• AdultFriendFinder

AdultFriendFinder

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.9 stars from 665 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service, and gold membership problems. AdultFriendFinder ranks 720th among Dating sites.

  • Service
    92
  • Value
    93
  • Shipping
    28
  • Returns
    41
  • Quality
    82

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Positive reviews (last 12 months): 5.4%
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  • Forcing people into paying for a Gold Membership this way, is unethical, if not illegal.
  • Customer service is beyond pathetic can never get a supervisor on the line.
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Top Positive Review

“Not for youngsters”

Seenvik H.
3/7/24

Youngsters, pass it by, it's not for y'all :) Jokes aside this is a great service uniting lone hearts around the globe =) I used it regularly and have no complaints at all. It was interesting for me how things are done here, but now, after testing the waters, I am like a fish in it. A couple of simple steps and you aren't alone anymore, and next day, and the following too. Ha, thank you guys for creating this dating service, for me it's of utmost importance having a such one under the belt.

Top Critical Review

“Illegal site. It is not free. Fake ladies that try to blackmail you. Do Not Sign Up. You regret it.”

Jerry B.
2/11/24

The site states "FREE". Wrong, it's not and the ladies are fake. A fake front to blackmail you. They threaten to post all your information on the web, but don't fall for it. They place very attractive pictures and a chart will start. You think you are taking to a lady but you are not. It's a scam. Do not send any photos of yourself. Avoid this site at all cost. I canceled and deleted all my information within a half hour.

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Thumbnail of user nickm692
1 review
25 helpful votes
August 14th, 2020

I'd say that AFF is probably above average, there's definitely worse out there and it has the most important thing - a bunch of women. Id say it's not got as many as hookuphangout.com (in my area certainly) but still has enough to keep you busy. There are occasional time wasters but overall i like this site a lot and will be taking a longer subscription when my month trial runs out. Happy days.

Thumbnail of user davef254
3 reviews
26 helpful votes
May 12th, 2020

It's a complete scam! I wish I read all the negative reviews before I joined AdultfriendFinder that is full of fake profiles, who use sexy photos of Instagram stars, to seduce you and ask you for money. There are no chances of meeting these sexy chicks, cause someone's just misusing their photos. Don't risk putting up you credit card details on AFF, they like to add unauthorized charges. Just stay away from this scam, there's nothing to do there if you want to hook up with a sexy girl.

Thumbnail of user joshj16
1 review
17 helpful votes
March 23rd, 2016

Quite like AFF. Good search system and busy site. Its better than most sites and not having any problems with scammers so far. Descent enough value for money. I also recommend using other sites in addition to AFF to increase your chances. The other one I personally use is Flirtydater.com

Thumbnail of user jimk63
2 reviews
34 helpful votes
March 11th, 2016

I signed up to AFF last week and have been using it most nights, doing some searches and sending a few messages out. Have to say Im pretty impressed by what Ive seen. From reading other reviews I thought Id be dealing with scammers a lot but it isnt really too bad and the site is easy to use. As for girls in my area, again its fine. Maybe not as many as HookupHangout.com or a couple of others out there, but still enough to keep me busy! Hoping to meet up with one of the girls Im speaking with soon, hopefully this weekend. Overall Id say 8/10 but that could go up if I get some action by Sunday!

Thumbnail of user markc798
1 review
23 helpful votes
July 5th, 2019

AFF is working a lot better than it used to. I think top sex sites like hookuphangout or flirt have raised the bar so the golden oldies have no choice but to bring their A game'. I for one welcome this development, its about time us horny singles got a good deal. It's finally a buyers market, so screw the time wasting sites!

Thumbnail of user miket113
42 reviews
533 helpful votes
January 27th, 2016

I enjoy my membership with AFF as much as I do it with couple other sites I use to have a guaranteed success (check out Hookuphangout.com for example). But guys, stop complaining that there are so many fake members on the site! Yes, dating industry is suffering from Nigerian scam and cam girls. Keep your mind clear and don't send any money to the members of the site. None of real members would ask money from you. And if hot looking girls inviting your to another site to have a private chat - report them straight away!

