the mistake but they asked me to pay another $34.95 to get back on my membership. After 1 month I am still trying to get my money back but they are just fooling me.
Please stop all with my adress and creditcard,
You have invoiced me 9.99US$ without my
Autorization. I will never pay that in future, my contact with mastercard Corner banca Switzerland,
Will change my Card.
Please stop all now on card 5498 6301 6919 7136
And pay back this amount E. Buchmann
I have been a member of Asian Date for about a year and a half. In that time I can tell you it was indeed a waste of my hard earned money for sure. The ladies get you to read and write letters as well as chat and video with them but that's more expensive. When you want to get their personal info you have to go through a phone call which costs around 100 dollars. Once you get the email from the lady it might be real or fake but it's usually at least 25 letters long. You can send an email but most of the time she won't reply back or send about a sentence saying she's to busy to write. Then the lady will either disappear off the site or if you go on the site you will notice she may have changed her name but is chatting with someone. Don't DONT log in to chat it's just not worth it. I found the perfect woman without really trying that hard. You want a really good woman wife or girlfriend? Then take a flight to the Philippines as soon as you can! I promise every day you will have a smile on our face and your money will go a very long way there plus you can get a great tan as well. I do hope this will help others like me who feel lonely or want a Asian wife making the mistake I did! Good luck in your search! If anyone needs to reach out to me please feel free to contact me at *******@yahoo.com
Answer: It's a minefield! Total scam! Every time you mention switching to a free site, women go from hot to cold and lose interest because in fact they are nothing else than paid staff members. You hear all kinds of silly excuses. You don't get to hear this BS on http://J4Love.net because ladies are real and wanting a relationship. You may want to check it out.
Answer: Dear Ruth If you wish to switch off your profile, choose "Profile Settings" from the "Settings" menu on your member home page, then click the "click here" link under the "Switch Off Profile" heading. If you have any feedback regarding why you are canceling your membership, you will be asked to provide this during the switch off process. Once you have switched off your membership in this way, you can automatically reactivate your profile by logging in again to the site (our system will interpret your login attempt as a request to reactivate your membership). Please contact us if you require any further assistance.
Answer: For over 10 years, AsianDating.com has connected thousands of Asian singles worldwide. As one of the first dating sites in the niche, AsianDating.com is one of the largest and most trusted sites around. Not many other sites can offer you a membership database of over 2 million members with the promise of introducing you to single men and women across the world. Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by: Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine. Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior. Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages. Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site. Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.
Answer: I can assure you that in any online dating sites there will always be people out there who want to make money off of you not including the fees that you have to pay to use the services on the site. You just need to be mindful that there are people who scam for a living. Just like how you may get scam letters or calls to your home or email, you'll get them in your inbox for the dating site. If you can learn to interact and filter these people who are doing these criminal activities, then you'll make the site itself much safer for everyone by reporting them to the site's support. Good luck with your searching.
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Hello, George
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behaviour.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact enquiries@asiandating.com if you have any further concerns.