Ashley Madison

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1 review
6 helpful votes
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I recently joined AM and paid some good money to buy credits. Surprisingly I was able to receive coupe of emails from two 'women' from different parts of the UK. But here is the evidence to declare AM is s scam. Both women' email had the same content word by word. Anyway... congratulations to AM's computer programmers for making good money with couple of lines of computer programme to create automated messages... But a small piece of advice... at least make sure you are not sending the content to same 'lover' like me from different girls...

Date of experience: July 22, 2017
India
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I disagree with most reviewers. I have been using this site for a few weeks, haven't met anyone but chatted with a few nice ladies. The site seems totally legit to me.

I read many people complaining about fake profiles and stuff like that but hey guys, wake up: It is the internet!

Like I said, only used it a few weeks to get a first impression. Next on the list is Saphrina, which I also only heard good things about. Feel free to stay tuned and check my reviews. Rock on!

Date of experience: July 19, 2017
Pennsylvania
1 review
26 helpful votes
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Fraud
June 18, 2015

I have met real women from the site. But there are many times I receive collect messages from women, then they disappear. It is AM itself doing this to use up your credits and make you spend more money. And who is going to file a complaint? Married guys trying to be discreet. I don't think so. They know this and take advantage of it.

Date of experience: June 18, 2015
New Zealand
1 review
10 helpful votes
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The website is a ripe off
February 10, 2015

The website is a ripe off. They are always charging money for everything and still give bull$#*! service. On the other side you will get countless spam in your inbox and hoax emails from other members which is the most worst part.

Date of experience: February 10, 2015
Sweden
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Not convinced yet
June 3, 2016

There are definitely some real women on AshleyMadison but not as many as id like. When I compare it with nostringsaffair.com or VM id say I probably get less replies. Not sure if its worth paying for another month but will see.

Date of experience: June 3, 2016
Germany
1 review
15 helpful votes
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So so
October 24, 2016

I've received bunch of fake messages until I decided to buy credits. After that I realized that those women who messaged me were not real so I decided to become proactive myself. Overall experience was okay though but I won't use it again in the future.

Date of experience: October 24, 2016
Massachusetts
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I've read reviews here from disgruntled men who may not have gotten a date with the woman they were pursuing. Perhaps the experience for women is different. But as a woman on that site, it is impossible to respond to every man who contacts you. Some men, after seeing my pictures, told me they thought I was 'fake' and they wanted my email address to prove I was real. I for one, won't waste my time with men who are suspicious. Also, many MANY men do not have a profile picture. I NEVER responded to a man without a face on his profile picture (you can blank out your eyes). I had 3 clear pictures of myself on public profile with eyes blanked out. It's enough to give a person a clear idea of your looks. And yes, it is about looks. After all, we're married and there's no other reason to do this than pure physical attraction.

Date of experience: January 24, 2015
California
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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100% SCAM!
July 26, 2021

This site is absolutely loaded with fake profiles. I got bombed with messages from scammer after scammer with profiles saying they are from countries all over the world... yet ALL of them tell me they currently live in my city. Every one of them try to get my phone number, claiming that they want to text me pics. The site is designed to share pics, yet they ALL say they want to text them to me directly. When you push back, their entire profile will usually vanish within minutes. I don't even know how they make it disappear so fast, but it happened over and over. I'm guessing this garbage site is driven mostly by bots. Anyway, I've yet to talk to anyone that appeared to be a real person, so it was 100% a waste of money. I was charged $78 and in less than 12 hours, I have almost no credits left, because I burned them up talking to bots and/or scammers.

Date of experience: July 26, 2021
Rhode Island
6 reviews
51 helpful votes
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Women- there are a lot less of us on here than there are men, which is to our advantage. Put up your profile and they will come in droves. The men I have met are all professional, successful, attractive men and you can really pick and choose between them. I have had one three year affair, one two year affair, and several shorter term things. I love the site! My husband has not been as lucky. There are so many men it is difficult to stand out and get a woman's attention. I got over 700 messages the first few days after I signed up. Impossible to read through them all, which is why people are reporting that they don't get responses. My husband is not very assertive on the site. One of my lovers has had a lot of success because he tried. He actively messaged women, and several responded over the years he has been a member.