Thumbnail of user crystalt73
1 review
2 helpful votes
October 26th, 2019

I am a woman using Adultfriendfinder so my experiences may be a little different but in my opinion Adultfriendfinder is one of the few sites which are actually worth joining. I mean as a woman you usually don't have any issues finding guys who are looking for a good time but somehow it seems like most guys on Adultfriendfinder are nicer and more respectful. Don't know why but I usually don't feel very comfortable using those sites- So if you are a woman looking for a good time I can highyl recommend it. Another good options is CasualsexOnly. It seems like a very female friendly hookup site and actually some of my friends been using it also.

Thumbnail of user mosest4
2 reviews
22 helpful votes
April 19th, 2018

Not a bad site for NSA sex. Nice combination if you use it with hookuphangout.com gets me sex at least twice a month;-)

Thumbnail of user alexanderk57
1 review
6 helpful votes
October 29th, 2017

Just thought I'd add my two cents about AFF:

Joined a few months ago and met some nice girls on AFF. None of them was superhot but they were okay looking. As far as im concerned AFF pretty much rocks, maybe the best I've used since I was banned on CasualDating4u. Just be realistic and don't expect that every single girl you chat with wants you to bang her brains out straight away.

Thumbnail of user teresal227
1 review
2 helpful votes
March 8th, 2020

Worst customer service I have ever experience. I have been waiting two weeks for a phone call back to tell me why my account has been blocked. I have called several times and every time I get the same answer "someone will call you back" Two weeks later still no phone call or explanation. The site itself is a great site, but clearly they have not properly trained the staff to take care of the customers.

Thumbnail of user jamesa513
1 review
16 helpful votes
June 21st, 2018

Been trying several hookup sites during the last months and Adultfriendfinder and Casualsexonly seem to be the best for now. Fast an easy sign up and the whole site is pretty straightforward. I spotted some fake profile but majority of the people seem real. Looks like a solid site to me. Think I will stick to it.

Thumbnail of user alexk287
1 review
22 helpful votes
October 6th, 2019

Screw the haters yo adult friend finder is still up there with hookuphangout and tinder as the nearest you are gonna get to a sure thing in this game. Takes time and effort yo but this is america yall, so what dont feel me?

Thumbnail of user briana285
1 review
15 helpful votes
June 8th, 2018

I was highly successful on the site. Wasn't too hard meeting women at all. You just got to know what you're doing. First, you must be willing to write a decent profile which is grammatically correct. Guys lose the dirty pics and have a face pic. Trust me I've talked to enough women to know that's not a great opener. Save that for later.

What's your intent? Believe it or not, there are several women on AFF looking for a relationship. You can meet a decent woman on AFF. Within the first day, I had two opportunities in my area to have casual sex. After careful thought, I decided that's not what I was looking for and politely backed out. After that, I just mainly cruised profiles and had some wonderful conversations with all types of women across the country. When you reply to a profile just be respectful and don't start out with vulgar sex talk. Gezzz have some class and the ladies will respect that.

Finally, I met a wonderful woman which we share the same interests. We're hitting it off quite well. Recently I've deleted my profile because we've committed to each other. So here's my review on AFF. It's a great site for casual sex or finding a relationship. You must have thick skin and know how dating sites work though. Cheers.

Thumbnail of user stevens240
1 review
9 helpful votes
November 22nd, 2017

Have been using this site for about 3 months now. I did manage to meet two women, both I had sex with. It's really what u make out of it. In my opinion
One of the best hookup sites but keep in mind that the more sites u join the better ur chances. I would also check out casualdating4u or maybe benaughty

Thumbnail of user tomm1055
1 review
33 helpful votes
March 13th, 2016

Probably one of the best sex site going. A few mates said HookupHangout.com is getting them quite a few shags, but ive not bothered with it yet cos im doing fine with AFF. If its not broke dont fix it, thats what I say! Lol!

Thumbnail of user samw107
1 review
28 helpful votes
March 12th, 2016

Been using AFF for a week now and the only site ive rated higher so far was HookupHangout.com, earlier in the year. Here are some notes ive made on AFF.
- Easy to register
- Good search tool
- Super nice mobile app
- Normal amount of fake profiles
- Too many emails
- Not enough girls in my area (Birmingham)
- Same price range when compared to the rest
- Good messaging system
- Decent standard of girls (looks wise)
- Maybe 1 reply from 10 messages sent, standard

Thumbnail of user aj556
1 review
0 helpful votes
March 20th, 2017

Great site in terms of looks, usability and features but im not getting that many replies. Im not dumb enough to expect a reply every time but I would expect 3 or 4 in 10. HookupHangout.com is the other site I use and it comes in around 50% replies id reckon, so as much as all the features and members are nice to see, for me its about interaction and AFF needs to do a bit better to get my hard earned Aussie dollars!

