Ashley MadisonReviews 899

Hi, i have been on and off Ashley Madison over the past few years. I live in the UK, I am single and have found the men on this site really nice and intelligent. I have tired to find decent men on traditional dating sites but find most men are game players. At least on AM I know what they want.

Hi, is this thing on? OK, basically i've figured out after a looooong time that these sites do work if you follow certain rules, for example:
1 use a good site with good reviews (e. G this one or nostringsaffair.com both rank high)
2 avoid sites that you've never heard anything good about (or anything about period)
3 ALWAYS run a search in your area to see results before you get sucked into paying
4 spend time on your profile and dont copy n paste intro messages, women see thru that jazz
5 when you find a good site dont stop looking, this game is cheap for what youre getting so use multiple sites. Called the law of averages guys;-)
Thank me later & feel free to add me to your xmas card list hahaha. V x

The reputation kept me from buying credits for a while but when I finally decided to pay things got good.

But let me clarify: I'm a wealthy, decent looking man who takes care of his body. I've had success on three other affair /adult dating sites; Saphrina, Aff and another one who I will not name because I don't particularly like it. So I know what I am doing.

Buttom line; You need to buy credits if you expect results. It can be a little pricey but can b worth it. If you are not decent looking things will become a little tougher. Be prepared to lower your expectations.

I am a successful, 47year old. On this site, you have to watch out for whatever seems too good to be true. Many young, beautiful girls will contact you, and you pay the site (in coins) to reply. Recently, a woman who was supposedly 29, connected with me and we were soon sexting and Skyping while she masturbated. She tried to get me to show her my $#*!. Fortunately, I did not, because she recorded our skype and tried to blackmail me! Just be careful, please.

Some things need a bit of controversy to become the best they can be airlines (think United), cars (think skoda used to be pretty much hated and nowadays has shed that image), donald trump (ok, the jury's still out on that one my fellow americans!) and now cheater/ affair dating sites. I like the new ash mad. I've been using nostringsaffair.com for years and had a lot of luck on it and tho id never stop using that site, I am now considering paying the extra membership fee for ash mad because it really aint half as bad as I was expecting. I like when companies come back stronger and I really do think that could be the case here folks. Check it out!

This has to be one of the biggested scam website with a lot fake female profiles. Out of 100 massages sent only 2 replied in 2 month period. Once you purchase a good amount of credits, you will get a lot of massages or winks in the beginning to make you use up your credits to send massages. Of course, you not going to get any massages back almost 90% of those female profiles are fake. Do not wast your time. I had a better luck on CL with free posts

One guy wrote that it takes time and commitment to have success with this site and I can't agree more.

But let's face the hard facts here: 90-95% of all cheater websites are a waste of time! There are only a few sites which are worth joining such as Ashley Madison and Saphrina and every guy joins those sites looking for an affair. No big secret that there is a surplus of men and only patient guys get rewarded. That's just the way it works!

If you are looking for a quick 24h-hookup this site ain't the best place to find it. Ashley Madison DOES WORK but it sure ain't perfect. Sure you can also check out Saphrina but don't expect faster results. It also works but same story here: Patience!

I spent about $250 to join AM. I set up a spread sheet to track my activity and outcomes because the site retains sent messages for 10 days only. It becomes very difficult to see who has been contacted.

Over the course of roughly 6 weeks I reached out to 62 women with personalized messages. Some received multiple notes. The woman were within 10 years of my age, that is to say they were all over 40.

The results after sending notes to 62 profiles:
- 29 women looked at my profile. I sent a note to most of the 29 who viewed me.
- 7 women sent notes after looking at my profile or responding to my 2nd message. 2 responses were to say they weren't interested
- of the remaining 5 who responded, 3 have been slow or did not reply to a follow-up
- 1 swapped notes and had potential to got to the next step. She shared a real photo of herself (profile photo's are often a shared image) and wasn't my type.
- 1 is still in contact and may have potential

I'm in my early 50's and am in very good physical shape. I'm not the elephant man.
Perhaps I'm just an $#*!. Whatever the reason, AM did not work for me. I've spent about two thirds of my credits and I'm bailing. It's been a waste of my time.

Safe to say that most people here are using these affairs sites because the chances of hooking up with a married woman in a bar is non existent. Plus if they arent on AshleyMadison (or any of the other main affairs dating sites like nostringsaffair.com, etc) then theres no chance to get to know them a bit before you meet them, just to be sure they arent going to screw with your life after theyve screwed with your $#*!. I've tried other non-affair sites but it's just too risky. This way you both have the something to lose (your relationship) and it removes a lot of the risk that comes with cheating. I wouldnt cheat any other way.

Don't be a fool expecting to meet someone the first week. It takes time. When I first signed up I did not get a single response within the first two weeks. People complaining about AM usually feel like they got cheated (isn't it ironic) but the reality is that they just weren't patient enough. There are lots of members and the chance of having an affair if you live in a major city isn't bad at all. I personally like Saphrina a little more because for me it hooked me up a little faster but maybe that was just luck, who knows. In general I'd recommend AM. Just keep in mind that it is not an online-brothel. Women won't be waiting there to fulfill your desire.