AdultFriendFinder

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France
4 reviews
17 helpful votes
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$40 down the drain. Spent on bots and fakes, because I believed that my profile had been viewed and liked by real people. Of course after I paid those profiles were nowhere to be found. You can't decipher who is who on AFF, there are just way too many scammers and fakes there, they draw you in by sexy profiles just to pull in some cash from you. AdultFriendFinder's conception sounds good in theory but fails terribly in implementation. I wish they cleared out all scammers but nothing deters them from getting on AFF. Anyway I left it because I don't want to waste months and years on sorting out all the scammers who have many slick schemes of fleecing you out of your money.

Date of experience: January 8, 2021
New Jersey
56 reviews
165 helpful votes
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It's an awful scam!
March 17, 2015

It has 40,000,000 members, but most of the profiles are fake! I reported all of the underage minors using the website and adult friend finder won't kick them off the website! This website is a total scam! Don't waist your money, and don't get into trouble with the law!

Date of experience: March 17, 2015
Arizona
1 review
0 helpful votes
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When your membership expires, you'll get flirts and emails that are totally bogus. I know, because I got a 'flirt' from a couple right after my membership expired, and so I emailed them to see if they had actually done that. They answered back that they had not, and they themselves had 'sent' emails to other members when they actually hadn't. Also, do the math and figure out their phony "Buy and 3 month Gold Membership and get 1 month FREE", scam. They are charging you for all 4 months. There is NOTHING free about it. Of course, if your $#*! is hard and you're hoping to hook up, you'll probably fork out the bucks like I did. It's pretty much a waste of time...

Date of experience: May 5, 2013
Ohio
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This site is real
August 10, 2013

This site is real. My wife has a profile on it and has met up with single guys. You guys who say it is a scam have got to realize the guys on here way out number the woman. My wife gets a ton of e-mails and no, she won't respond to all of them. She responds to the ones that meet her body type and read her profile. And if you are a single guy and are not in great shape, your odds will be very low as there are a lot of cut guys on this site. And if she doesn't get a recent face/shirtless torso pic, she deletes the e-mail. She has more problems with guys who don't look like their pics and say they will meet but chicken out at the last minute. Also, we met and partied with one of AFF's Marketing Reps at a Swinger Convention in South Beach in 2012. It is a real site.

Date of experience: August 10, 2013
Australia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Scam Scam Scam
April 23, 2020

What a joke, i have been on AFF for a month now and all that happens is you get messages from people overseas.
Any Australian messages are 99.9% scams. I wouldn't bother. You wouldn't be surprised if the site isn't writing most of the profiles.

Date of experience: April 23, 2020
15 reviews
222 helpful votes
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Stay away from adultfriendfinder, hit LL instead - This is not the site for anyone who is really in the lifestyle. I'm sure it is fine for newbies or single guys trying to hook up though. Read my post on LL
http://www.sitejabber.com/sites/www.lifestylelounge.com

Date of experience: July 15, 2008
New Jersey
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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I was on another site. Met a guy who told me about AFF. I signed up.

Have been on AFF for a little over a year and a half. Have nothing but praise. When AFF works, it WORKS! For the most part, I have met some truly wonderful men. Local men, business men coming through my area, couples. Overwhelmingly positive experience and exactly what I was looking for: no strings, no drama, casual sex. For this middle-aged, non-vanilla female, my inbox overflows. Every now and again there's a knuckle dragger or lunatic, but the MAJORITY of the men I've either met or chatted with have been funny, smart and kind. To the men out there, yes there are plenty of scammers, pros and fake profiles but you have to be patient, And yes, there are way more men on AFF then women. What works for me? Intelligence. If you approach me with that "wanna F***" crap, guess what, your email/message gets deleted. Do not expect a woman to f*** you that night. Use your other head, lol.

Date of experience: June 20, 2017
GB
1 review
18 helpful votes
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Once you join you can never cancel your membership and they will continue to charge your bank no matter how many times you delete your account. Extremely dodgy criminal company. Relying on embarrassment to not complain.

Date of experience: May 28, 2016
Austria
3 reviews
143 helpful votes
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AFF 2nd Review
January 22, 2016

I reviewed this site after I joined and promised to add another review after a month. Ive finished my subscription and wanted to report my research here. First of all, the site has a lot of real women, maybe not as many options as more modern sites like HookupHangout has, but still plenty to keep you busy for the first few weeks. Secondly, Ive not tried the app so this is only based on using the site on my laptop. Third, the site is easy to use and you can use your email to log in without having to go back to the site each time you want to visit the site. Ive not yet decided to renew or not, but probably will keep going as I feel im close to an actual hook up with some of the chats ive got going. Will write another review if I do.