Thumbnail of user louiss57
1 review
6 helpful votes
April 12th, 2017

AFF has been around for a long time and it is an established community with mostly real users. I have used it in the past and what can I say: I had a blast. Messaged a countless number of chicks but actually hooked up with two of them. My advise. Just send out messages that really work, nothing like hey Hun, What's up?!... just be creative and don't forget to stay active. I usually double up by trying ouT several hookup sites. AFF, CasualDating4u and BN will get the results that you've wanted. Have fun!

Thumbnail of user russellp105
1 review
35 helpful votes
January 18th, 2020

I like how adult ff is super easy to use so even a dummy like me can get laid on this lol! Only time ive ever used websites to get laid was with hookuphangout and if this is anywhere near as good as that site then ill be one happy dude:-)

Thumbnail of user justint77
1 review
10 helpful votes
February 10th, 2018

The ratio of men to women and couples must be about 50:1 so don't expect wonders. Spend at least half an hour looking at other profiles and spend another half an hour composing your own profile. It is worth the time. Most profiles are inadequate and far too brief so no suprise why they never hookup with anyone. IMHO don't waste your time on other hookup sites than Aff or CasualDating4u. Most of them are simply useless.

Thumbnail of user aarons81
1 review
33 helpful votes
February 23rd, 2016

I've known some people who use the site. I know a swinging couple and another a single man. They both set up meetings and sexual encounters with other members of the site, but they spent around 5 months to achieve that.
I personally prefer other sites which were also recommended by other members here:
hookuphangout.com and flirtydater.com. Both of them delivered great results for me within last few months.

Thumbnail of user jasonc339
1 review
10 helpful votes
April 29th, 2018

Adultfriendfinder seems like a good fit. But it's full of women who simply don't know what they want. But for now this and Casualdating4u are stil one of the best options. Casualsexonly is another good one I've found. Be careful though cuz I've spotted some fake profiles

Thumbnail of user dennisf42
1 review
4 helpful votes
May 29th, 2018
• Updated review

Its difficult to find and meet women who are genuine and really know what they want; there are many fakes but sometimes - like my 15 year affair which is still going - you can succeed. Since I wrote my first review, Ive had one casual encounter and locally Ive met one woman who shares my need for something outside our main relationships. So now I can enjoy time with two partners both married like me but strictly no strings. And Ill keep looking!

Mixed experience
May 29th, 2018
• Previous review

I joined in 2003, a married man looking for adventure outside my usual circle. Over the years I've had mixed experiences. I think in those early days, in Europe anyway, the women on the site were often escorts, and it took a while to find genuine people. I chatted with dozens, met and slept with a few in the first six months, as a result had one very active six month relationship and one still going strong with regular sex after 14 years. Definitely over the time I've been on the site the number of scams seems to have increased, although I have managed to enjoy myself with a number of like-minded women in different countries. I just do a bit of research before I travel. So you can have some fun if you take care. I have never advertised my 'equipment' on the site nor responded to women showing off their tops. Sex has to have some mystery, undressing is part of the fun. I also tried other sites with some success but the same issues. Buyer beware but it is possible to achieve what you want.

Thumbnail of user dustinh28
3 reviews
7 helpful votes
August 22nd, 2016

Wouldnt hurt to add more women of course but in general this is a site that I have been using quite nicely along with Hookuphangout.com and its a case of so far so good. I like the way the site works and its easy to contact members and check responses on mobile or whatever. I even had a chance to test the customer support due to an issue with my payment and that was top notch as well, so really have no complaints and once I start turing the dirty chats into sex sessions ill be a happy man!

Thumbnail of user phillipk19
1 review
2 helpful votes
May 22nd, 2016

After reading some of the reviews for AFF I had to add one, as I think they are a bit harsh. Sure, there are better sites (obviously HookupHangout.com or FlirtyDater.com springs to mind along with one or two others) but generally AFF is fine and no where near as bad as some are making out. If you want immediate results then thats what hookers are for. Try common sense and dont be scared of a bit of effort. Oh and patience is a virtue!

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