Date of experience: July 22, 2015
New York
1 review
3 helpful votes
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It works
February 10, 2017

As a women, I can tell you that this site works. I've met and hooked up with a lot of great guys. However, I will say that since there are considerably more men than women on the site you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd. Women like to be wined and dined and brought on business trips, to a nice hotel, etc... Be patient, it works. I found a great guy who I have been hooking up with on a regular basis for over 2 years now and we are very happy with the arrangement.

Date of experience: February 10, 2017
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I was on AM several years ago and found it to be a lot of fun. I met wealthy, successful, married gentlemen who treated me very well. I enjoyed their company and their money. Each relationship lasted 2 to 3 months. If you're a lady who enjoys fine dining, shopping, casinos and travel then you'll be pleased with AM.

Date of experience: July 8, 2023
New York
1 review
25 helpful votes
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Rip Off
June 8, 2020

I been with Ashley Madison for about a year now and they always trying to scheme for more money. There are so many fakes on the site. Even if you pay your fee, they're looking to get more. One thing they do is to charge 29.99 for some service fee month for profile responding to requests. Another thing they do is charge 5 credits collect when someone respond with "quick" message. And watch out for automatic renewals they will rob you blind. I pay with PayPal and right away disable the automatic renewal.

Date of experience: June 8, 2020
Massachusetts
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I have been attracted to the site by its rather "good reputation" and it turned to be a total disappointment for me.
After using it for a month I am absolutely sure this is a 90% scam. The rest 10% is covered by "professionals" in the field of "dating".
Many if not most of the conversations are probably computer generated, not initiated by real people.
And, believe me, I had a very reasonable expectations, was not looking for a twenty years younger beauty, not even five years younger one. And I am not ugly person at all.
And the most frustrating thing was this fake responses from some kind of a "smooth operator".
Total waist of money and time.
Even one star would be probably too much to give.

Date of experience: November 5, 2021
GB
1 review
12 helpful votes
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I've given this a good shot and been comparing it to other main online affairs sites like nostringsaffair.com. It falls short of that site, which simply has more women. But it is also better than some of the complete time wasting sites ive tried out too. From my research its clear that a lot will depend on where you live, US and Euro cities tend to be fine but other places just dont have the women. But a part from that the site works fine and the app is decent. Just dont tell the wife!

Date of experience: May 4, 2019
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Had a slow start on this site but by the last month was really doing well, if I may say so myself! Decided to give it another month to see if any of the women im speaking to (there are three, for the record) end up meeting up with me. The chats have been pretty hot so far so im hopeful, but the proof will be in the pudding. I know since I tried nostringsaffair.com earlier in the year my batting average has been pretty good so if I can manage the same on this site ill definitely be getting some action with a hot married chick! Wish me luck! Will do a follow up review after the month is up as im sure that will help some of you make a decision. James, 31.

Date of experience: March 6, 2017
RU
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Ashleymadison is the worlds largest affair website. No doubt about it! I have been using it back in 2014 and I never had any problems! If you ask me, there are only two or maybe three legit affair websites and Ashleymadison is one of them along with Saphrina. I don't care what everyone else is writing. I only know that I had great results using those sites.

Date of experience: June 24, 2016
California
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Things don't look right.
December 8, 2020

I wrote a previous review where women who are not looking for Asian men but still sending me messages when my profile says I'm Asian. Now I have a guy who accidentally entered single female looking for males on his profile sending me messages. It looks like the website might be auto sending random matches. I did get a request from a young lady and both shared our photos but nothing since.

Date of experience: December 8, 2020
Australia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Never been on a site like this before - I am finding it very satisfying - its free for women to be on the site and if you don't mind being inundated with $#*! shots and requests for your pics its working out well...
It just depends what your expectations are...

Date of experience: April 28, 2014
India
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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Yep
October 25, 2017

It does take some money to get through the process but if you really want to hook up, it can be well spent. I prefer good affair sites like Ashley Madison or Saphrina over lame dating apps or time wasting dating sites. Be realistic, persistent and you will succeed.

Date of experience: October 25, 2017
Canada
1 review
20 helpful votes
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SCAM!
April 20, 2015

Not only is majority of female respondents fake, any positive feedback on this site is probably written up by them. This site is setup specifically to scam. They have people (male & female) working in the back office to send fake reply messages. Once you pay then nothing happens.

Date of experience: April 20, 2015

Overview

Ashley Madison has a rating of 1.4 stars from 898 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Ashley Madison most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and real women. Ashley Madison ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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