Date of experience: January 22, 2016
Australia
1 review
3 helpful votes
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The site is full of scammers, the sites filters are usless, the women you met ( once you hook onto a local one near your area) when push comes to shove back down.
A lot of genitalia and cams if your into that, you could meet up with a genuine woman who wants a relationship but the you have to ask yourself, what are they doing on a casual dating site, probably they dont understand the term casual.
All in all if the guys a well endowed like a porn star you might just get luckey, but then again if they are well endowed they would not need to go on any of these sites!

Date of experience: April 15, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
9 helpful votes
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I contacted 100 women on AFF, and every one of them asked me for money for nothing. 100% of the women, if they were even women, were scammers. They have a great product that is over run by rats. If someone could build an algorithm to find the rats, and delete them, that per would instantly become a billionaire overnight.

Date of experience: February 27, 2020
Indonesia
11 reviews
66 helpful votes
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Outdated and useless
October 10, 2019

Imagine still using this site when Tinder and other FREE dating sites exists, with even more real people. Unlike this place which seems to be a compilation of scammers.

Just stop. This site hit its prime time way long ago when it was one of the pioneers of online dating. But now, don't even depend on it. Just find other trustable sites and stop the circle of lies, and surely you'll get what you want.

Date of experience: October 7, 2019
Idaho
1 review
1 helpful vote
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79 percent of the woman i contacted would date or be with me only in a sexual way requested a financial payment first, now AFF does say report if any one ask you for payment for there services yet 79 percent do, so they do nothing about it,, 15 percent would wont you to gmail them than have you sign up on another site were you would need to sign up with a credit card saying its free to sign up, but if you wont to send or receive messages you would have to pay a fee, 4 percent turned out to be bots, than the 2 percent you mite date you but would not bed you until they got to know you.

Date of experience: March 12, 2022
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Adult friend finder site is the first site that comes to any reviews that is regarding the adult entertainment. But AFF site rip you off remember. Standard contacts is 35 per month. As soon as you create a profile and uploaded a photo, you will get many messages from women/couples' that says has requested that we send you this icebreaker message What is Icebreaker?" and if you respond there is no response.
Another option I have tried is to use the gift card option instead of credit card, because I am not comfortable in using credit card details. For a 50$ target gift card, I got a 28 days of gold membership.

I talked to couple of profiles, many people say that those profiles are fake and they are not even women, one profile asked me to use a cam site to checkout.

So for no response from any profiles?. Especially if you are a single men, do avoid any such sites. I am not sure if any such sites are helping people to find their partners.

Date of experience: October 7, 2021
India
1 review
16 helpful votes
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Looks good
June 21, 2018

Been trying several hookup sites during the last months and Adultfriendfinder and Casualsexonly seem to be the best for now. Fast an easy sign up and the whole site is pretty straightforward. I spotted some fake profile but majority of the people seem real. Looks like a solid site to me. Think I will stick to it.

Date of experience: June 21, 2018
California
1 review
7 helpful votes
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First of all I was automatically upgraded. I live in Richmond Virginia and there about eight people in the city on the site. Most of them haven't been on in over 3 months. Make sure you delete your pictures

Date of experience: July 14, 2018
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Fake Money making App
September 1, 2021

I have been in AFF for over 4 years, I travel a lot, I change my location each time, with that being said. Every time... People that are Gold member are always 150 mile+ away, local members are never gold members that you can message or fake profiles. I think that they have a spam profile either views or messages you from time to time, to keep people to continue their subscription. I have never met anyone off this site...

Date of experience: September 1, 2021
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Don't call or email them they will not get back to you. Don't block the rude people on there b/c the block does not work. Don't think you always talking to a woman b/c its most men on there. You ask to talk to the woman half and all you get is good by or she is not here over and over. I just got one think left keep your money in your pocket b/c this site is not at all what they say it is. Your better off looking on facebook or tagged or meetme. 99% fake and lies...

Date of experience: June 24, 2014
India
3 reviews
17 helpful votes
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Great for girls :)
February 16, 2017

Great site for girls. As a woman you will meet men from all levels of society but be specific on your profile about what your requierements are.

I've met up with some nice and handsome men and as opposed to all the other hookup sites and apps Adultfriendfinder can be a fun site for women. At the end of the day in my opinion there are only two hookup sites which are female-friendly: Adultfriendfinder and Casualdating4u. I have made the experience that male members outnumber the female members on hookup sites but guys on those two sites are usually honest and suitable.
Have fun :)

Date of experience: February 15, 2017
New York
3 reviews
14 helpful votes
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I have tried to meet people on here over the last year... i tried over 700 profiles and i have not met one person. All fake profiles that want your phone number or email address. This is my last month of membership so i will be bowing out of this trash. The worst site i have ever been on. If you would like to waste money then this is the best way to throw money away. I have actually only spoke to on the phone 1 person... thats correct... 1 not 10... not 100 just 1 person in about 700 profiles i had contacted over the year. Dont waste your time or money.

Date of experience: October 26, 2021

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.5 stars from 613 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and gold membership. AdultFriendFinder ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
111
value
112
shipping
33
returns
50
quality
97
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